1292551583526916423As much as we would love for every guy to be an expert in cunnilingus, that dream is a far cry from reality. We know you’re not  mind readers, and vaginas are about as similar as snowflakes. What works for one dame may not work for them all.

When done correctly, oral sex gives all the parts of the vulva the attention they deserve, and shows us that you want us to be just as sexually satisfied as yourselves. Needless to say, in most of your relationships, being less than amateur at going down on your girl can cause sexual chemistry to sizzle out. Continue Reading

mgid-ao-image-mtvHi Emily,

I am single and dating—mostly online. And a lot of women will ask me, usually on a first date, what I’m into sexually, especially whether or not I’m a boob or butt guy. I have a mild foot fetish and in most of my previous relationships, I never really had to tell my partner. I would just slowly introduce it in the bedroom and they would always be on board with it, because by that time we already liked each other.

This isn’t something I feel comfortable talking about on a first date, and fortunately every girl so far thinks it’s pretty normal. I wanted to ask you if you were on a date with me and asked me that question, and I gave a ‘vanilla’ answer, but then later on in the bedroom I introduced it or mentioned it, if you would feel that you were lied to….



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strawberryHow well does your partner know your body? If you had to think about it, they probably don’t. I mean, do you think you know your partner’s body any better? Gotcha!
Now I don’t want to start guilt tripping you or anything, but seeing as our bodies are hard-wired for pleasure, it’s about time we start paying attention to what makes them tick. Next time you embark on a full-body exploration between the sheets, take notice of how your partner is responding to your best moves. Does his back curve when he’s on the edge of orgasm? Do her legs twitch when you’re teasing her clitoris? Our bodies are always sending signals during sex. Can you read the signs?
You don’t need to be a fortune teller to read your partner’s body language, just stay focused.  Pam shares how using all her senses helped her be more present in the bedroom in the latest Down to There blog….

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6836974812_acc94aedacI have always been a curious person, even as a young boy. Like most children, I couldn’t evaluate the danger of my surroundings. I would cuddle with dogs twice my size, grab spiders like they were toys and swim into the deep-end of the pool like I was Michael Phelps. It was my fascination with the unknown that led me into the arms of another man—as well as to my current position at Sex With Emily. Continue Reading


“Dear Emily,

I’m not with a partner at the moment but I masturbate regularly. I know how to make myself have an orgasm and after I do, I feel satisfied, but I want to go again. Trouble is, I have to take a break for about ten minutes because otherwise it will take me a very long time to orgasm again and I usually give up before then. I’ve always wanted to be able to have multiple orgasms (within a minute or two of each other) but I’ve never been able to. My question is, is there any way to train yourself to have multiple orgasms?”



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6360066637797924901085796701_500x500Despite the recent rise in Box Office popularity, there are a still lot of misconceptions out there about BDSM. In the media, it’s often portrayed as high-risk and those who practice it are viewed as disturbed, troubled or damaged in some way (Think Christian Grey screaming “I’m 50 shades of fucked up” and you’ll get the picture). Not so long ago, participation in fetishism and sadomasochism was actually considered a mental disorder by health professionals.  Continue Reading

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