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tickle blog sex with emilyRemember those wholesome tickle fights you had at sleepovers? It all might sound like wholesome fun to some of us, but to others…it’s sexy as hell.

It’s well known that us horndogs can make ANYTHING into a fetish: feet, bees, falling down the stairs. You name it, and someone finds it sexy. Which leads me to our latest fetish spotlight: tickling.

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kinky quarantine blog sex with emilyWhen more and more of us have been under government mandates to “shelter in place” or stay “safe from home” or, in other words “Quarantine and Chill,” it has brought up all kinds of issues in our lives…and emotions.

One minute you’re feeling frisky, the next you’re chugging wine under your weighted blanket watching The Tiger King. Yeah. It’s “Love In the Time of Corona,” baby.

Well for us kinky folks (or those who would like to be), Covid-19 can be a real boner kill. But don’t despair! You might be tempted to go all vanilla right now, but your kink flag is still there! So let’s see how we can keep it flying, shall we?

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kinky sex with emily blogHave you ever wondered how to explore some of the kinky aspects of sex, but felt unsure how to broach it with your partner?

Perhaps your lover has told you they identify as “vanilla” (which simply means non-kinky), but you have some burning BDSM desires?

Don’t lose hope! On today’s blog, I’m going to show you how a kinky person can still get their needs met, even when their partner is vanilla. 

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With the mainstream media finally accepting the kinkier aspects of sexuality, it leaves many people with some burning questions about kinky sex.

What defines sex as ‘kinky?’

What’s the difference between vanilla sex and kinky sex?

And, how do you start bridging the gap?


If you’re reading this article, you’ve probably got some similar questions.

Lucky for you, I’m here to help. 

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So, you read the orgasm denial blog and learning the fundamentals got you all fired up.

You tried some edging during solo and/or partnered sex, and want to explore some kinkier expressions of orgasm denial with a partner, but you’re not sure where to start.

Don’t worry, I got you. Today orgasm denial gets kinky.

Use these tools to have a fantastic session (or a whole week) with your favorite kinky pal. 

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Freakier Friday

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On today’s Best Of podcast from 2012, no sex tip is left unturned! Emily and Menace are joined by special guest, sex educator and co-author of Emily’s book Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight, Jamye Waxman, to talk sex toys, dating debacles and everything in between. Continue Reading

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