Orgasms To All, And To All A Good Night

5892465824_72e11bb052_z

“Don’t stop, don’t stop, doooon’t stop!” She pleads on the brink of intense pleasure, and then…
“I’m coming,” he says.
Fine. I’ll just finish the job myself, she thinks as her boyfriend lies next to her in aloof  satisfaction.

Unfortunately, I know this scenario all too well. Sex can be incredibly enjoyable, but sometimes the experience can end a bit prematurely— can your lady-friend also attest to this?

Don’t fret, there is a simple solution.

Read More»

Sex Positions (To Approach With Caution!)

Flying-Circus-Sex-PositionEveryone wants to show off that they’re a dynamo in bed and to do this, different sex positions are a must! It’s important to know there is more to our sex lives than just missionary. Variety is the spice of life and makes things extra spicy in the bedroom. There are a ton of sex positions under the sun and a lot of them should be tried at least once. But some of them are a bit too dangerous and straining to even try.

Read More»

How To Feel Sexually Confident (At Any Size)

Coyote

Sexual confidence is a hard mark to hit for women, whether you’re a size zero or a size fourteen. We put so much pressure on ourselves to look and act a certain way but sexiness is something that starts from inside. It isn’t something that anyone else can give you.

Working at Sex With Emily, there is a constant stream of women – smart, beautiful and talented – who want to know how to feel sexier. The surprising part is that they come from women of all shapes and sizes. We all want to feel like the sexiest lady in the room, and when we don’t, it makes the whole act of having sex feel like faking it. We start to doubt ourselves and our relationships.

In my formative years, when my body made the jump from cute girl to chubby young woman, body confidence itself was a cruel joke. Even after I graduated high school and shed the weight, I never got over that feeling of wanting to hide my body and not feeling sexy in my own skin. No amount of sex or compliments could help me shake it. In fact, I still battle it to this day, and it weighs heavily on my relationship and my sex life. Constantly wondering “Does he find me attractive?” or “Can I really wear this?” or the ever-popular mid-sex thought:  “Do I really look sexy from this angle?” are all thoughts that will torpedo your sex drive if you let them.

Good Vibrations – a sex-positive company that specializes in woman-focused, high quality sex toys – launched a campaign called “Sexy At Every Size”. Their aim was to help women everywhere celebrate body-positivity and sexual empowerment for all body types, which I found to be really inspiring.

So in the spirit of sexiness at every size, here are some tips to help you cultivate that much-needed sexual confidence and learn to love the skin you’re in.

Read More»

Where To Go On Your Next Date Night

hustler-hollywood-sunset-5016a37bd0394a1e6d001090Coming up with fun and interesting date night ideas is tough work! By the 3rd or 4th month of seeing someone, you’ve pretty much exhausted your regular go-to activities and may have even fallen into a dating routine. You’ve got your favorite restaurants, your favorite karaoke bar, and if all else fails, there’s always Netflix and pizza delivery to fill in the evenings together.

What if I told you that I had a solution, something SO CRAZY that it just might work? This idea I’m referring to is definitely more creative than your average date activity. It’s inexpensive (depending on how much you take away from it) and entertaining. And I can tell you from experience, it’ll definitely give you and your significant other something to talk about.

Have you heard of Hustler Hollywood? (oh and they’re not just in Hollywood, they have locations around the country.)  It is an upscale, modern erotic boutique that offers a large selection of high-quality toys, lingerie and other sexy novelties. In layman’s terms, it’s a sex shop. So why the hell would you want to have date there?

Allow me to explain.

Read More»

What Side Of The Pillow Do You Wake Up On?

I’m at the International Lingerie Show in Las Vegas! I’m checking out all the latest, most innovative sex toys not yet on the market!

Stay tuned for updates on my Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.

If You Can’t Beat ‘Em.. Fake ‘Em!

WhenHarry460From Sex and the City to When Harry Met Sally to the cover of your latest Cosmopolitan magazine, pop culture has brought plenty of awareness to females’ dirty little secret of bedroom theatrics – It’s all out in the open. Unfortunately it has also created the idea in our minds that faking orgasms is a gender-specific trick, leaving us females seemingly safe and leaving men to flounder around in the gray zone of “Did she really orgasm?”doubts .Well, women everywhere are about to get a taste of their own medicine.. and let me tell you, it is bitter!

Read More»

My Boy’s New Toy

IMG_3290In the three months I’ve been a part of the Sex With Emily team, I have gone from a girl with one sex toy to a girl with a whole sex drawer. Now, this might freak some guys out, but I am lucky enough to have been blessed with an extremely open-minded boyfriend. When I come home with a new toy to try out or some “research” to do, my boyfriend is always more than supportive – In fact, sometimes I think he gets more excited than I do!

But recently I had started to get the notion that he might be feeling a little left out. Yes, our sex life has improved (check my last blog to find out how!) and yes, he gets to play with the toys too, but it seemed like I was the one having all the fun. I had multiple toys for my own pleasure, and the poor guy was stuck with just his hand to take care of him in my off-hours.

Here’s the thing about my guy: He is ALL about the gadgets. From the latest Apple products to the best razors to the top-of-the-line in E-Hookah accessories (he doesn’t even smoke..?), my boyfriend lives for new toys that can bring him enjoyment or make his life easier. Knowing this, and also keeping his super-powered libido in mind, I decided to get him something that would put a little boost of excitement into his solo sex life.

Read More»

Congress and Their Porn Problem

larry-flyntYou thought your porn collection was piling up but it’s the Congressional offices that have a porn problem.

Since 1983, Larry Flynt has sent the monthly magazine he founded, Hustler, to each and every member of Congress.

The dirty mag comes in a plain manila envelope, fairly undetectable to the poor intern or staffer tasked with opening the mail. And every month, there it is: Hustler, featuring dozens of naked or scantly dressed women, vulgar comics, and articles, some satirical, on politics, society, and sex.

This wasn’t just a gag on the government. For Hustler, it was a First Amendment issue. This was Flynt’s right to petition the government, he argued, and the court agreed, “Moses freed the Jews, Lincoln freed the slaves, and I just wanted to free all the neurotics.”

Read More»

Which States are Best if You’re Just Looking for Casual Sex or Even Just a New Friend [INFOGRAPHIC]

b3590bc486b10ba8c3ce9700d728cfc6Clover, an app that allows you to meet people who have the same sexual intent as you, has created a map. Think Tinder without the blind assumption that everyone just wants to have sex, because, there are those sick people out there who actually want real, meaningful relationships. Clover made the whole process cut and dry. If you only want NSA, then you’ll only meet people who are down with that arrangement. Looking for a new friend to explore the city with? Make an innocent enough connection with someone looking to explore the world too! By gathering their user data, Clover created this map detailing what each state wants the most.

Read More»

Emily Guests on “Let’s Talk About Sex” Hosted by Black Hollywood Live

Emily joins this episode of “Let’s Talk About Sex”, Black Hollywood Live hosts Spicy Mari, Drea Renee, and Phoenix White discuss relationships for the week of August 8th, 2014. They open up by discussing “Hollywood Hotties Doing the Naughty” featuring Olivia Wilde Glamour Magazine. Next they interview Dr. Emily Morse. They then discuss topics such as the biggest mistakes men make in bed and the biggest mistakes women make in bed. They round things off with a Naked Truth with Emily.

Watch more “Let’s Talk About Sex” on Black Hollywood Live

Can’t get enoughSexWithEmily?
Subscribe on iTunes and never miss your bi-weekly Sex With Emily podcast…

Page 1 of 512345
© Copyright Sex with Emily - ChickFlick Productions, LLC ®