They’ve dubbed the foggy weather of this month as June Gloom, but that doesn’t mean you have to feel that way! June is the month that has always signified the end of school, and the beginning of hot weather and summer. Sure, the sun hasn’t joined the party, but there will be plenty of time for that come July.
Until then, don’t try to beat the heat (Embrace it!) with these three fun and simple ways to kick-start your summer in a super sexy way.
It’s a changing world out there. While some may say that chivalry is dead, I’ve seen many men who prove quite the contrary. As a girl, I know it’s lovely to get flowers and have doors held open for us, but I’m thinking of a different kind of courtliness: safe sex provisions. Is it the man’s responsibility to come equipped with protection?
I remember a time when nearly all girls were adamant that they would never have sex with a guy after only the first date. In 2015, a time of extended freedom and altered expectations, does that still reign true? I feel like there’s a more even mix of opinions on the matter these days, so the question remains: Is it appropriate for a girl to initiate sex on the first date or for the first time with a new guy? Continue Reading
I recently experienced something of a crisis while pondering my sexual identity. I could not, for the life of me remember the number of people I have had sex with. Up until this point I felt that I had kept fairly meticulous mental record of “my number.” I remember when it was 2, I remember when it was 10, I even remember my favorite number, 15. Somewhere after 20, however, I irretrievably lost count. I tried to make a list, crossing off “almosts” and writing question marks next to girls’ names. But alas, my list-making was to no avail. I began to question the validity of my own memory and whether some of these sexual encounters were figments of my fear, fantasy or imagination. Continue Reading
We all have those, “what if” moments in life, and when it comes to relationships and dating, those moments tend to happen even more often. A big one for me, and I imagine many other women, is the realization “What if I asked him out?”
I know, the idea sounds scary, but it’s actually not that bad. No matter how liberated or modern or brave we imagine ourselves to be, many women have decided that they will never ask out a guy. But I’m here to tell you, you should be making the first move. Now it doesn’t always work out, but it won’t kill you and you’ll eliminate the “what if” that currently enjoys dancing around in your head.
Recently, I heard of this dangerous game people play while they are drinking. It’s called “Call or Delete”. The way it works is you get together with your closest and most trusted friends, who take your phone and go through the contacts. You randomly yell “stop” and whichever contact they stop on, you have to call right then and there or delete them off of your phone forever. I told you this was dangerous!
When it comes to dating, some rules are standard: not having sex until the 3rd date, walking the fine line between dressing sexy and slutty, or not revealing too much, too soon.
But what about the one rule you may be breaking without even realizing it: Dating the same person over and over. I don’t mean you break up and get back together with the same person – I mean you date the same kind of person. You have a “type,” and until it was pointed out to me, I had no idea I was doing just that.
Happy International Women’s Day!
Today is the day to celebrate women, our achievements, and ponder on what is left to accomplish. Despite the fact that women became “liberated” in the 1960’s, we still face an overwhelming taboo when it comes to sex. Even now, the enjoyment and open discussion of sex tends to be associated with either “confident” men or “slutty” women, which is just not right. So with this taboo in mind, I thought it would be fun and interesting to use this momentous day to talk about a few the female pioneers of sex – The women who brought us a little bit closer to sexual wellness and freedom!
There is a new reality show out called, “Big Women, Big Love.” It’s about plus-sized women looking for love. Not surprisingly, the women featured on the show have a difficult time trying to date in a society where thin and ultra thin is “in vogue”, and it doesn’t look like that will change anytime soon.
Let’s talk New years Resolutions..
This new year I really want to try anal sex… I’m just kidding, mom. This year is not going to be about what I’m going to do. Instead it’s more about what I’m not going to do.
Sex is everywhere. The basis of every human interaction is rooted in sex– I don’t care if you’re buying a notebook at Staples, it’s somewhat sexual.
As you know, it’s incredibly easy for a woman to get sex. And I’ve had plenty. You could say 2014 was my year of sex.What I haven’t had plenty of is love. Love from lovers, yes, but mostly love from myself.