The Sybian Diaries

Emily Sybian ArtsyI first laid my eyes on a real life Sybian back in January at the Sexual Health Expo, and I can honestly say that it was lust at first sight.

I was walking around the exhibition hall admiring the wide variety of pleasure products, when across the crowded room, a very enticing toy caught my eye. Of course, I had heard of the infamous Sybian before. Dave Lampert, the founder of Sybian, spoke at my grad school, and it had long been my dream to get up close and personal with this mysterious so-called orgasm machine.

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Confessions of a Handjob Hater

I have a confession to make: I hate giving hand jobs. There, I said it, I’m out. I’ve always found them to be awkward, exhausting and sort of pointless. Why work so hard to do something that any guy could do for himself — and do better, for that matter?

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Newsflash: Netflix and Chill, Not That Chill

Screen Shot 2015-11-22 at 8.55.54 PMNetflix and chilling… The two activities combined together are often associated with a lazy, relaxing night in, spent cozied up with blankets and junk food. Or, at least, they used to be. Now this term has taken on a meaning all it’s own and IT IS EVERYWHERE.

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How to Be Mo Sexy this Month

Screen Shot 2015-11-16 at 12.47.08 PMYou have probably heard of “No Shave November”, and maybe even participated in it. But what you might not know is that it’s not just a gimmicky rhyme for that reason, it’s actually bringing to light important issues for the wonderful charity Movember. What is Movember? The Movember Foundation is a global charity committed to improving the scope of men’s health and helping men to live longer and happier lives, guiding their focus to funding programs on combatting prostate cancer, testicular cancer, poor mental health and physical inactivity.

Since their start in 2003 they have grown millions of supporters from over 20 countries, $650 million in donations and have funded over 1,000 programs. They continue to raise funds through all of their 5 million + supporters and various campaigns, including what they call “Mo Bro’s and Mo Sista’s”, which is where we started our relationship with Movember!

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Self-Taught Lessons in Sex & Self Love

dff1409bf41e40adcb3373b1b227074aSexual interest began pretty early for me. I started masturbating when I was 7, lost my virginity at 15, and over the course of the following 12 years have had a full and diverse sex and dating journey. As my adulthood progressed, however, I found myself growing ever so slightly complacent. I noticed myself coasting along the crest of a sexual plateau, and falling into hazardous dating cycles and retrogressive romantic patterns. All my orgasms (even my self-induced ones) felt essentially the same, as did my interactions with prospective mates.

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#ThxBirthControl: A Love Story

tumblr_nokivh31vg1qkomroo1_540I am happy to announce that I have finally found THE ONE. I have to admit, it was rough going for a while. After my rocky history of incompatible pairings and utter disappointments, I often wondered if I would ever find my match, my perfect fit, the one that could keep up with my busy lifestyle and still make me feel happy and safe. I was sick of putting myself out there, time and time again, always starting off so full of hope, but ending up left with a roller coaster of emotions, physical pain and even the occasional rash.

But all of that is behind me now, because I am 2 years into the most successful relationship I have ever been in. We had a few bumps along the way, but I have never felt so safe, so free or so sure of anything in my life. No, I am not talking about my boyfriend (although he and I are doing great, thanks for asking!) I am talking about my current form of birth control.

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Lessons Learned From a Bad Breakup

Love-YourselfOver the course of my dating life, most of my relationships have been in the gray area between friendship and “Facebook Official” status.

Because I have always been an independent person, I never felt like I truly needed someone in my life. I never really pushed for full commitment from guys, unless they stated that’s what they wanted. As long as I felt like I was important to them, I wasn’t so worried about what they were doing when I wasn’t around. 

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I Think I’m Thankful For Porn… I Think


I’ve been interested in sex and sexual images for as long as I can remember. At a young age, I would study pages of nude women and men in National Geographic magazines in the library. I would draw pictures of naked bodies together. I would look at my own naked body, and imagine myself in sexual situations without even knowing what sex was. So naturally, when it became available to me, I began to watch porn.  

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We’re Thankful For…

la fwefIn order to kick off “Gratitude is Sexy” month the right way, I asked all of the members of my Sex With Emily team what they were most thankful for in their sex and dating lives. These ladies come from totally different walks of life, from their relationship status to their sexual experiences to the many ways they like to get busy, making them a great example of the many things we’ve all got to feel grateful for!

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When Sex Gets Scary

635607063067907992-1448363331_boy and girlAs much as we’d like to believe that sex is always an effortlessly romantic affair,  that’s sadly just not the case. Sex can be magical… poetic even, but it can also be messy, uncomfortable and downright awkward. So it’s inevitable that by the time you reach the status of expert-level lover, you’ll have at least a few skeletons in your sex closet.

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