I’m not with a partner at the moment but I masturbate regularly. I know how to make myself have an orgasm and after I do, I feel satisfied, but I want to go again. Trouble is, I have to take a break for about ten minutes because otherwise it will take me a very long time to orgasm again and I usually give up before then. I’ve always wanted to be able to have multiple orgasms (within a minute or two of each other) but I’ve never been able to. My question is, is there any way to train yourself to have multiple orgasms?”
I began having sex at a relatively young age. I was 15 when my boyfriend and I decided we were going to lose our virginities to each other. Well, more like his friends asked when we were finally going to get it over with. Although it may not have come up for a few months if it was never brought to our attention, I was sure (at the time) that this was who I wanted to go through this life event with. Needless to say, that relationship lasted for maybe one more month before it was over.
From that point on, whenever I’d have sex with someone, it would be on their terms and not my own. All I wanted to do was please, because if he was having a good time, so was I… Or at least, I THOUGHT I was. I wasn’t even aware that my own sexual experience was being put on the back burner. I was young, I had no idea what an orgasm felt like, and the guys I was seeing only had their climax in mind. Continue Reading
It’s no secret that vibration is a clit’s best friend. The rapid, unrelenting, movement to-and-fro…The brisk, continuous oscillation… The unmatched moment of a tremor-triggered orgasm. It’s the foundation of a harmonious masturbatory bond between a woman and her sex toys. But just like the rest of our bodies, every clitoris is unique in it’s appearance, demeanor, and it’s taste for being tickled. Some clits like a gentle tap to get them going and some need a raucous rumble to rev their engines. Continue Reading
By the time my boyfriend and I had settled into a sex routine, I had already forged a firm and profound bond with my Magic Wand. No person had ever been able to deliver the type of orgasmic experience that my wand and I shared. It satisfied my sexual needs efficiently and effectively, and continues to everyday, no matter my relationship status. Continue Reading
For those of us who have been self-loving for a while, we tend to develop our go-to moves and stick with them. If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it—right? WRONG.
Learning how to touch yourself is some of the most important work you can do. And if you think about it, you’re never really done learning. There are so many paths to self-pleasure, you owe it to yourself to explore them all. Continue Reading
We all love to play with ourselves. In fact, masturbation is probably one of humankind’s most popular approaches to pleasure. It’s cheap, good for you, and pretty easy to pull off (so to speak). But solo sexual stimulation has always lived in the shadow of the “real thing.”
Sadly, masturbation is widely regarded as partnered sex’s less talented understudy… A reluctant last resort. A mere means to an end. Although it still gets you from point “A” to point “O” in the end, the ensuing orgasm has a tendency to feel lackluster without someone to co-opt coaxing it out of you. But it doesn’t have to! Continue Reading
Did my favorite sex toy make me unable to orgasm?
This is a question I frequently get asked, mostly from women who frequent one high-powered sex toy and worry about it de-sensitizing their lady parts.
Many of us have been there. We find a toy that we love, that nails it every damn time, and give it the starring role in our solo sex life. But then, over time, the orgasms stop coming, and the worrying begins. Maybe the toy was TOO good at it’s job? Maybe it’s ruined me for all other sex toys? Why has my Magic Wand forsaken me? Continue Reading
I have a problem with masturbation — I can’t do it.
It’s not that I’m a prude about masturbation. Believe me, I have tried time and time again! I know what I’m supposed to do and I get how to do it, I’ve masturbated in front of a partner before and it was GREAT. But when it’s me by myself, I just can’t seem to get into it or even get to a place where it feels good. Since I’m doing the actual touching part the right way, I know it has to be something about my mindset. What am I doing wrong?
How can I help myself get in the mood for masturbation?
Solo Sex Struggles
2015 was a year filled with growth, education, and new experiences, both in the bedroom and at the office… at least for the Sex With Emily team. As winter marches forward into spring, the new year is in full bloom and we find ourselves in one of the fanciest seasons of the year: awards show season. So, as a nod to the Oscars, the Emmys, the Grammys & the Golden Globes, we’re commemorating one of our biggest areas of growth this year: the Sex With Emily YouTube channel.
In case you missed any of our newly produced videos, (or were unaware we even had a channel) we’re giving you another chance to get acquainted with our fun and vivacious videos. Without further ado, the winners of the first SWE Video Awards!
Today is everyone’s favorite day at the Sex With Emily podcast. That’s right, it’s Sex Toy Review Day and the gang’s all here! Emily and her trusty team are reviewing innovative new products, and providing new insight on some old favorites. They each share their experiences and give helpful hints to guide you to your sex toy success!
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