This is a Sex With Emily first! We know how much you love roundtable shows with lovely ladies, but today’s a roundtable of three real and down-to-earth guys to talk all things sex and relationships!
I’m just going to put this out there — I have had quite a bit of mediocre sex.
No disrespect to my past partners, I certainly had a part in it as well. I expected them all to read my mind and KNOW what I wanted, without ever actually telling them what I wanted. And like many women out there, I gave epic orgasmic performances and handed out positive feedback to guys who didn’t even come close to earning it.
And then something wonderful happened. The sex started getting better! A lot of that had to do with the fact that I started to figure out what I liked in bed and became more comfortable asking for it. But there was also a shift in my partners’ bedroom attitudes that made a big difference. Whether I was choosing more considerate guys, or the guys I always flocked to had done some maturing, I can’t be sure. But all of a sudden, my partners genuinely cared about whether I was having a good time. And as a result, I WAS having a good time. Continue Reading
They say “Life is too short not to orgasm everyday”… Now I don’t know who “they” are exactly, but I really wish I could give them a high five on this one. When something is as incredible as a big O, why wouldn’t you do everything you can to work them into your daily life? In my opinion, every day should be National Orgasm Day (and whose to say it can’t be?) but it seems that today is the day we really take a moment to appreciate the magical occurrence that is the orgasm. Continue Reading
If you want to meet someone, get ready to drink a lot of coffee, get sweaty, and climb a mountain! You will be rewarded with lots of sex (hopefully). Continue Reading