Q: DEAR EMILY,
This has always been a huge insecurity of mine: moaning and noises during sex. The only sound I make is if my breathing picks up naturally.
I never moan during sex and try my hardest to let out a noise when I orgasm, but it just feels so forced and fake to me. I’m so focused the whole time that if I think about it, I just end up feeling insecure. My long-term boyfriend has always told me he doesn’t care that I don’t, but do guys really mind pretty much silent sex?
What are your thoughts?