About 5 years ago, I had a casual sex relationship with a man and it was the best sex I’ve ever had. We went on a few dates, but there was no intellectual connection. Fast forward to now: I broke up with my boyfriend about a month and a half ago and recently texted my old booty-call asking if he is single. Now, I know we don’t have a connection, we will never have a relationship and we’ve both said we’re over the casual sex thing. However, I haven’t been physically satisfied for over five years with anyone except for him.
So my question is: what are the rules here? Will I be using him if I just want sex? I know he probably wouldn’t have a problem with it, but if we are both trying to find something “real”, is this all a waste of time?
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When done correctly, a blow job can be the perfect weapon to have in your arsenal. It’s hot, it’s intimate and has the power to catapult you to new realms of ‘dream girl’ territory, not to mention inspire your partner to return the favor. But more importantly, a great blow job can be a lot of fun! Continue Reading
Q: I’ve been with my boyfriend for around 8 months and have still never had a REAL orgasm during sex. And as if this isn’t bad enough, my partner has no idea, because I’ve gotten into the habit of faking it. I know, it’s terrible!
It’s 2016—for the first time in U.S. history a woman has sealed the presidential nomination of a major party, and there’s now an Uber for ladies, by ladies. You can even get condoms delivered straight to your door (thus avoiding the need to put on pants and make the journey to the nearest corner store.) Continue Reading
Along with many of fun activities of our youth, like wine coolers and ice blocking, some of us have lost our enthusiasm for the good old fashion make out. Gone are the days of stolen smooches in the hallway, marathon make outs in the back row of the movie theater and full-contact kisses that send shivers down your spine. We remember the thrill of the activity itself, but kissing often falls by the wayside after you’re in a relationship.
In addition to being a holiday of remembrance, Memorial Day weekend is kind of like the unofficial welcome back party for summer. Over the course of the weekend, we will ceremoniously say goodbye to Pumpkin Spice lattes, Ugg boots and oppressive winter layers, and open our minds to the scintillating possibilities of the summer season. Barbecues, beach trips and warm weather adventures are right around the corner, so why not start the season off with a bang… Literally! Continue Reading
This might be a surprising thing for a sexpert to say, but there are few things more satisfying than a good old-fashioned spring cleaning! Sure, there’s nothing sexy about 6 hours of concentrated decluttering, but that’s not really why we do it. Every spring, we clear out the old junk in our lives, both literal and figurative, to make way for something better! Continue Reading
In case you haven’t heard, May is National Masturbation Month! That doesn’t mean that there’s now a perfect excuse to ditch work, buy an extra pack of batteries, and spend the whole month in bed (although there’s nothing wrong with taking a “personal” day once and awhile). No, the true spirit of Masturbation Month goes much deeper…
Did you know that masturbation is an actual a skill you can improve with practice? Although it sounds weird, it’s completely true.
Just like sex, the more you do it, the more you’ll find out about what turns you on and gets you to that amazing climax. In fact, for many people , effective masturbation is the key to unlocking a great sex life. It allows you to get to know yourself, how you like to be touched and what type of stimulation you need with absolutely no one around to make you feel self-conscious. Plus, the more orgasms you crank out alone, the more orgasms you’re likely have with a partner. Continue Reading
By now, most of you have seen something on our website about the remarkable product Promescent. It’s the delay spray that allows men to last a hell of alot longer in bed, making them more self-confident and their partners incredibly satisfied. But what exactly makes this wonderful concoction do its job? It’s a scientific formula that was created by a urologist in Newport Beach, CA, Dr. Ronald Gilbert. So let’s get down to brass tax– the science behind the stamina.