Orgasms

Dear Emily,

I can only orgasm if my mind is completely engaged in some kind of elaborate fantasy situation. I have to imagine an over-the-top kind of sexy situation, even if I am totally into the guy I am with. I feel bad because I’m not entirely present in the moment and if he knew my mind was elsewhere he would probably feel bad too! Is this a common problem? Do you have any ideas of how to orgasm without mental stimulation?
Thank you!
Catherine,  Ohio

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Sorry guys, she might be faking it. Emily talks about the signs she’s faking it and the ultimate sign she’s actually about to orgasm. Not faking it is extremely important for both women and men’s sexual experience.

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Emily talks about Halloween night and going home to Michigan for Thanksgiving. Emily and Menace compare what’s on their sex bucket lists and discuss the most fun places to have quickies.  Also, a man confuses a donkey with a prostitute, semen strips, dating on demand, and female ejaculation.

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Emily goes on the Today show in New York and Menace gets sex wounds on his birthday. Emily and Menace celebrate Halloween by trying to figure out if your partner is trick or cheating– the signs that you are being cheated on. Also,  masturbation guilt and should Emily finally sign up for eHarmony?

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Why women love the bad boy and why Menace isn’t having sex– it has nothing to do with him being a nice guy. Serial monogamy, how to talk dirty, making noise during sex, losing your virginity at 30, and why you might need a “slump-buster.” Also, how to be a better kisser, what being “on break” really means to your relationship, and the importance of having an emotional connection during foreplay.

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Guest Dr.Jallen Rix talks about pleasing the prostate, experiencing deeper orgasms, backdoor sex toys, and stimulating your ultimate pleasure spots. Emily and Rix discuss how to become open to new experiences and how to share your fantasies with your partner. Also, sex homework assignments and why sex is like a pie.

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Monogamy

Dear Emily,
I have a question. I have communicated to my partners that I don’t want a complete commitment and want to keep things light. They don’t listen. I try to spell it out. I try to be subtle. Nothing seems to work. I don’t have a fear of monogamy but was in a long marriage where sexual compatibility was terrible. She made me feel awful for wanting it. I just wanted to point that out before my question rattled the monogamy bell.
Great show. Keep it up!
Dan
Los Angeles, CA
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