Have you ever had ‘that feeling’ after masturbating? You know the one. That sense of dread, or that feeling of guilty shame. Have you ever climaxed, looked at what you were watching and felt truly disgusted with your nasty gutter brain.
Well, it turns out, those feelings come from a bunch of different places. It can be psychological, trauma-based, cultural, or generational. But somehow, so often, shame surrounds masturbation.
Have you ever wanted to last longer in bed? Ever get into the groove and then prematurely get to your destination? Just looking for a more intense orgasm? Then edging might be for you.
Here are some tips and tricks to not only work on your stamina, but to practice the art of edging – keeping yourself at bay before the fireworks.
When it comes to masturbation, the holy grail of the deed, for many, are the highly coveted multiple orgasms. Multiples are awesome, but unfortunately, they’re just for women… Right?Can men have multiples too? Are multiple orgasms for men just a myth? Is it possible to shoot your shot more than once at a time? Let’s investigate!
Social distancing is truly putting a damper on person to person contact. Literally. Even with the multitude of dating apps, we’re stopped short from meeting in real time. So why not send some nudes!
With all this extra time spent staring at screens instead of faces, this is the perfect moment to perfect taking suggestive or explicit pics. And there’s a lot you can do to get the best possible shot.
Here are 7 steps to sending the sexiest nudes of your life.
I interviewed my straight, socially conservative, most would say uptight roommate about his perception of sex work before writing this blog. His answers startled me. When he thinks of sex work he envisions back alleys and dark rooms– bad massages with “happy” endings performed by people against their will. It was bleak.
Whether this is a negative perpetuation by the media or remnants of puritans at Plymouth Rock, this blog is here to dispel these ideas, lift this stigma, and talk about safe, consensual sex work. Continue Reading
Some of us are surpassing 30 days of Stay-at-Home. For those without a boo, that may mean 30 days without that sweet sweet fix, that hot hook up, or that magical first date feeling. It means digital dating.
Physical contact releases feel-good chemicals and helps ‘calm the nerves’, which is especially important during these uncertain times.
However, if you don’t have someone to snog during this time, there are some ways to date from a distance to get that emotional connection we crave! While staying apart, you can connect through a your screen, and make it hot!
2020 – a year of uncertainty, change and growth. It’s the new election cycle, a new decade, a health emergency, and an order to stay at home. But it can also be a time to try things that you may have been meaning to get to on your list. Whether that is trying a new hair style, or seeing if crop tops are ‘your thing’, it might be time to also try some new things on the sexual frontier. One of those could be prostate play.
I have talked ad nauseam about penile play. However, there’s a part of the anatomy that I have yet to cradle… And that is the balls!
The factory center where sperm is made and stored. They can often be ignored because they can be intimidating — a fleshy temperamental scrotum with two sensitive oblong spongious organs. But once you unpack the sack, it can be a ton of fun – a way to prolong and deepen the sexual experience and bond.
Have you ever been to a restaurant and left thinking that the appetizers were better than the main course? Well that is what the joy of ball play can be. Let’s play ball!
Being positive about the world of sex and dating can be very difficult.
We’re surrounded 24/7 by impossible beauty standards, a laundry list of ‘ideal types’ and have our own personal pet peeves and insecurities. Our self talk can easily slip into the negative side.
Often what we are told to strive for is not only dangerous to our mental and emotional health, but an actual impossibility.
Here are some ways to identify, cope with, and rewrite negative and damaging self-talk around sex and dating.
It’s always nice to spice up your sex life by trying new things. Missionary can only make you cum so far. Which is the reason why since the beginning of procreation, humanity has been finding ways to change up positions, as evidenced as early as 400BC in the Kama Sutra.
However, although we have found ways to reconfigure our sexual pleasures, it’s also good to find different ways to cuddle. Physical touch is one of the most widely understood love languages. Sometimes your arm can only be used as a headrest for so long. Here are some different ways to snuggle up with your partner.