I used to think that the phrase “Less is more” was a lie we told kids so they wouldn’t overdo it on the whipped cream, or sunscreen—basically anything that kids can get their hands on. Then I got older and started accumulating stuff, both literal and metaphorical. Suddenly the idea of “less” seemed a lot more attractive….
The holiday season is now upon us, and with it comes that inevitable heaping of holiday madness. What was once the most wonderful time of year has now become the most draining, between the parties and the gifting and the time spent with extended family. And despite what Hallmark would have us believe, the holidays are not so hot for our personal lives, either.
The further we get into November, the more I am reminded of why I love this time of year so much. No, it’s not the descent into deliciously chilly fall weather (it was 87 degrees in LA today). It’s not the arrival of all-you-can-listen-to Michael Bublé Christmas covers. And it’s definitely not the non-denominational, but oh-so-controversial, holiday cups at Starbucks.
No, the reason I adore this month above all others has more to do with the upcoming holiday—or more specifically, what that holiday represents. Continue Reading
What’s your hottest fantasy?
If someone were to ask you this question out-of-the-blue, you would probably find yourself feeling a bit taken aback. The reason for this is, fantasies are something we just don’t talk about. Continue Reading
At this point in the month, you know that sexual confidence means being able to ask for what you want, right? Well now it’s time to put those skills into practice. The folks at Vibratex (who brought you the Original Rabbit Habit) know that confidence is one of the sexiest things a person can cultivate, and they want to reward your hard work by giving away one of their best-selling sex toys—all you have to do is ask!
Just “LIKE” Vibratex’s Facebook page, click “Continue” and tell them which toy you’d most want to take home—at the end of the month, they’ll choose a winner to send the vibrator of their dreams. Will you pick the swirling Sugar Pop? The alluring Black Pearl? Whatever toy you choose, just make sure you do it with confidence…
We’re on to Week 2 of Back to Sexual Confidence Month and I’m loving all the amazing responses so far. This week, send your #1 sexual confidence tip to Feedback@SexWithEmily.com for a chance to win a goodie basket from System JO!
Keep up the great confidence-building work! Can’t wait to hear from you…
When most of us think of September, our minds automatically jump to Back to School. And it’s understandable! For most of our young lives, September marked a month for new beginnings and new learning. Sure, the days of Pre-Algebra and Post-Revolutionary American History may be long gone for us, but September is and always will be a great time to learn new things…. Like how to have better sex, for example. And the first step to having an amazing sex life is confidence!
Did your high school sex ed class leave a lot to be desired? Good news: Even though Adult Sex Ed Month is coming to an end, it’s never too late to pick up where your freshman health teacher left off!
Head over to the Sex With Emily Instagram NOW and leave a comment telling me what you wish you learned in high school sex ed for a chance to win a smart and sexy Mystic Wand vibrator by Vibratex. Can’t wait to hear from you…
Here’s the thing about masturbation: There’s no one right way to do it! Just like pizza, fro-yo or eyebrow maintenance, everyone likes it a little different, and that’s okay. In fact, I’d say it’s something worth celebrating…
Self-love has been a staple in human sexuality since the days of the ancient Rome, at least. Still, for every person who has their solo sex routine down pat, there’s someone else out there who is still struggling to find their masturbatory sweet spot. And what’s worse, there are even more people out there who are too shy to bring it up! That’s why, in honor of Masturbation Month, I want to know how YOU all show yourself the love, so to speak. Continue Reading
It’s almost summer, and I’m sure you’re all getting your beach bodies in shape for the season. But have you forgotten about those other muscles that need tightening? I’m talking about your pelvic floor muscles, or course!
To help you achieve all your pelvic floor goals, I’ve decided to offer a little incentive. I’m giving away my favorite automatic Kegel exerciser, the Intensity by Pour Moi!
Watch the video and read below for details on how to enter! Continue Reading