On today’s show, we’re on the Sex with Emily hotline, taking your calls and answering your sex questions live!
We go through a lot of different themes here at Sex With Emily, which means I’m constantly learning new things about my sexuality. This month, I took my research very seriously and committed to “Taking the ‘Freak’ Out of Freaky Sex.” I logged back onto my dating apps to start the process.
Most guys I chatted with started to ask the usual. Want to hook up? Need a friend? How are you still single? (Um, Thanks). My freaky sex month research was starting to look very vanilla until Mr.FetishFriendly92 found his way into my inbox.
As much as we would love for every guy to be an expert in cunnilingus, that dream is a far cry from reality. We know you’re not mind readers, and vaginas are about as similar as snowflakes. What works for one dame may not work for them all.
When done correctly, oral sex gives all the parts of the vulva the attention they deserve, and shows us that you want us to be just as sexually satisfied as yourselves. Needless to say, in most of your relationships, being less than amateur at going down on your girl can cause sexual chemistry to sizzle out. Continue Reading
I am single and dating—mostly online. And a lot of women will ask me, usually on a first date, what I’m into sexually, especially whether or not I’m a boob or butt guy. I have a mild foot fetish and in most of my previous relationships, I never really had to tell my partner. I would just slowly introduce it in the bedroom and they would always be on board with it, because by that time we already liked each other.
This isn’t something I feel comfortable talking about on a first date, and fortunately every girl so far thinks it’s pretty normal. I wanted to ask you if you were on a date with me and asked me that question, and I gave a ‘vanilla’ answer, but then later on in the bedroom I introduced it or mentioned it, if you would feel that you were lied to….
Live from this year’s Sexual Health Expo in New York, Emily is talking with Stephanie from We-Vibe about their sexy Dreamy Desire collection, featuring some of Emily’s favorite toys for couples use and self-play!