We like to think that labels don’t matter, but every recurring casual hook-up reaches a point where its participants have to “define the relationship”. Are you on the road to exclusive dating bliss? Are you better off keeping it casual? Or do you fall into that complicated gray area we like to call friends with benefits? If your situation most closely resembles option 3, then defining the relationship is just the beginning… Continue Reading
For those of you who are least partially keen to the fact that great sex involves MORE than just sex, I congratulate you. You’re halfway there! Most of you are thinking, duh, foreplay, the backbone of any successful sexual bout.
However, there is another section of sex, one that is equally important, that even the most savvy of lovers are not privy to. It’s called afterplay, and it just might be the thing that your bedroom game is missing. Continue Reading
The new year is always a good time to evaluate who you’ve become and who you want to be. We get a clean slate to make new goals and do the things we’ve been procrastinating for far too long. Maybe this is the year that you finally ask your girlfriend to move in, get out of that toxic relationship or stop drinking every Taco Tuesday away. Truly, anything is possible… Well, sort of.
It’s no secret that the majority of resolutions get dropped after a couple of months, never to be picked up again. Many people will give up, accepting that it’s just not going to happen, but did you ever stop to think that maybe the problem is actually the goals we’re setting for ourselves? Continue Reading
Most of us try to make new years resolutions with every intention of following through. This is the year I stick to it! How many years have you said that? Now, how many years has it come true? Those answers probably weren’t the same. There is at least one resolution that’ll be worth keeping up with this year, and that, my friends, is to have longer lasting, better sex! Because well… Who wouldn’t want that? Continue Reading
Now that we’ve officially hit the holiday home-stretch, you’re probably feeling the full weight of the season on your shoulders. No matter how proactive we were with our planning and shopping this year, there will always be those last-minute gifts to grab, final traveling arrangements to make, and a whole lot of holiday cheer to cram into the next few days. Just thinking about it makes me want to take a nice long nap!
To think, back when we were kids our biggest complaint was that we HAD to go to bed on exciting holiday nights. Nowadays, many of us would trade every present under the tree (if you’re into that sort of thing) for a good night’s sleep… Not to mention a good night of, well, you know. Continue Reading
Why play with rope when there are easier and faster ways to bind someone? There are as many answers to this question as there are rope players. Some people appreciate the aesthetics, others, the history. Some like the feel of rope on their skin or running through their hands. Some enjoy the near infinite flexibility rope bondage provides, since you can contort your partner into just about any position the body will allow.
Ah the holidays! What fun it is to ride and grind against that someone special. We know Santa comes when you’ve been good, but who comes when you’ve been bad… very, very bad? I do. It’s me, “Bad Girl Santa.” I know I don’t have a beard that’s white as snow, a sled, or eight tiny reindeer, but hey, I’ve got the boots and the crop so let’s get this XXXmas party started. Continue Reading
If you’re anything like me, you prefer cold weather and cloudy days over scorching sunlight. I’m not a gloomy guy, but I’d rather throw on a jacket during the afternoon than sweat through my jockstrap. Even though the fall and winter seasons don’t get that cold in LA, I still look forward to cozying up at night.
Electric blankets and pricey hot plates might be the trendy way to stay warm, but I’ve always favored old-fashioned body heat. I can only stay so warm by myself, so cuddling next to a partner seems like the rational thing to do, right? As much I love a good cuddle under the sheets, I think a helpful hand or two might do me justice.
For most of us, when we think of the spirit Thanksgiving and how to celebrate it, we tend to focus on the first half of the word. We want to say thank you to everyone in our life that has helped us, been there for us, and has brought joy to our lives. One of the best ways to say thank you is in what you give back, whether it’s a tangible gift, an unexpected trip, or a moment that can be cherished for years to come. In the spirit of Sex-Giving, it’s time to give it everything you’ve got in the bedroom to say, “hey baby, you’re amazing and I want you to know it and feel it!” So, what better way to give your partner something sexy and special than a full on strip tease! Continue Reading
Well friends, this is it, we made it. After a year of anticipation we are finally back in Black this Friday! Our Sensual Holiday Gift Guide has everything you need, and we couldn’t be more excited to share it with you. This is a very sexy time of year after all. The hum of parties, the glitz of lights, and the magic you feel as we take the opportunity to get closer to the ones we love. With all the buzz and happy holiday vibes, this is the perfect time to give as good as you get. Continue Reading