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kinky quarantine blog sex with emilyWhen more and more of us have been under government mandates to “shelter in place” or stay “safe from home” or, in other words “Quarantine and Chill,” it has brought up all kinds of issues in our lives…and emotions.

One minute you’re feeling frisky, the next you’re chugging wine under your weighted blanket watching The Tiger King. Yeah. It’s “Love In the Time of Corona,” baby.

Well for us kinky folks (or those who would like to be), Covid-19 can be a real boner kill. But don’t despair! You might be tempted to go all vanilla right now, but your kink flag is still there! So let’s see how we can keep it flying, shall we?

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dpy bdsm blog sex with emilySo, you’re stuck at home with your sweetie. You’ve cooked soup, watched everything Netflix has to offer, and…now what? Well, may I suggest getting your heart racing with some BDSM? Now that we’re all home alone, trying something new sexually is easier than ever. But…where to get those supplies?

Don’t wait around to have nipple clamps delivered or break the bank getting the custom made paddles of your dreams. You’ve probably got most of the stuff you need to get started in your own house. We call these items pervertables: regular items that you can pervert to make all your sexy BDSM fantasies come true.

So without further ado: here’s some DIY BDSM tools you might have laying around your house, and what to do with them.

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furries blog sex with emilyFaux fur, big ears, cartoonish eyes—to some this might sound like the aisle of a toy store. But to others, it’s their community. And though you may not see them, there are plenty of furries out there.

Most people have at least heard of “furries”. As a subculture, it has earned a colorful reputation over the years. Perhaps you’re someone who only really knows about it from that one episode of CSI, but the truth is there’s a lot more to the furry community than meets the eye. 

So let’s get into it.

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non-sexual blog sex with emilyWhen I say I am a “BDSM coach,” people often respond with wide-eyed surprise. Of course the titillation is there when people hear “BDSM”, especially thanks to 50 Shades. But I think it is mainly because “BDSM” screams “kinky, unconventional naughty sex” to people.

There are many aspects of BDSM that do not include sexual contact at all. Some activities are also what I would consider “sex adjacent”. This means there is no sexual genital contact, but there might be some sexual allure/arousal occurring.

This article provides some examples of the glorious non-sexual aspects of BDSM.

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macrophilia blog sex with emilyAnother day, another fetish spotlight—today’s of which is all about macrophilia.

Drawing from high school Latin classes you definitely remember, you might have a guess as to what the term means. But we’re here to clear the air and give you a detailed run-down of this fetish. To no one’s surprise, macrophilia translates to “lover of large”.

Think Alice and Wonderland, Attack of the 50 Foot Woman, that one episode of I Dream of Jeannie and I think you’ll start to catch my drift.

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dominant blog sex with emilyBack when we had another sequel to the 50 Shades trilogy to look forward to, some of us could at least fantasize about doing some of the steamy things dominant Christian and submissive Anastasia were doing.

This year, if you want to spice up your sex life on Valentine’s day with some BDSM, you’re going to have to DIY without the box office fantasy. This is a good thing, as the movies were problematic anyway as far as proper and ethical BDSM behavior is concerned.

Lucky for you, this article is comin’ in hot! And just in time for the big V day. If you haven’t yet planned and executed a BDSM “scene,” Valentine’s day is the perfect time to do it!

So, let’s get you strapped in, tied down, and focused on the following steps and tips to set up a hot and fun BDSM scene for your Valentine this year.

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voyeurism blog sex with emilyCuriosity may have killed the cat, but for humans it’s second nature—especially when it comes to the body. Which is why it’s no surprise that we get a rush from catching someone in an intimate act.

In fact, it’s one of the most common fetishes around. It’s called voyeurism.

Although, as is typically the case, that word can entail many different things. So let’s dive into the real-deal meaning of this particularly sexy scenario. 

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rough blog sex with emilyThe holidays can be a rough time of year. You have to save money to buy gifts, plan out dinners for family visits, make accommodations for traveling, all whilst having a cheerful heir about you.

Geez. I’m already ready for a nap. But, there can be use of all this newfound frustration. Channel your inner aggressions towards the place where dreams and orgasms come true— the bedroom. It’s time to have some of that primal, rough, and carnal sex that’s built into our DNA!

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cosplay blog sex with emilyCosplay (short for “costume play”) isn’t my usual jam, but I recently attended the comic festival Dragoncon in Atlanta. And it was so fun! I dressed up, had a great time, and met really nice, fun, creative people.

Dressing in a costume and seeing other adults in fictional character costumes was a treat. I loved it because I am a big proponent of play in general and of bringing more play in the bedroom.

 

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