DEAR EMILY,My boyfriend and I have always had frequent, great sex, but right now I’m in a dry spell. We’re having a hard time getting on the same schedule.
When we have sex it’s great, but we never seem to be wanting it at the same time.
I’ve also had another issue: I’ve been getting dry with condoms. It’s making sex uncomfortable and hard to enjoy. Help!
Sincerely,
Cathy
Dear Emily,I am on a mission to have regular orgasms, and since I’m currently single, this has mostly been a solo orgasm mission.
I’ve been taking all of your advice: I’ve got the sex toys and the lube, I know where all my hot spots are and I know how to touch them… but I’m still only orgasming a third of the time.
It’s so frustrating! Sometimes I will be right on the cusp of climax, but for some reason, I just can’t get all the way there. What am I missing here? Help!
Sincerely,
Orgasm Blocked.
Dear Emily,
I’ve been in and “on and off” relationship for three years now that is currently on its way to being “off” again.
I feel we’re just stuck in a cycle of break-up and make-up, and I don’t think that it’s doing either of us any good.
How many times do you try to make a relationship work before calling it quits?
Thank you,
Jane.
Dear Emily,When I’m having sex with my boyfriend, I think about girls to turn me on.
Only then do I have an orgasm.
I know I don’t like girls, but I feel so awkward about what I’m doing.
What’s your opinion on this?
Thanks!
Laura.
Dear Emily,What are your thoughts on morning sex when one person just isn’t a morning person?
My boyfriend and I have a great sex life, but he gets up early for work and sometimes tries to initiate morning sex.
I have never been a morning person, and until I get a cup of coffee, I am not very nice.
We have had morning sex before and it was great, but I feel like he would like to do it more often. What would you suggest?
Thanks,
Sherri.
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I love your show and really appreciate your advice. My question isn’t about sex though, it’s about kissing. Hope that’s okay.
I’m wondering, how important is a guy’s ability to deliver a kiss to women?
Also, can a guy who struggles to deliver the kiss ever make it up somewhere else?
I’m really nervous about my kissing skills, and I want the women I date to like me.
It’s making me really nervous, especially on first dates.
Thanks,
Jeff
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I like to consider myself a fairly sexually educated woman, but I have NO idea what to do when it comes to being on top during sex.
The few times I have tried it, I felt so awkward that it ended up killing the mood.
Now I’m worried that my inexperience will be obvious to my next partner…
Are there any tips you can give me to help me get better at girl-on-top?
Thanks,
Angie.
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I started listening last month and I have to say I love your show. I am learning a lot! Thank you!
I wanted to ask about a small issue of mine that has recently become more serious.
My boyfriend is quite a bit younger than me and wants to take it slow.
We have been together for 9 months now and although I please him orally and enjoy it, he never quite gets the hint that I want to receive some kind of pleasure back. Continue Reading
First off, I learn so much from your podcasts, thank you!
I am 36 and recently separated from a 16-year relationship.
After waiting eight months, I decided I was ready to start dating again.
A few colleagues of mine recommended some dating apps, so I checked them out. I went on two Tindr dates and they went horribly.
Then I gave it one last shot and started talking to a guy six years older than me. We have been talking for two weeks but haven’t met in person yet. So far, our connection has been great!
So here’s my question for you: Is there a certain timeline to meet this guy and move forward from there? What do you suggest when it comes to going from cyber- and phone-chatting to meeting IRL?
Thank you,
Laura, 36, Texas. Continue Reading
