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When it comes to dominance and submission in the bedroom, most people think of one person taking the lead while the other does what he/she is told. But is that what it always looks like?
There are so many different scenarios to play around with – from service-oriented to pain-focused to… financial?
It’s all about finding the kind that lights a fire in your loins, so to speak (if that’s what you’re determined to do). 
Sex Coach Pam Costa shares how when learning to like to be dominated, it was objectification that really revved her engine in her Down to There blog…

 

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tumblr_n8bcu7xgtf1qj2f39o1_1280I was born this way. When I was four, before I even knew what sex was, I used to masturbate to fantasies of being kidnapped and enslaved. I remember feeling confused and ashamed about my fantasies, but I couldn’t resist indulging them while rubbing my clitoris with a beanie baby. The result was too delicious.

This would become my deepest darkest secret that I would never reveal at sleepovers, that I would never even write in my diaries because I did not want to face how fucked-up I was. Something was deeply and fundamentally wrong with me, and I would sporadically try to “quit” my fantasy-ridden masturbation sessions, much like a drug addict still clinging to the ever-dwindling hope of recovery. Continue Reading

bondage “Let’s try bondage. I want you to tie me up and do me,” is something most men don’t mind hearing.

My friend, let’s call him George, has waited his whole life for a woman to say these words. George is the kind of bloke who admits he watches porn all the time after a couple of Old Fashions. They always confess to the sex expert that they want to tie a woman up just like in their favorite porn… Continue Reading

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