“Don’t stop, don’t stop, doooon’t stop!” She pleads on the brink of intense pleasure, and then…
“I’m coming,” he says.
Fine. I’ll just finish the job myself, she thinks as her boyfriend lies next to her in aloof satisfaction.
Unfortunately, I know this scenario all too well. Sex can be incredibly enjoyable, but sometimes the experience can end a bit prematurely— can your lady-friend also attest to this?
Don’t fret, there is a simple solution.
In today’s show, Emily’s dishing out advice to help you have the best sex and relationships, based on the questions you sent to Feedback@SexWithEmily.com. Topics include how to last longer in bed, how to make scheduled sex fun, and how to get back into the dating scene after being hurt.
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From Sex and the City to When Harry Met Sally to the cover of your latest Cosmopolitan magazine, pop culture has brought plenty of awareness to females’ dirty little secret of bedroom theatrics – It’s all out in the open. Unfortunately it has also created the idea in our minds that faking orgasms is a gender-specific trick, leaving us females seemingly safe and leaving men to flounder around in the gray zone of “Did she really orgasm?”doubts .Well, women everywhere are about to get a taste of their own medicine.. and let me tell you, it is bitter!
10 years and still going strong. These multiple orgasms spent together have been beautiful. Who knew I’d spend so many wonderful years with you? Your electrifying love gives me strength in times of weakness, passion in times of extreme boredom, and showers of orgasms in the worst dry spells you could imagine. Continue Reading
In a perfect world, couples would make love everyday, each session would end with simultaneous orgasms and then you’d watch your mutually favorite television show.
But we know that’s not going to happen- at least the simultaneous orgasm part.
Because, in reality, he’s thinking, “Please, let me get through the next seven minutes without ejaculating,” while she’s thinking, “Please, just this once let me have an orgasm during intercourse.” Not to mention the guys who also have a hard time orgasming during sex. (That happens far more frequently than you think.) Continue Reading
Swingers Holli and Michael from Playboy Radio’s SWING share everything about living sexy— The swingers parties, dealing with jealousy, and of course the sex.
Almost everyday someone asks me, “so what’s the deal with swingers?” No, they don’t all have ponytails, and they aren’t all “crazy.” Unless your definition of crazy is having open communication with your partner, and admitting that monogamy doesn’t always work for you. Swingers put everything out in the open— they share their fantasies with their partner, ask for consent before trying to have sex with someone, and tell their partner everything. Continue Reading
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I know what you’re thinking: “Different orgasms?!? I just want to orgasm during sex, period.”
The most popular questions I get asked from women time and time again is, “what’s wrong with me? I can’t orgasm during intercourse.”
Nothing is wrong with you. Doesn’t that make you feel better? Only about 30% of women achieve orgasm during penetration alone. It can be challenging for many women to have orgasms with a man’s penis alone. (Sorry, guys).
The amazing news is you can have an orgasm during intercourse if you pay more attention to your clitoris. There are so many types of orgasms you can have, and you don’t even need a partner to experience them.
Coital Alignment Technique (CAT Position) might just be the perfect sex position. After all, the definition of making love is slowly rubbing a woman’s clitoris with your penis. Or at least that’s my own definition… Continue Reading
The birds are chirping, the flowers are blooming, bunnies are humping, and you’re getting it on shamelessly against the trellis.
No wait, that’s not you. That’s your fantasy self that’s having sex next to a babbling brook. That is of course when you’re not riding on the back of a unicorn… Continue Reading
I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now and our sex was great at the beginning. I used to tremble when he would touch me and now it seems like it’s only about him. He’ll ask if I had an orgasm and I find myself lying to him. I love him with every breath in me, he’s my whole world and I don’t want to lose him. But I’m longing for more foreplay, more oral on his part, and just more spice… Continue Reading