I don’t want to ruin my chances of finding something serious.
How soon is too soon to have sex with someone you’re into? Is there a magic number? You don’t want to come off eager, but you don’t want the connection to fizzle out either.
Every relationship is different, and your attraction level will vary from person to person. Sometimes you want to jump their bones on the first date, and sometimes you need to feel it out for a little longer. There’s no right answer when it comes to choosing the perfect time to consummate.
In this video, I lead long time listener Debbie to the best way to choose the time that’s right for her. Sometimes all you need is a little reminder of what’s most important when it comes to sleeping with someone new.
I remember a time when nearly all girls were adamant that they would never have sex with a guy after only the first date. In 2015, a time of extended freedom and altered expectations, does that still reign true? I feel like there’s a more even mix of opinions on the matter these days, so the question remains: Is it appropriate for a girl to initiate sex on the first date or for the first time with a new guy? Continue Reading
On today’s show, Amy Laurent, relationship expert, matchmaker and Emily’s co-star in Bravo’s Miss Advised calls in to share her best tips for meeting your perfect match. They discuss the most common first date mistakes and how to avoid them, how long to wait to sleep with someone new and why you should approach the hot woman sitting alone at the bar.
Plus, is everyone just looking for the bigger, better deal? And, why when in doubt, should you ALWAYS kiss the girl? Anderson offers a man’s perspective on these topics. This prompts Emily and Anderson to debate the idea that it’s up to men to make the first move.
You never get a second chance to make a first impression. The next time you’re on a first date remember that it takes only minutes for a potential partner to decide whether or not they’re impressed- 12 minutes to be exact. A recent study points to smile, eye contact, tone of voice and oral hygiene as important factors when making a first impression. Continue Reading
First dates can be awkward. The sweaty palms, uncomfortable silences, and chapped lip kiss at the end *cringe*. Instead of reaching for the tequila bottle, feel confident and ready for your date by dressing the part. You want your outfit to say, “Hello, I’m suave but sensitive, and I have the ferocity of Christian Grey in the bedroom.” Here’s how to master that look:
Let’s sum up eight weeks of good times, shall we? A recap: threesome proposals, first date couples acrobatics, modeling for a kissing workshop, hilarious make out with Menace, hot make out with David, strip clubbing on a first date, and let’s not forget awkward phone sex — we’ll always have that. Sigh. Read my Bravo blog about the finale of Miss Advised and all the life lessons I’ve learned this season– Just Say Yes.