Disappearing Dates

sad-woman-barTell me if this scenario sounds familiar; you meet a guy, either online or in real life. You hit it off and are constantly texting. Then you meet up once, maybe twice if you’re lucky. You think to yourself, “finally! I found the one. This is the guy for me!” Time passes and you don’t hear from this fella. A few texts he ignores later, and you realize you are never going to hear from this guy ever again. Well, I’m sorry to tell you that you fell for a disappearing dater.

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Extra Large Love

e0220cf92b3bf56583a5e839e183e71eThere is a new reality show out called, “Big Women, Big Love.” It’s about plus-sized women looking for love. Not surprisingly, the women featured on the show have a difficult time trying to date in a society where thin and ultra thin is “in vogue”, and it doesn’t look like that will change anytime soon.

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The Year of Self (Love)

e35d3eeca553f63d8975f7410273c9abLet’s talk New years Resolutions..

This new year I really want to try anal sex… I’m just kidding, mom. This year is not going to be about what I’m going to do. Instead it’s more about what I’m not going to do.

Sex is everywhere. The basis of every human interaction is rooted in sex– I don’t care if you’re buying a notebook at Staples, it’s somewhat sexual.

As you know, it’s incredibly easy for a woman to get sex. And I’ve had plenty. You could say 2014 was my year of sex.What I haven’t had plenty of is love. Love from lovers, yes, but mostly love from myself.

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Single & Ready to Jingle (Bells)

Bridget-Jones-s-Diary-778582Ah, the holidays. We are all conditioned to believe this is the most wonderful time of the year, but if you’re single, the holidays might take on an entirely new meaning.

Every song, every commercial, and every movie on basic cable paints a picture of the holidays being a time to celebrate with your significant other, leaving uncoupled folks everywhere wondering “What about me? Where’s my holiday happy ending?”

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Orgasms To All, And To All A Good Night

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“Don’t stop, don’t stop, doooon’t stop!” She pleads on the brink of intense pleasure, and then…
“I’m coming,” he says.
Fine. I’ll just finish the job myself, she thinks as her boyfriend lies next to her in aloof  satisfaction.

Unfortunately, I know this scenario all too well. Sex can be incredibly enjoyable, but sometimes the experience can end a bit prematurely— can your lady-friend also attest to this?

Don’t fret, there is a simple solution.

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Sex Positions (To Approach With Caution!)

Flying-Circus-Sex-PositionEveryone wants to show off that they’re a dynamo in bed and to do this, different sex positions are a must! It’s important to know there is more to our sex lives than just missionary. Variety is the spice of life and makes things extra spicy in the bedroom. There are a ton of sex positions under the sun and a lot of them should be tried at least once. But some of them are a bit too dangerous and straining to even try.

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How To Feel Sexually Confident (At Any Size)

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Sexual confidence is a hard mark to hit for women, whether you’re a size zero or a size fourteen. We put so much pressure on ourselves to look and act a certain way but sexiness is something that starts from inside. It isn’t something that anyone else can give you.

Working at Sex With Emily, there is a constant stream of women – smart, beautiful and talented – who want to know how to feel sexier. The surprising part is that they come from women of all shapes and sizes. We all want to feel like the sexiest lady in the room, and when we don’t, it makes the whole act of having sex feel like faking it. We start to doubt ourselves and our relationships.

In my formative years, when my body made the jump from cute girl to chubby young woman, body confidence itself was a cruel joke. Even after I graduated high school and shed the weight, I never got over that feeling of wanting to hide my body and not feeling sexy in my own skin. No amount of sex or compliments could help me shake it. In fact, I still battle it to this day, and it weighs heavily on my relationship and my sex life. Constantly wondering “Does he find me attractive?” or “Can I really wear this?” or the ever-popular mid-sex thought:  “Do I really look sexy from this angle?” are all thoughts that will torpedo your sex drive if you let them.

Good Vibrations – a sex-positive company that specializes in woman-focused, high quality sex toys – launched a campaign called “Sexy At Every Size”. Their aim was to help women everywhere celebrate body-positivity and sexual empowerment for all body types, which I found to be really inspiring.

So in the spirit of sexiness at every size, here are some tips to help you cultivate that much-needed sexual confidence and learn to love the skin you’re in.

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Where To Go On Your Next Date Night

hustler-hollywood-sunset-5016a37bd0394a1e6d001090Coming up with fun and interesting date night ideas is tough work! By the 3rd or 4th month of seeing someone, you’ve pretty much exhausted your regular go-to activities and may have even fallen into a dating routine. You’ve got your favorite restaurants, your favorite karaoke bar, and if all else fails, there’s always Netflix and pizza delivery to fill in the evenings together.

What if I told you that I had a solution, something SO CRAZY that it just might work? This idea I’m referring to is definitely more creative than your average date activity. It’s inexpensive (depending on how much you take away from it) and entertaining. And I can tell you from experience, it’ll definitely give you and your significant other something to talk about.

Have you heard of Hustler Hollywood? (oh and they’re not just in Hollywood, they have locations around the country.)  It is an upscale, modern erotic boutique that offers a large selection of high-quality toys, lingerie and other sexy novelties. In layman’s terms, it’s a sex shop. So why the hell would you want to have date there?

Allow me to explain.

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What Side Of The Pillow Do You Wake Up On?

I’m at the International Lingerie Show in Las Vegas! I’m checking out all the latest, most innovative sex toys not yet on the market!

Stay tuned for updates on my Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.

If You Can’t Beat ‘Em.. Fake ‘Em!

WhenHarry460From Sex and the City to When Harry Met Sally to the cover of your latest Cosmopolitan magazine, pop culture has brought plenty of awareness to females’ dirty little secret of bedroom theatrics – It’s all out in the open. Unfortunately it has also created the idea in our minds that faking orgasms is a gender-specific trick, leaving us females seemingly safe and leaving men to flounder around in the gray zone of “Did she really orgasm?”doubts .Well, women everywhere are about to get a taste of their own medicine.. and let me tell you, it is bitter!

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