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sex and relationshipsIf you sleep with him on a first date, are your relationship chances screwed? (No pun intended.) YourTango asked me 10 questions about sex and relationships on Twitter the other day. Here’s what I have to say about sexting, first date sex and, well,  not looking desperate.  Continue Reading

Overheard in the bathroom at Chaya Brasserie in San Francisco:
female voice #1: So, have you heard from Australia boy?
female voice #2: Totally, he like calls me every day. He remembered my birthday and everything, even with the time difference he calls.
#1: Have you heard from trainer boy?
#2: Well he’s so busy, see’s a lot of clients so I don’t hear from him that much. blah blah blah. Continue Reading

Emily has a sexual dream about 80-year-old Oscar winner, Christopher Plummer. Menace goes to Disneyland again and drunk dials Emily’s assistant. Emily talks about America’s pubic hair trends and how to start dating after a divorce.


Online Dating

Dear Emily,

I just recently signed up with OkCupid to give this online dating thing a try. I’m a newbie so I’m not up on all the rules and hidden rules. My question is would it be cool to tell a girl she’s cute in the first message? Are there any tips on what girls want to see in that first message?

Costa Mesa, CA

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Dear Emily,
I have a question. I have communicated to my partners that I don’t want a complete commitment and want to keep things light. They don’t listen. I try to spell it out. I try to be subtle. Nothing seems to work. I don’t have a fear of monogamy but was in a long marriage where sexual compatibility was terrible. She made me feel awful for wanting it. I just wanted to point that out before my question rattled the monogamy bell.
Great show. Keep it up!
Los Angeles, CA
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