Looking for a way to take your bedroom rendezvous to the next level? Say hello to sensation play. This is basically any activity that focuses on the exploration of physical sensation, and can involve everything from soft and sensual acts to intense pain. Sensation play can feel amazing, and send your pleasure to whole new realms.
As summer draws to a close, Alternative August is just getting started. You still have weeks to schedule unbridled passion and the best sex of the year. Over the summer months, many activities vie for your attention, from super hero films to camping trips. But if you’ve yet to find a blockbuster that thrilled you or a sightseeing trip that wowed you, it’s time to feast your eyes on exhibitionist and voyeuristic action in the bedroom!
Threesomes: everyone’s talking about them, it’s “the cool thing to do,” but how many are actually partaking? Some jump in deep, and many seem to be open to the idea, only to become hesitant when it comes to stripping down. It’s that inner battle of being open to a three-way, the itch to try it out, topped with the fear of possible negative repercussions.
It’s no secret that a large majority of porn is created by men, for men. It was believed for so long (and still is) that women hated porn. The reality is– girls like porn, too. In fact, women love all kinds of porn! While the mainstream is perfect for some, for others, well… It’s just not what they’re looking for. Others want porn that’s a little more female friendly.
No, that doesn’t mean romantic, slow, and sensual depictions of sex (although it could). It means porn that shows respect for women and values their pleasure and participation equally to men.
For the lovely females of the world who are just trying to find some porn worth watching, you’ve come to the right place.
Have you ever had sex at a hotel — whether on vacation or during a business trip — and felt like it was the best sex you’ve ever had in your life? Chances are it very well was! But not for reasons you may think. Continue Reading
I believe it was Selena Gomez (or Emily Dickenson) who famously wrote, “The heart wants what it wants…” And I think the same can be said of the clitoris. Think about it, this once seemingly mythic organ exists solely for pleasure, it contains 8,000 delicious nerve endings, and it can be the most surefire path to orgasm. Of course it wants what it wants! What we need to do now is listen to it. Continue Reading
Solo or with a partner, achieving orgasm is like the pot of gold at the end of a sexy rainbow. But what happens when that rainbow of toys, foreplay, and sex doesn’t quite bring you all the way to your big ‘O’? As much as we would love to sit back, relax, and let our partners take care of all the hard climactic work, our orgasms are our responsibility. Although it’s your partner that helps get you there, they can’t do it alone, they need you– body AND mind. Whether you’re on the struggle bus with orgasming in general, or are experiencing a temporary lag in your typically dependable climax, here are a few tips to take control of every orgasm-oriented experience for a satisfying slide into that big ole’ pot of pleasure.
You’ve done it! After a few nights out with your new love interest, you’ve successful made it all the way to the bedroom. Things are getting hot and heavy as you continue to passionately make out with your partner. It’s completely dark. You dance your way onto the bed, getting a little lost in the moment. You’re right on the edge of the bed, so close to engaging in activities you’ve been dreaming up all evening. Here’s the challenge: getting your partner undressed. Why? You see by touching with your hands– you’re blind.
Every straight woman I know has faked an orgasm. Some still do!
Girl, stop.
I’ve never been the When-Harry-Met-Sally kind of faker, but I’ve definitely moaned here and there and lied right to a guy’s face as he pealed the condom off and asked me if I came. It’s no surprise women do it, though. We’re raised in a culture that teaches us to revolve our lives entirely around men and their comfort, and sex is no different. Faking it is our way of helping them feel good about themselves– a call of duty if you will. Or it’s a way to not hurt their feelings when we’re tired, over it, or rubbed raw and just want him to get the f*ck off of us. Continue Reading
First thing’s first, lesbian sex is sex, is sex, is sex— nuanced for each person, relationship, and occasion. Lesbian sex can entail mutual masturbation or oral sex. It can be a festive polyamorous party or an old married couple doing their best to keep the flames of desire aglow after the kids go off to college. Every woman and trans-woman, regardless if she identifies as boi, butch, alpha, bi, unicorn, diesel, lipstick, queer, or another “type,” carries with her the same complex sexuality and sensuality all females share. Since the dawn of human sexuality studies, one fact about a woman’s desire remains constant… it’s always changing.
