I’ve been binge-watching holiday specials on TV all month, blasting the season’s classics on my daily commute and savoring grandma’s scrumptious peppermint chocolate chip cookies for days now. This can only mean one thing: It’s time to come home for the holidays!
This time of year, people travel all over the world to spend quality time with their friends and loved ones. And traveling is the easy part—once you touch down in your hometown, you know your schedule will be packed with family-friendly activities: elaborate dinners, get-togethers, tree-decorating, last-minute shopping, family photos, dodging questions from your nosey aunt about your (lack of) love life or (lack of) starting a family… You get the picture. Continue Reading
If you’re anything like me, you prefer cold weather and cloudy days over scorching sunlight. I’m not a gloomy guy, but I’d rather throw on a jacket during the afternoon than sweat through my jockstrap. Even though the fall and winter seasons don’t get that cold in LA, I still look forward to cozying up at night.
Electric blankets and pricey hot plates might be the trendy way to stay warm, but I’ve always favored old-fashioned body heat. I can only stay so warm by myself, so cuddling next to a partner seems like the rational thing to do, right? As much I love a good cuddle under the sheets, I think a helpful hand or two might do me justice.
Thanksgiving is just around the corner, which means you have another great opportunity to get lucky with the one you love. I know, it’s not usually considered the most erotic holiday of the year (It’s no New Year’s’ Eve or anything). In fact, for most of us, getting into the holiday spirit means busting out our best pair of eating pants.
True, we all love a good feast, but pumpkin pie and turkey legs aren’t exactly the types of aphrodisiacs we’re looking for this season. No, the true sexiness of Thanksgiving comes from the “giving” part of the holiday… After all, the most attentive lovers are more likely to get more action year-round, so I guess you could say it pays to be a giver.
I pursued several talents in my college years to hopefully share with the world, but they never worked out for me. I thought about fashion design, theatre, and even accounting. I wanted to give back to the community, but couldn’t offer much. Then I started thinking about my talents, and they all led me to the bedroom, the janitor’s closet and the theatre parking lot. I met a lot of guys along the way, and they helped me find my calling; I give great head. Sure, it’s not what I was looking for, but you can’t deny raw talent. Someone spread the rumor (it was me) and I got a lot of practice in the sack. It’s safe to say my blowjob game is on point.
Now that Halloween is over, most people are planning their Thanksgiving feasts, decorating Christmas trees and growing facial hair. Wait, facial hair?… Really? Yes, that’s correct. Men everywhere will be growing out that facial hair, but it’s more than just a Snapchat filter. This month, we grow out our ‘staches for Movember, a month-long movement in November that promotes men’s health. Continue Reading
We go through a lot of different themes here at Sex With Emily, which means I’m constantly learning new things about my sexuality. This month, I took my research very seriously and committed to “Taking the ‘Freak’ Out of Freaky Sex.” I logged back onto my dating apps to start the process.
Most guys I chatted with started to ask the usual. Want to hook up? Need a friend? How are you still single? (Um, Thanks). My freaky sex month research was starting to look very vanilla until Mr.FetishFriendly92 found his way into my inbox.
I have always been a curious person, even as a young boy. Like most children, I couldn’t evaluate the danger of my surroundings. I would cuddle with dogs twice my size, grab spiders like they were toys and swim into the deep-end of the pool like I was Michael Phelps. It was my fascination with the unknown that led me into the arms of another man—as well as to my current position at Sex With Emily. Continue Reading
Last month, we tackled the topic of sexual confidence; this month, we’re delving a little deeper. If you haven’t noticed, people are becoming increasingly interested in more adventurous sex subjects. Several sex practices that may have once been labeled as taboo are now becoming more widely accepted, but there are still a lot of stigmas and misconceptions surrounding alternative forms of sex. These misunderstandings are not only hurtful for the people who practice them, they also stop people from exploring new things that they might really enjoy. Continue Reading
The most common question we receive here at Sex With Emily, in one form or another, is “How can I have better sex?” It’s an everlasting subject that spikes our curiosity because we all want to have the best sex possible. We’ve heard Emily say many a time that communication is lubrication—Yes, communicating your needs with a partner will totally get you where you need to go. But why stop there? Continue Reading
Although we only have one body to nurture throughout our life, it constantly changes as we age. Mine was skinny as a baby, short and chubby as a teenager and is now slightly taller as an adult. I learned to accept these changes because most of them were temporary at the time. Everything seemed fine until I started having sex with men. The body I grew to love became a list of flaws for another man to correct. Continue Reading