Once upon a time, I took a man’s virginity. This isn’t odd or strange or unprecedented in human history, nor was it a “first” for me. The thing that made this experience, and the ensuing pseudo-relationship, remarkable was that this virgin (let’s call him Victor) was 32 years old.
Victor was not only a virgin of sex, he was a virgin of dating, relationships, ANY sexual activity and even close friendships with women. I was the first naked woman he had ever seen in real life, and I was the first person, besides himself, to ever take a peek at his penis. Continue Reading
. I’ve always been aware of my bisexuality. Before I knew anything about sexual fluidity or a binary orientation system or the Kinsey scale, I knew that I was attracted to girls and boys.
I don’t recall a moment of sexual self-discovery. Never did I “come out” to anyone. I didn’t struggle to accept myself as queer. My sexuality was just a truth of my life. It was as real and natural as the color of my skin, my shoe size, or pronunciation of my name. Being a “bi” girl was not something I ever struggled to embrace. Continue Reading
We’re on the eve of a brand new decade. It’s about to be 2020, and while contemplating my fresh resolutions, sex is at the front of my mind.
This year, I’m making a point to do things differently in my bedroom and in my sex life. I want to walk into 2020 unafraid and ready to challenge myself sexually and romantically.
These are my New Year’s Sex-o-lutions.
It’s Thanksgiving. And that means it’s the season for gratitude.
Everyone has something they’re thankful for. Maybe it’s your family, maybe it’s your partner. Maybe you’re thankful that you got a new job or learned a fun new sex position! Whatever the reason, we here at Sex With Emily are celebrating gratitude in any way we can!
This year, Emily has a special relationship she would like to express her immense appreciation for…
Are you ready to appreciate the wonder that is the Magic Wand? You’ll be thankful for it too this holiday season.
Most of us have a relationships that we wish we could just forget about.
Some of us have a few lost loves under our belts.
If you’re anything like me you have an entire luxury-sized walk-in closet filled to the brim with skeletons of romantic connections that you’ve managed to murder to death.
These are some bad dating patterns that if you’re lucky, you can manage to avoid completely!
I’ve been interested in sex and sexual images for as long as I can remember.
At a young age, I studied nude photos in National Geographic magazines. I drew pictures of naked bodies together. I would look at my own naked body, and imagine myself in sexual situations without even knowing what sex was.
So naturally, when it became available to me, I began to watch porn. Continue Reading
I have always struggled with guilt. Maybe it’s because I break too many rules. Maybe it’s because I was raised Catholic. Maybe it’s because I’m afraid self gratification marks me a narcissist. I don’t know exactly how I arrived to such a steady relationship with the feelings of guilt, shame and regret, but they are as constant in my life as blinking and breathing. And when it comes to sex, the guilt has always weighed a little more. Not only did I put it on myself, I felt that my friends, my partners, and society at large shamed me for my sexual appetite, orientation, and experience. I always wanted too much from too many people, and for some odd reason, was undeserving of the pleasure I unconditionally derived from sex. Sexual guilt is a buzzkill, and I’ve made it my mission to overcome this behemoth in the name of sexual confidence and self-love.
It’s no secret that vibration is a clit’s best friend. The rapid, unrelenting, movement to-and-fro…The brisk, continuous oscillation… The unmatched moment of a tremor-triggered orgasm. It’s the foundation of a harmonious masturbatory bond between a woman and her sex toys. But just like the rest of our bodies, every clitoris is unique in it’s appearance, demeanor, and it’s taste for being tickled. Some clits like a gentle tap to get them going and some need a raucous rumble to rev their engines. Continue Reading
On June 3rd, a rape victim shared the harrowing story of her assault in an open letter to her rapist. In her statement, she revealed details of her treatment following the vicious attack, the additional trauma she experienced during the trial and her utter dismay at the judge’s light sentencing—The attacker was convicted of 3 felonies, but was only sentenced to a mere 6 months in a county jail.
This horrifying event brought many issues to light: The harmful effects of privilege in our justice system, the shameful treatment of assault victims and the ever-growing epidemic of sexual violence on college campuses. Continue Reading
Today’s show is all about exploring your deepest desires! Emily is joined by the stars of Showtime’s steamy new late night show Submission to discuss love, kink and the erotic nature of consent. Continue Reading
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