Will You Be Yours?

Screen Shot 2016-02-02 at 12.35.11 PMAhh, Valentine’s Day. A holiday centered around celebrating love, new and old. Restaurants are booked solid, florists are shelling out thousands of bouquets, and Hallmark is selling truckloads of cards filled with a variety of ways to say ‘I love you.’ It’s very sweet and romantic, but for those of us who aren’t part of a relationship, well… it can kind of suck.

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Pleasure-Packed Valentine’s Day Gift Guide

Screen Shot 2016-01-27 at 10.54.10 PMWe all dream of surprising that sexy someone in our life with a Valentine’s Day gift they’ve always wanted, but couldn’t ask for. We want it to be meaningful and intimate, something more sophisticated than a mixtape but more romantic than, say, a food processor. It has to be something that communicates a very specific message: “I love you, I care about you and I didn’t get this 12 hours ago at Target”… You know who you are.

Though Valentine’s Day is generally a big holiday for jewelry, clothing and scented toiletries, I personally believe in giving a gift that can provide your partner (and yourself) with more than just a night of pleasure. Candy and cards only go so far, but multiple orgasms? That’s a gift she won’t soon forget! After all, when was the last time a woman cried out “Oh God, YES!” when receiving a gift card to Nordstrom? Exactly.

Whether you’re searching for the perfect present to show your partner how much you love them, or are simply looking to spread the self-love this Valentine’s Day, I’ve got pleasure-packed gifts for everyone on your list!

 

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My Night With the Womanizer

When you think of a womanizer, what comes to mind? Probably some cold-hearted casanova from your past who dates around, sleeps around and leaves your heart just as empty as your bed. The first time I heard whispers about The Womanizer and the amazing orgasms it provided, I thought “Here we go again. Another jerk who is great in bed and even better at disappearing. Thanks, but no thanks.”

Imagine my surprise when the pleasure-provider in question was not a man at all, but an innovative, German-engineered clitoral stimulator. This Womanizer is USB rechargeable, made of body-safe silicone and promises an entirely new masturbatory experience. It won’t break your heart or suck out your soul. It will suck your clitoris, but we’ll get to that later!

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Ho-Ho-Holiday Hangups? How to Get Off Santa’s Stressed List

8ed3568a4544cb1515afac8869883ea2The holiday season is supposed to be one of light, love and laughter, and in many cases it can be! Unfortunately, it can also be a time for increased stress levels.

The season itself is financially straining, getting the right gifts for all of your loved ones on top of your normal expenditures. In addition to the financial burden, there is also the issue of feeling overbooked — With the flood of holiday parties and family get togethers, there are a lot more events to attend than usual; if you’re part of a couple, then you’ll have to double that! Throw in traveling plans, decorating, shopping, wrapping and occasionally squeezing in some time to sleep… You’re looking at one more hectic holiday season, where your main objective is to survive the month, rather than enjoy it.

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How to Make It Work: Problematic Sex Positions

Screen Shot 2015-11-30 at 1.04.07 PMHave you ever been having incredible sex, only to have it all fall apart the second you change positions? It happens to all of us. Sometimes you fall out of rhythm, you can’t get comfortable, or you just can’t figure out how to make it feel as good as the others.  

Sure, you could just avoid those moves altogether, or you can try some simple tricks to potentially turn them into your favorites. Now ladies, there are things you can do to make these positions work out for you and your partner alike. Here are five common position problems and ways to fix them:

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How to Master Mutual O’s

4c7cb96349e2ced2aff5d2883669ed43Let’s talk about orgasms, or lack thereof, as the case may be. The key ingredient for great sex generally centers around both parties leaving satisfied, yes? According to research published in the Journal of Sex & Martial Therapy (2006), women were about two and a half times more likely to feel sexually satisfied when they achieved orgasm. No surprise there. Unfortunately, this simple task becomes a little more difficult, thanks to something known as the orgasm gap.

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The Sensual Side of Power Play

Screen Shot 2015-10-22 at 1.54.29 PMTo prepare for your sensual BDSM experience, create erotic energy by setting the mood for getting intimate and feeling safe. Gentle and passionate kisses set the stage for trust and connection, which is very important. Adding ambiance with music, candlelight, feathers, finger foods and drinks to heighten all of the senses can enhance the mood for sensuality.

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Role-Playing For Rookies

fd14629f44b3979e96f5cddbaec814a6Some women are suckers for a man in uniform. Some men dream of de-robing a distressed damsel. Some of us got really turned on during the clay spinning scene between Demi Moore and Patrick Swayze in Ghost, and have always wanted to fuck near a wet pottery wheel wearing a sleeveless white button down.

Fantasizing about having sex as someone else is nothing new. Role playing has been around since people have had imaginations and sex drives. It is one of the long trusted, quintessential, go-to methods for sexually “spicing things up.” All you have to do is make-believe that you and your partner are different people in a different situation and you’ve instantly turned up the heat on your love oven.

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Fleshlight’s Quickshot is a Girl’s Best Friend

QS-instagramA few weeks ago, I was teaching a workshop at the Hustler Hollywood store in Los Angeles called “Back to Sex Ed Basics” with the intent of covering everything that you WISHED you learned in sex ed, but didn’t.

I always give the option of having the audience submit anonymous questions because, let’s face it, not everyone feels comfortable raising their hand in a room full of strangers, especially to ask questions about sex.

My team arranged the questions in piles labeled by topic, including “Oral sex questions”, “Safe sex questions” and  “Blow Job questions.”

When it came time to address the pressing blow job questions, I picked up the pile and sifted through the submissions only to find something remarkable. Every single card in the pile had a variation of the same question: “How do I work through my gag reflex when performing oral sex on my partner?.”

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Threesome Checklist: Are You Ready to Ride the Tricycle?

15689164It’s the question on every guy’s mind: How can I make my threesome fantasy a reality?

Unlike the random, carefree three ways often depicted in movies (oh yeah, and in porn), it’s a pretty rare occasion for three people to just happen into a menage-a-trois. Much like vampires screwing werewolves and kinky billionaires with sex dungeons, some things look much cleaner and less frightening on the silver screen than in real life, and threesomes are no exception to the rule. In the real world, a sexy party of three usually starts with two. And this is where things become complicated.

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