I like to consider myself a fairly sexually educated woman, but I have NO idea what to do when it comes to being on top during sex.
The few times I have tried it, I felt so awkward that it ended up killing the mood.
Now I’m worried that my inexperience will be obvious to my next partner…
Are there any tips you can give me to help me get better at girl-on-top?
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I started listening last month and I have to say I love your show. I am learning a lot! Thank you!
I wanted to ask about a small issue of mine that has recently become more serious.
My boyfriend is quite a bit younger than me and wants to take it slow.
We have been together for 9 months now and although I please him orally and enjoy it, he never quite gets the hint that I want to receive some kind of pleasure back. Continue Reading
First off, I learn so much from your podcasts, thank you!
I am 36 and recently separated from a 16-year relationship.
After waiting eight months, I decided I was ready to start dating again.
A few colleagues of mine recommended some dating apps, so I checked them out. I went on two Tindr dates and they went horribly.
Then I gave it one last shot and started talking to a guy six years older than me. We have been talking for two weeks but haven’t met in person yet. So far, our connection has been great!
So here’s my question for you: Is there a certain timeline to meet this guy and move forward from there? What do you suggest when it comes to going from cyber- and phone-chatting to meeting IRL?
Laura, 36, Texas. Continue Reading
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Lindsay here from Los Angeles. I love your show and following your tips has truly helped me have the best sex of my life.
I’ve done something that I know is wrong, I went snooping. Reading my boyfriends emails and texts.
I was hurt so badly in my last relationship that I look at this as an insurance policy.
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I live in San Francisco and although I’m only 24, I haven’t had sex in over a year, and now I’m beginning to date a new guy who is great.
I’ve never been nervous to be intimate with a man before, but now every time we get close I get super awkward.
I feel like I’m not sure how to “be” with anyone anymore, and I’m getting in my head about it. Please help! Continue Reading
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I’m a big fan of masturbation.
It’s something I’ve done since I was a teenager, and feel like I’ve always had a pretty healthy outlook on what it brings to both the self-care and partnered sex arenas.
Fantasy, of course, often goes along with it. But for the past couple of months, I’ve had one particular thought that I can’t get off my mind. Much less, have been able to figure out…
Is it normal to want to eat your own ejaculate?
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I’ve been dating my boyfriend for the past 5 months and in the beginning, sex was very intimate and slow.
I felt like it was equally rewarding, when we first started having sex.
But lately, when we have sex he isn’t reaching climax vaginally like before…
How do I approach women? Growing up in SF during the seventies was not great for a men’s sense of masculine self, hearing what “pigs” men are.
I want to express my interest in women, but in a respectful way and I feel lost.
It’s not fun to choke all the time, even when I know a woman is into me… Continue Reading
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I’ve been listening to your podcast and visiting your blog for a long time, and I want to thank you for being so inclusive.
Specifically, I’ve noticed you mentioning a lot of solutions for men with E.D.
Maybe I’m just paying attention more now because I now find myself in that category…