Slow Sex: Let’s Make Love!

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Sometimes taking it slow isn’t a bad idea… and I’m not talking about waiting to have sex. Slow down your movements to have better, longer-lasting sex. Sure, a wild night in the sack can be extremely hot, but slow sex can create a wonderful, sensual experience. Plus, the longer you stimulate her and the slower you take things, the more likely she will have an orgasm.

Slow sex isn’t just better for her. Slowing down your movements will help you experience stronger orgasms, because the slower you take things the closer you will get to orgasming without going over the edge. When you finally do orgasm the release will be that much sweeter.

How do you slow down sex without turning off the heat? Grind her slowly to hit all the spots you want to hit. You want to grind against her clitoris as much as possible. The clitoris is the key to female orgasm.

It will feel good for you to alternate between long and short strokes because your two most pleasurable points are the top of the penis near the head and the prostate near the bottom. These strokes will help you get stimulation you might miss while having fast, jackhammer sex.

You will last longer, have more time to perfect your movements and have a better chance of making her orgasm. Rub her clitoris with your penis, spiral your waist clockwise and then counter-clockwise, and switch from shallow to deep movements. The slow speed will allow you to really get in there and explore. When is comes to making love there really isn’t anything like sensual, slow sex. 

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Excerpt from my book, Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight