The holidays are right around the corner. Soon airports and roadways will be full of travelers trying to reunite with family and lovers alike, which can only mean one thing: everyone will be asking about your love life. As if the commercials, songs, and couples’ advertising weren’t reminder enough about your singledom, never fret! Your family is there to remind you once more.
Despite the looming threat of climate change, winter is still on its way (kind of) and along with it comes another change in season. For whatever reason, we are more inclined to stay in when “the weather outside is frightful.” Maybe it’s because the lack of sun is depriving us of energy and driving up our melatonin levels, or maybe it’s the appeal of cuddling up with a cup of hot chocolate. Whatever the case may be, it’s clear that the pumpkin spice lattes are upon us and so is cuffing season. Continue Reading
For most of us, when we think of the spirit Thanksgiving and how to celebrate it, we tend to focus on the first half of the word. We want to say thank you to everyone in our life that has helped us, been there for us, and has brought joy to our lives. One of the best ways to say thank you is in what you give back, whether it’s a tangible gift, an unexpected trip, or a moment that can be cherished for years to come. In the spirit of Sex-Giving, it’s time to give it everything you’ve got in the bedroom to say, “hey baby, you’re amazing and I want you to know it and feel it!” So, what better way to give your partner something sexy and special than a full on strip tease! Continue Reading
The vagina: a warm, moist cave of pleasure and mystery, surrounded by the wondrous valley that is the vulva. Women love them; men love them; but do we all really understand them? Most of us would like to say that the answer to that question is yes. Unfortunately for a portion of those poor souls, their knowledge barely scratches the clitoral hood. Just like a woman’s mind, vaginas can be hard to read. Even if you’ve been up close and personal with dozens, the complexity of the vaginal area cannot fully be conquered without some semblance of outside facts. Continue Reading
The walk of shame. Most of us are familiar with the act, many of us have experienced it. If you haven’t, you’ve at least caught someone in the midst of their own. The messed up hair, the unkempt outfit from the night before, the black smears of makeup, and if it was really a wild night, the shoes are in the hand and not on the feet. Continue Reading
As much as we would love for every guy to be an expert in cunnilingus, that dream is a far cry from reality. We know you’re not mind readers, and vaginas are about as similar as snowflakes. What works for one dame may not work for them all.
When done correctly, oral sex gives all the parts of the vulva the attention they deserve, and shows us that you want us to be just as sexually satisfied as yourselves. Needless to say, in most of your relationships, being less than amateur at going down on your girl can cause sexual chemistry to sizzle out. Continue Reading
When we hear the word ‘kinky,’ we tend to let our minds fall deep into the gutter of the possibilities this word can bring to the bedroom. Getting intimate with someone considered to be on the kinkier side means you most likely won’t be having your run of the mill sexual experience.
Whether you’re aware of where you land on the scale or not, we all have our own level of kink. Maybe you’re into handcuffs, having sex in remote locations, or you like taking a literalness to playing with fire; the list goes on forever. And, why these particular additions or ideas make us unable to control our urges may be indescribable, a mystery even to yourself. But hey, whatever works, right? Continue Reading
I began having sex at a relatively young age. I was 15 when my boyfriend and I decided we were going to lose our virginities to each other. Well, more like his friends asked when we were finally going to get it over with. Although it may not have come up for a few months if it was never brought to our attention, I was sure (at the time) that this was who I wanted to go through this life event with. Needless to say, that relationship lasted for maybe one more month before it was over.
From that point on, whenever I’d have sex with someone, it would be on their terms and not my own. All I wanted to do was please, because if he was having a good time, so was I… Or at least, I THOUGHT I was. I wasn’t even aware that my own sexual experience was being put on the back burner. I was young, I had no idea what an orgasm felt like, and the guys I was seeing only had their climax in mind. Continue Reading
It’s easy to forget about the double standards that surround sex when you’re an avid follower of Sex With Emily, especially when you work here. Yet, once I leave the office, it soon becomes abundantly clear that certain archaic ways of thinking about sex still exist.
Whether it’s from conversations I have with friends, cat-callers on the street, or scenes that pop up on TV, I am repeatedly reminded that, as a woman, there are always going to be people making assumptions about my sex life. They will pigeonhole and stereotype and doubt my ability to enjoy sex in a healthy way. They will form opinions, usually uninformed ones, based on what they THINK they know to be true. Because who’s more of an expert on my sex life than strangers?
NEWSFLASH: Women like sex just as much as men. Continue Reading
The results are in… There really is only one product that is clinically proven to effectively delay ejaculation.
Promescent is not only for men who experience premature ejaculation problems; it is for anyone that wants to last even a little bit longer or just wants a new bedroom experience — Just think of Promescent as the wingman you keep at your bedside table.
But maybe it’s not enough that WE are obsessed with it. Maybe you need proof. Scientists put the product to the test, so if you didn’t know the wonders of this magical product already, or if you’re just a Cynical Cindy, let the facts enlighten you.