Become A Man Who Knows What to Do with His Hands
Don’t worry, you don’t need to run out and get an electric guitar to get laid, you just need to know how to play with her clitoris. With a little rhythm and a lot of lube, you can make her sigh and moan. Here are some tips for what he should do with his hands.
1. Get Her Hot and Bothered
Spend a long time making out, rubbing up against each other, and nuzzling, before going below the belt. The more time you spend NOT touching her down there, the more she’ll want your hands to slip down her pants.
Also, without a proper warm up, clitoral contact can feel abrasive and even hurt. While men are ready the second they drop trough, women need more time to get turned on. Touching her and playing with her clitoris is a great way to get her hot and bothered before sex.
2. Rub her Clitoris
Once you get her self-lubricated use some lubricant to rub her clitoris in a circular motion with the index and middle finger. Slowly increase speed, but don’t get too rough. Pay attention to how she reacts. Is she sighing in pleasure or laying back in boredom? Mutual masturbation is a great way to find out what to do with your hands because she’ll demonstrate what she likes.
3. Hit Her G-spot
After paying proper attention to her clitoris, slip your fingers inside her vagina and make a “come hither” motion with your palm facing up. Hit her G-spot in a rhythmic motion. Depending on her preference, a fast moving middle finger can feel amazing. This fast finger maneuver is best done when your body is positioned in front of her vagina, sitting between her legs. In this sitting position you can also insert your index and middle finger into her with your palm facing down. Then turn your hand inside of her so that your palm in facing up. This screwing motion can be extremely pleasurable.
See how she responds and decide whether you should stick with clitoral stimulation or really go for that G-spot.
4. Clitoral & G-spot Stimulation
If she likes clitoral and G-spot stimulation, why not go for both?Another technique you can master is using both hands at once. One hand covers the clitoris while the other hand stimulates the G-spot. The multiple sensations will increase her chances of climaxing.
Even though technique is important, listening to her reactions is the most important element to becoming a man who knows what to do with his hands. If she moans, keep on doing what you’re doing even if your arthritic fingers are about to snap off. If she wants it faster, give it to her faster. If she wants it slower, slow the **** down.
Once you put a finger on what she wants, give her a clitoral, G-spot, or combined orgasm. Her pleasure is in your hands.