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UnknownAccording to an article from Psychology Today “only 25% of women are consistently orgasmic during vaginal intercourse.” Even if you can have an orgasm from penile stimulation  there’s no guarantee that a women will experience the big O every time she has sex. Only “about half of women sometimes have orgasms during intercourse. About 20% seldom or ever have orgasms during intercourse. and about 5% never have orgasms period.” Couples have to navigate the difference between their orgasms themselves. Each individual is responsible for their pleasure, but it helps when both partners make their needs known and can openly communicate about what they need. Statistics aside, it’s clear that both men and women need insight and advice for closing the orgasm gap. Continue Reading

Simultaneous OrgasmsIn a perfect world, couples would make love everyday, each session would end with simultaneous orgasms and then you’d watch your mutually favorite television show.

But we know that’s not going to happen- at least the simultaneous orgasm part.

Because, in reality, he’s thinking, “Please, let me get through the next seven minutes without ejaculating,” while she’s thinking, “Please, just this once let me have an orgasm during intercourse.” Not to mention the guys who also have a hard time orgasming during sex. (That happens far more frequently than you think.) Continue Reading

sex life Think marriage means the death of your sex life? Think again. 

We’ve all heard stories about couples who once enjoyed a passionate sex life, but now spend more time wrestling over the remote than having sex. Some couples even avoid sex like they are dodging a bullet. Continue Reading

dating deal breakers Emily breaks down dating deal breakers. Is his or her flaws endearing of just plain deal breaking? It’s easy to ignore the red flags and dating deal breakers when you’re sipping on a margarita and someone sexy is telling you about their summer villa. But if they’re staring at the woman with the lovely bosom or they just got out of prison, that’s probably not a good sign for your future together. Continue Reading

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Foreplay

How long should foreplay last? I hear this question mostly from my male audience. Try this formula: Take however long you’re spending on foreplay and triple it.

Okay, maybe it’s not that simple. The truth is there’s no magic number for how long foreplay should last. But it should probably last a lot longer than you think… Continue Reading

What do you wish you’d learned in Sex Ed? Emily teamed up with  The Sinclair Institute® to rewrite the sextbooks, and today she’s announcing the winners of her contest and reading the best listener-submitted suggestions and stories. Her work may be needed now more than ever, as reports show that American teen guys aren’t reciprocating in oral sex enough, and Wyoming of all places is labeled the national epicenter of sex toy usage. Continue Reading

SWE – Like a Virgin

Emily’s inbox has been getting swamped with emails from virgins of all ages lately, so today’s episode is dedicated to helping them join the coital club, laying out what to expect, how to prepare, and why this big step might not be so big after all. Virgins’ partners get advised too, to make their lovers’ first times magical. Or… at least, less awkward than their own.

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Emily prepares a speech for a singles convention and Menace is resentful of hot women (no surprise here). How Emily handles Valentine’s Day, “expiration dating”, and teasing your partner sexually without being annoying. Emily talks about how long foreplay should last and why it’s important.

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