HAPPY MASTURBATION MONTH!
The month of May is a very special one. It sits between the spring and summer, the weather is beautiful, flowers are blooming, and we all appreciate our mothers a little bit extra. Something most people do not know about marvelous May however, is that it is International Masturbation Month! Self-love is in the air! Everyone thinks about it, most of us do it, but how many of us celebrate the sensational act of solo sex? The answer: NOT ENOUGH! There are so many wonderful things about self-stimulation to be happy about! Our friends at AdamandEve.com have provided a couple very interesting infographics highlighting some very interesting statistics and facts about chokin’ the chicken and flickin’ the bean.
As you may know, the best-selling sex toy for men is a bit of the lone wolf in the industry.. But now it’s met it’s perfect match!
On a regular old field trip to the legendary Hustler Hollywood on Sunset Blvd. Emily was pleased to find a Fleshlight Heaven on Earth.. I mean look at them all!
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So let’s be honest: Every man wants to believe that he is incredible in bed. You want that feeling of accomplishment, that gold star on your sexual resume, that hushed whisper between ex-lovers: “He was THE BEST I’ve ever had”. You want to know that when you roll yourself over for the classic post-sex “Was it good for you?” that your partner’s resounding YES was 100% the real deal.
Unfortunately for men, women are much better at handing out empty compliments and “job well done”s than we are at offering constructive criticism. Meaning that you could be walking around with that extra swagger in your step, without any idea of what you might be doing wrong (or how to fix it, for that matter).
Lucky for you, I’m not afraid to hit you with the hard facts: There are certain areas that a lot of men tend to stumble over. So if you really want to knock it out of the park, sexually speaking, allow me to offer a few helpful and totally uncensored pointers. From jumping the gun with dirty talk to not knowing what to do with your hands, here are five common mistakes that you may make in bed, and how to overcome them.
It’s officially fall, meaning those lazy summer days are melting into busy Autumn weeks.. Leaving you with much less time to dedicate to those self-loving activities you so deserve! Luckily, there are so many products to help you masturbate “on the go” – and it can be done as discreetly as possible. Here are options for both men and women, so you can get a toy for yourself as well as your partner.
1. Vibrating Panties – Imagine, you can walk around anywhere with your very own secret vibrator. You can even sit in the office and turn it off and on to your pleasure. Although it might be more fun (and appropriate) to try while you’re out on the town. Hand off the remote to your lover and have him control the vibes and your pleasure. With the remote control panty, all it takes is a push of a button to discreetly get your pleasure on! Continue Reading
In the three months I’ve been a part of the Sex With Emily team, I have gone from a girl with one sex toy to a girl with a whole sex drawer. Now, this might freak some guys out, but I am lucky enough to have been blessed with an extremely open-minded boyfriend. When I come home with a new toy to try out or some “research” to do, my boyfriend is always more than supportive – In fact, sometimes I think he gets more excited than I do!
But recently I had started to get the notion that he might be feeling a little left out. Yes, our sex life has improved (check my last blog to find out how!) and yes, he gets to play with the toys too, but it seemed like I was the one having all the fun. I had multiple toys for my own pleasure, and the poor guy was stuck with just his hand to take care of him in my off-hours.
Here’s the thing about my guy: He is ALL about the gadgets. From the latest Apple products to the best razors to the top-of-the-line in E-Hookah accessories (he doesn’t even smoke..?), my boyfriend lives for new toys that can bring him enjoyment or make his life easier. Knowing this, and also keeping his super-powered libido in mind, I decided to get him something that would put a little boost of excitement into his solo sex life.
This show is all about having great sex and great relationships, no matter what you’re packing down below. Emily and Anderson swap sexting stories, answer listener emails, discuss topics such as lingerie, lesbians and what NOT to do at a strip club.
But first, Emily shares tales from the Sex With Emily workspace and describes recent Facebook developments, including the dick pics that keep popping up in her inbox. Whether it’s flirting for the new age or a naughty form of foreplay, that’s not the kind of feedback we’re looking for, fellas!
Up next is sex in the news: First we hear sex tips from the man with no penis (Don’t worry, guys, this story has a happy ending!) Then there’s the guy who called the cops when a stripper refused to have sex with him – He didn’t get his happy ending, but he did get arrested for solicitation.
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If you’re the proud owner of your very own Fleshlight, I’m guessing the only “coming” you’re concerned about is probably your own. And who could blame you? With it’s patented skin-like material, unique suction-controlling design and discreet appearance, the Fleshlight is truly a stroke of genius (ha ha) and is a must-have for any guy! But did you ever stop to consider how the #1 selling sex toy for men came to be?
They say to invent and sell a worthwhile product, you have to create a problem and then solve it. Well back in the early 1990’s, Fleshlight inventor Steve Shubin, was not expecting to be the most successful man in the male masturbation industry. He really just wanted to have sex with his wife. But upon learning that his wife could not have sex with him for the duration of her pregnancy (which was in its first month Steve realized that he did, in fact, have a problem.
Looking at a long 9 months of no sex, Steve found himself searching for some way to satisfy his sexual needs. He asked his wife if she would be creeped out if he found something to replace her sexually; they both had a good laugh about it, but the idea had already taken root, and was beginning to grow into a pretty damn good solution.
Masturbation has certainly come a long way from the days of tube socks, tissues and store-bought hand lotion. Nowadays, there are a plethora of products to help both men and women get their rocks off in a quicker and more enjoyable way. And when it comes to male toys, it is safe to say that Fleshlight stands out as a front-runner of the industry, currently holding the title of the best-selling sex toy for men.
The folks at Fleshlight have kept up the good work by turning out a variety of accessories to further enhance the male masturbatory experience: They brought you a shower mount, a phone strap, and have recently announced another new Fleshlight companion to help make your self-loving sessions even more enjoyable. It is called the Fleshlight LaunchPAD, and it is legendary.
The Fleshlight PhoneStrap is designed to secure your smartphone or mini tablet to your leg in order to provide easy viewing of the screen or effortless use of a webcam while completely freeing up your hands during solo play.
Fleshlight asks its users to “Dare to Fantasize,” but it’s not easy to do when you’re juggling your smartphone or mini-tablet. That’s why they created the ingenious PhoneStrap.