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b0e96454e2def8b0cf802394696d12b6June– Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Pride month– has come to a close, bringing with it the end of most of this year’s Pride parades. These are extravagant celebrations held in cities all over the United States to celebrate the true beginnings of the LGBT Rights Movement. People of every sexual orientation gather together, rejoicing in what has been accomplished for the LGBT community, as well as showing that the fight for equality is far from over. Continue Reading

hysteria_movie_stills_13With technology getting more and more advanced, a trip to your favorite sex store can get sort of overwhelming. It seems like there’s a sex toy for literally everything these days, although no one’s really complaining about that. We’ve got vibrators and butt plugs (and vibrating butt plugs!) that can be controlled by cell phones via Bluetooth. If you desire a dildo that thrusts, there’s one out there for you. If you want your clit sucked, there’s even a toy for that, too (shout out to the Womanizer)!

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vibevixen-black-woman-thinkingHi, Emily,

I’ve been listening to your podcast for two years and can’t get enough! Your advice for others has always been spot-on, so now I’ve got a question of my own. I’ve recently started to get serious about dating, and I think I’m finally ready to be in a relationship. I’ve met a couple great guys so far, but there’s one issue I keep getting hung up on: sex. I love sex and am very open, but I think that’s the problem. In the past, I’ve gotten into bed with guys pretty quickly, and it’s never turned into anything real. How long do you recommend dating someone before you start having sex? —Dee

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when-to-sext-w724To sext or not to sext? That is the question… At least, it used to be. These days, it seems like everyone has a naughty text or two stored in their inbox and according to recent research, this assumption is not far off. One 2015 study in particular surveyed 870 Americans, 88% of whom admitted to sexting at least once in their life. And these weren’t just millennials!

With the rise in dating apps and social media, it’s no surprise that sexting has become a pivotal part of the mating process. When done correctly, sexting can be seen as the modern-day equivalent of a steamy love letter, minus the debilitating hand cramp (Unless of course… Well, you know!) But send the wrong sext to the wrong person and you’ll be forever saved in their mind as awkward, offensive or downright skeezy.

So how do you know if your sexually explicit message will be received with a sizzle or returned with a restraining order? The success of any sext comes down to two important factors: content and context. What are you sexting? Why are you sexting it? And who are you sending sexually explicit messages to? Continue Reading

giphyI’ve always been aware of my bisexuality. Before I knew anything about sexual fluidity or a binary orientation system or the Kinsey scale, I knew that I was attracted to girls and boys. I don’t recall a moment of sexual self-discovery. I never “came out” to anyone. I didn’t struggle to accept myself as queer. My sexuality was just a truth of my life. It was as real and natural as the color of my skin, my shoe size, or pronunciation of my name. Being a “bi” girl was not something I ever struggled to embrace. Continue Reading

woman looking with a magnifying glass on her pubic hairThe vagina. The female sex organ. A woman’s genitalia.

It is one of the very few things in existence that garners universal obsession of the masses. It’s reputation is unmatched in its complexity. Some regard it as the holy grail of every prepubescent male. Some seek its amity for the entirety of their lives. Some call it the rubix cube of life.

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sex-ed-300x198Amidst the memories of high school, most of us probably recall a few horror stories, or at the very least, some unpleasant times. We’ve tolerated teachers we hated, suffered through classes that could never appeal to our interest, and had information shoved down our throat that only left us wondering, “how is this useful?” Regardless of usefulness, at least it was factual; it was knowledge.

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man-smiling-looking-woman-bedBy the time my boyfriend and I had settled into a sex routine, I had already forged a firm and profound bond with my Magic Wand. No person had ever been able to deliver the type of orgasmic experience that my wand and I shared. It satisfied my sexual needs efficiently and effectively, and continues to everyday, no matter my relationship status. Continue Reading

sex-ed-signThe month of June signifies a slew of special occasions. It marks the start of swimsuit season, reminds us all to appreciate our fathers, and signifies the beginning of summer vacation. But just because June brings about the end of the school year doesn’t mean our education has to stop with it. In fact, the month of June is actually Adult Sex Ed Month (thanks to sex educator and writer Bobbie Morgan)! You might be thinking Adult Sex Ed? We should all have that stuff figured out by the time we reach adulthood right? Well, unfortunately, this just isn’t the case. Continue Reading

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