If you sleep with him on a first date, are your relationship chances screwed? (No pun intended.) YourTango asked me 10 questions about sex and relationships on Twitter the other day. Here’s what I have to say about sexting, first date sex and, well, not looking desperate. Continue Reading
I’m declaring it here and now– you can’t call it a relationship after one coffee or worse, if you’ve never met in person. Continue Reading
Overheard in the bathroom at Chaya Brasserie in San Francisco:
female voice #1: So, have you heard from Australia boy?
female voice #2: Totally, he like calls me every day. He remembered my birthday and everything, even with the time difference he calls.
#1: Have you heard from trainer boy?
#2: Well he’s so busy, see’s a lot of clients so I don’t hear from him that much. blah blah blah. Continue Reading
Emily’s prom date didn’t bring condoms to the hotel room. They went to Burger King instead of having sex. Emily shares first date, relationship and sex deal-breakers, from forgetting condoms at prom to talking incessantly about your ex. Continue Reading
I just recently signed up with OkCupid to give this online dating thing a try. I’m a newbie so I’m not up on all the rules and hidden rules. My question is would it be cool to tell a girl she’s cute in the first message? Are there any tips on what girls want to see in that first message?
Costa Mesa, CA
I have a question. I have communicated to my partners that I don’t want a complete commitment and want to keep things light. They don’t listen. I try to spell it out. I try to be subtle. Nothing seems to work. I don’t have a fear of monogamy but was in a long marriage where sexual compatibility was terrible. She made me feel awful for wanting it. I just wanted to point that out before my question rattled the monogamy bell.
I went on a date the other day… and what I left with is proof that money, status, and a fancy car is not the ultimate recipe to landing ladies. Continue Reading