December Sex-O-Scopes

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december blog sex with emilyDramatic and transformational Scorpio season is over, making way for expansive and visionary Sagittarius.

To celebrate, my Sex-O-Scopes are here to help you embrace the season.

Use this guide to harness the astrological influences of the month for your sexual benefit.

Sagittarius season officially begins on November 22nd, and lasts until the Solstice on December 21st, 2019. This fiery sign is governed by Jupiter, and is known for being adventurous and philosophical. Jupiter rules expansiveness and plenty, so what you focus on this month is what you’ll receive. Because of this, try and think grateful thoughts towards your money and your sexual pleasure and watch the dollars and orgasms roll in over the next month. 

In other good news, Mercury will go direct on November 20th. You should finally see a decrease in your technological difficulties, travel delays, accidents, etc. Hopefully, the tumultuous nature of Mercury Retrograde gave you some good insights. Use the clarity to get focused for 2020!

If you’re new to astrology, feel free to just look up your sun sign. If you’re more experienced in the astrological realm, you may enjoy looking up your Venus and Mars positions, as these rule your sex and romance zones.



(November 22 – December 21) 

This is your time to shine dear Sagittarius archers, your season is here! On December 9th you’ll host Mercury, the planet of communication, in your sign. Around this time you’ll notice your words flowing more freely, and it being easier than ever to speak your truth. Don’t be afraid to harness this active and open throat chakra in the bedroom with some dirty talk

On December 26th, the New Moon eclipse of the Sun will be in your Second House of Value. This will bring a much appreciated boost in your self-esteem and confidence. Make a list of all the things you love about yourself. Then have a beautiful self-love session with yourself to celebrate. 



(December 22 – January 19) 

My dear practical Capricorns will get to celebrate the last week of December in their season, when it officially begins on December 22nd. The planets are buzzing with excitement for your season! On December 2nd lucky Jupiter will enter your sign, and stay there for a whole year bringing you good fortune. 

This marks the beginning of a very expansive time for you. Be very mindful of where your thoughts go this year Capricorns, because Jupiter will magnify them. Mindfulness and manifestation will be useful tools to you, so don’t be afraid to amplify the potency with some mindful masturbation. Romantic Venus will be in your sign through till December 19th. Be sure to indulge in as much romance and self love as you can to celebrate.  



(January 20 – February 18)

On December 2nd, Jupiter will be lighting up your 12th House of Spirituality. Jupiter is an amplifying planet, so expect to see a powerful surge in your spiritual life around this time. Aquarians are already very ethereal and esoteric, so this should be intense! To harness the power for sex, engage in mindful masturbation or mindful partnered sex, explore yogic sexuality, or if you’re feeling particularly adventurous, try some sex magic

Then on the 20th of December, romantic Venus waltzes into your sign, lighting you up with her dreamy and indulgent energy. This will be in your First House of Self, so don’t be afraid to turn the energy towards yourself. Buy yourself fresh flowers and a new sex toy, take some sensual self-portraits, or get a new crystal (or crystal sex toy), whatever floats your personal boat.  



 (February 19 – March 20)

This should be an interesting month for the watery Pisces babes among us. On December 2nd, Jupiter, the planet of luck and expansion, will be entering your Eleventh House of Friendship. This is the perfect time to explore being set up, go on speed dates, or just simply be open to finding love through friendship. 

Then on December 26th, the New Moon Solar Eclipse will ALSO be in your Eleventh House of Friendship. So don’t be surprised if someone you considered “just a friend” tells you they have romantic feelings towards you this month.



(March 21 – April 19) 

On December 5th, the Moon enters Aries. This will bring a dreamy vibe to the first week of December for you. Even the most fiery and headstrong Aries folks will be feeling a little more emotional than usual. Don’t fight it! There’s nothing wrong with having feelings, in fact, it might even be a wonderfully positive turn in the winding road of your romantic story. 

Then on December 21st, Chiron, the planet known as “the wounded healer” goes direct in your First House of Self. This will bring some much needed self awareness to areas of yourself that are still in need of healing. You can support this healing through radical self-compassion and non-judgement. 

With all the Jupiter energy in the air, be especially careful of what you focus on this month, because what you focus on is what you’ll see the most of. Yogic sexuality practices and mindful masturbation will both be useful medicine to get you through this time. 


(April 20 – May 20) 

This will be a very interesting month for Taureans, with some real adventure and transformation of their relationship to love and sex. On December 13th, romantic Venus is conjunct Pluto in your Ninth House of Adventure. Pluto rules the taboo aspects of our sexuality, so this is the perfect time to sexually explore in a way that feels kinky for you

On December 27th the Sun is conjunct Jupiter, ALSO in your Ninth House. The Sun represents and affects your conscious mind, and Jupiter is the planet of expansion and luck. This means that you can use your focused thoughts to manifest adventurous and luxurious delights for yourself.  



 (May 21 – June 20) 

This is a powerful month of shadow work and transformation for the twinning babes. On December 2nd Jupiter is entering Capricorn in your Eighth House of Sexual Intimacy. This will be illuminating some shadow work you need to do around your relationship with your own sexuality.

This will look different for each Gemini, varying from healing sexual shame and trauma, explore new kinks, or even just unpacking and healing your sexual esteem. Dig deep and don’t shy away from what you find. The darkness is just as beautiful as the sunshine. 

Then on December 12th, the Full Moon will be in your sign. This is the perfect time for releasing rituals, so be sure to do that shadow work first. This will give you a good sense of what you’re ready to release. Releasing all that no longer serves you makes more energetic space for new and exciting sexual endeavors. 



 (June 21 – July 22) 

This is a powerhouse month to examine and heal all types of partnerships in your life, my tender Cancerian crabs. On December 2nd, Jupiter, the planet of expansion and luck, is entering your Seventh House of Partnership. This means that any thoughts and feelings you have about the partnerships in your life will be amplified, so it’s a great time to check-in with yourself and do some inner emotional housekeeping. Don’t believe everything you think. 

This is heightened around December 11th-13th, when Venus is conjunct Saturn and then Pluto, also in your Seventh House. Venus is the planet of love, Saturn rules meaning and structure, and Pluto governs our subconscious and shadow sides. Consider what meaning you’d like to ascribe to every one of your partnerships, what type of love you’d like to be having, and how you’d like to embody it in each relationship. 

With the New Moon Eclipse of the Sun on December 26th ALSO in your Seventh House, this is the perfect time to set some manifestations and intentions for these reframed partnerships. 



(July 23 – August 22) 

Your daily routine and health are in for a shake up this month my feisty lions. On December 2nd, Jupiter, the planet of luck and expansion, will light up your Sixth House of Routine and Wellness. When it comes to Jupiter, it amplifies your thoughts out into the physical realm. So, this is a key time for you to watch what you think! Especially about yourself. 

Knock off that negative self talk and start telling your body how much you love it. Leo’s love compliments from others, but it’s long past time for you to give yourself that validation from within. 

Create a new routine of saying out loud three things you love about yourself every morning when you brush your teeth. Try implementing a positive change to your wellness routine. With the New Moon Solar Eclipse on December 26th also in your Sixth House, this is the perfect time to make those wonderful wellness habits a resolution for the new year. 



(August 23 – September 22) 

Earthy and practical Virgo’s are in for a shock, with their Fifth House of Romance and Creativity being lit up all month. On December 2nd, Jupiter, the planet of luck and expansion will enter your 5th house. This is a perfect way to begin the month, as it will help expand your ideas of how both romance and creativity should look. Make a list of at least 5 creative projects and 5 romantic activities you’d like to explore. 

Then on the 26th of December, the New Moon in Capricorn Solar Eclipse will ALSO be in your Fifth House of Romance and Creativity. This will bring in new and exciting ideas and stimulation. However, it being in Capricorn will keep it earthy enough that you’ll stay interested. Don’t be afraid to try something new and kinky, and/or explore your sexuality. It would be the perfect month for it. 



(September 23 – October 22) 

My flirtatious Libra darlings will be seeing some lovely changes to their domestic life this month. On December 2nd, Jupiter, the planet of luck and expansion, will light up your Fourth House of Home Life. You’ll be craving staying home and decluttering. Try Marie Kondo-ing all your sex toys, but also Marie Kondo your sexual mind. Journal about any old sexual patterns or limiting sexual beliefs that might be cluttering your sex life. 

This is heightened around December 11th-13th, when Venus is conjunct Saturn and then Pluto, also in your Fourth House. Venus is the planet of love, Saturn rules meaning and structure, and Pluto governs our subconscious and shadow sides. Consider how your home life up to this point (particularly your early influences social and cultural influences) may have shaped your romantic and sexual narrative. Let’s leave Disney dating to Walt. It’s time to take charge of your story.



(October 23 – November 21) 

Scorpion babes will have the pleasure of hosting Mars, the planet of sex and aggression is their sign all month. This should make you fairly amorous, but also self-reflective. With Jupiter, the planet of luck and expansion, entering your Third House of Communication on December 2nd, the month will start with a bang. Carefully consider the way you speak to others (and yourself), because Jupiter will make your thoughts a reality. 

On December 26th, the New Moon Eclipse of the Sun will be in your Third House also, which will push you out of your comfort zone. This is an ideal time to try new things in the bedroom, and don’t be afraid to take some sexual risks. The reward will be well worth it.  


Happy Sagittarius Season everyone! Time to expand…



Isabella Frappier is an Australian ex-pat living in LA, who swapped gumtrees for palm trees. She’s a writer and a holistic Sexuality Doula, who specializes in body literacy, sexual sovereignty, and BDSM.
She is also a host on the popular new Sex Magic Podcast. When she’s not busy championing her sex positive agenda, she—oh wait—she’s always busy doing that. Follow her adventures on Instagram.
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