I’m just going to put this out there — I have had quite a bit of mediocre sex.
No disrespect to my past partners, I certainly had a part in it as well. I expected them all to read my mind and KNOW what I wanted, without ever actually telling them what I wanted. And like many women out there, I gave epic orgasmic performances and handed out positive feedback to guys who didn’t even come close to earning it.
And then something wonderful happened. The sex started getting better! A lot of that had to do with the fact that I started to figure out what I liked in bed and became more comfortable asking for it. But there was also a shift in my partners’ bedroom attitudes that made a big difference. Whether I was choosing more considerate guys, or the guys I always flocked to had done some maturing, I can’t be sure. But all of a sudden, my partners genuinely cared about whether I was having a good time. And as a result, I WAS having a good time. Continue Reading
The holiday season is supposed to be one of light, love and laughter, and in many cases it can be! Unfortunately, it can also be a time for increased stress levels.
The season itself is financially straining, getting the right gifts for all of your loved ones on top of your normal expenditures. In addition to the financial burden, there is also the issue of feeling overbooked — With the flood of holiday parties and family get togethers, there are a lot more events to attend than usual; if you’re part of a couple, then you’ll have to double that! Throw in traveling plans, decorating, shopping, wrapping and occasionally squeezing in some time to sleep… You’re looking at one more hectic holiday season, where your main objective is to survive the month, rather than enjoy it. Continue Reading
The holiday season is all about appreciating and giving to your loved ones. What better way to show a special someone you care than by giving them the gift of pure pleasure!? These carefully selected toys are top gift picks, whether you’re single or committed. Sex-cessories are the perfect pleasure-packed presents and this guide will help you select the best toys for her and for him. Give the gift of orgasm this holiday season and not only will you feel good about playing sexy Santa, but chances are you’ll get something out of it that feels fantastic, too.
As much as we’d like to believe that sex is always an effortlessly romantic affair, that’s sadly just not the case. Sex can be magical… poetic even, but it can also be messy, uncomfortable and downright awkward. So it’s inevitable that by the time you reach the status of expert-level lover, you’ll have at least a few skeletons in your sex closet.
True, we don’t have a daring distinction among the seasons in Los Angeles, (some would even go as far as to say our seasons consist of summer and “not summer”) but there are still bountiful amounts of ways to appreciate the autumn air with your special someone.
From horror movie marathons’ to sexy costume role play, here are some fun ideas for fall dates, no matter what city you live in!
Whether you’re packing up to return to dorm life or have graduated to the school of life, there’s no argument that there are plenty of things left to learn, both in and out of the bedroom. This month, we’re going to be taking it way back to the basics of real-life sex ed: knowing exactly what you like and gearing up with what you need to get there.
True this class doesn’t come with syllabus, there’s no set course description to guide your way, but lucky you – You are going to get a list of required materials to help you get an A+ (and not just for effort). Continue Reading
Summer, glorious summer, is finally upon us, and there’s something sexy in the air.
In addition to the great weather and time off, this season brings with it feelings of adventure and opportunity. It’s the perfect time for barbecues, beach trips and bikinis. Plus, it’s a proven fact that everything gets sexier in the summer! There are more people out and about, meaning more opportunities to flirt with someone new. Of if you’re already settled down, summer presents endless opportunities to turn up the heat on your sex life!
No matter where you’re getting busy, or who with, no summer sex-capades would be complete without the necessary tools. Here are five sex tips & tricks that are really worth exploring in the sizzling hot days ahead…
Do you feel like the sex talk you received in junior high left a little something to be desired? Well you’re not alone.
Sure, that awkward sex ed class in high school may have prepared you for what to expect in the backseat of your mom’s minivan after prom. It did nothing, however, to prepare you for grown up sex, and more importantly, grown up sexual relationships. There is more to sex than what goes where, but once you get passed the age of the birds and the bees, there are very few resources at your disposal (besides Google, of course). Continue Reading
When you’re knee deep in the shopping mall trenches, you may find yourself longing for the more simple holidays. When did Flag Day ever cause this much stress?
While I can’t help with the gift-wrapping, or the holiday traffic, and I certainly can’t protect you from those awkward family get togethers, here is something I can do: A Sexy Holiday Gift Guide, from me to you!
One of the most detrimental issues that can crop-up if you’re in a long-term relationship is the lack of communication around sex.
Sure, it seems simple enough to just talk to each other, but it can be so hard to get the conversation started. Especially if talking about sex is unchartered territory, as it is for many couples.
A fun and sexy way to open up communication with your partner is with a sensual massage. Of course a sensual massage might leads to sex (which is never a bad thing) but more importantly it also leads to better communication. Not just verbally, but through the body as well, which is one of the most effective kinds of communication in a relationship.