The Sybian Diaries

Emily Sybian ArtsyI first laid my eyes on a real life Sybian back in January at the Sexual Health Expo, and I can honestly say that it was lust at first sight.

I was walking around the exhibition hall admiring the wide variety of pleasure products, when across the crowded room, a very enticing toy caught my eye. Of course, I had heard of the infamous Sybian before. Dave Lampert, the founder of Sybian, spoke at my grad school, and it had long been my dream to get up close and personal with this mysterious so-called orgasm machine.

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Confessions of a Handjob Hater

I have a confession to make: I hate giving hand jobs. There, I said it, I’m out. I’ve always found them to be awkward, exhausting and sort of pointless. Why work so hard to do something that any guy could do for himself — and do better, for that matter?

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Baby’s First Sex Toy

300It wasn’t until I was in a long-term relationship that I truly discovered how to make myself orgasm. The sex was great, but I couldn’t get to where I wanted to go. I discovered it was because, honestly, I didn’t know what my destination was. Once I explored myself though, it was like getting hit in the face with a big, fat DUH. So, I learned where I was heading, and things were that much better.

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The Gift that Keeps On Giving (Giveaway)

Screen Shot 2015-10-15 at 3.29.15 PM (1)As you know, I like to think of myself as a bit of a Sex Toy Santa. It’s my goal in life to make sure you’re having the best sex of your life, and I love sharing my favorite tips and products to help get you there.

I know it’s only October, but Sex Toy Santa is coming a little bit earlier this year, with the help of my new friends at Sybian. But I’m getting ahead of myself…

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Fleshlight’s Quickshot is a Girl’s Best Friend

QS-instagramA few weeks ago, I was teaching a workshop at the Hustler Hollywood store in Los Angeles called “Back to Sex Ed Basics” with the intent of covering everything that you WISHED you learned in sex ed, but didn’t.

I always give the option of having the audience submit anonymous questions because, let’s face it, not everyone feels comfortable raising their hand in a room full of strangers, especially to ask questions about sex.

My team arranged the questions in piles labeled by topic, including “Oral sex questions”, “Safe sex questions” and  “Blow Job questions.”

When it came time to address the pressing blow job questions, I picked up the pile and sifted through the submissions only to find something remarkable. Every single card in the pile had a variation of the same question: “How do I work through my gag reflex when performing oral sex on my partner?.”

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Your Secret Weapon for Better Orgasms

ss_101759896Out of blue, I got a call one day from a friend’s husband who works at a high end investment firm in Los Angeles. I’d met him at a few cocktail parties but we’d never talked business before.

“Hi Emily, there’s a medical company on the cutting edge of innovation, and they came to us for an investment, and you’re the expert in this sexual wellness space, so it’d be great for to come to our offices to see what you think of these products.”

He’s a more conservative guy, so I was particularly interested that he was calling me to talk sex toys. I drove to his high rise penthouse offices, displaying spectacular views of Los Angeles, and he hands me a stack of boxes that read “INTENSITY: An intimate health and stimulation device” from

“Let me know what you think, I have no idea about sex toys (he whispers under his breath) but this product claims to use some groundbreaking technology and have health benefits. Can you try it and let me know if you think and if it’s worth our investment?”

I thanked him, and left with boxes in hand, and assured him I’d report back with my professional opinion (have I mentioned how much I love my job?) 

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Back-to-School Supplies for Adults

Screen Shot 2015-09-03 at 11.24.24 PMWhether you’re packing up to return to dorm life or have graduated to the school of life, there’s no argument that there are plenty of things left to learn, both in and out of the bedroom. This month, we’re going to be taking it way back to the basics of real-life sex ed: knowing exactly what you like and gearing up with what you need to get there.

True this class doesn’t come with syllabus, there’s no set course description to guide your way, but lucky you – You are going to get a list of required materials to help you get an A+ (and not just for effort). 

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Wetter is Better: The Real Deal With Lube

a2e902b42ffb117c1bb1b17eda92921bHave you ever questioned your sexual abilities? You know, like “Did I rock her or his world?” or “Are they faking it”? If you don’t, good for you! But if you do ask yourself these sorts of questions more than you’d like to admit, there’s one more question you need to ask: What are you doing to change things up? Maybe you get yourself some Promescent to help you last longer in the sack, or perhaps you brought a toy into the bedroom to spice things up, but that’s only part of the answer.

The essential tool you need is actually good for you and even better for your sex life. It’s such a shame — there are thousands to choose from, yet most people haven’t even picked up a bottle of it. Whether you’re a college student trying something for the first time or a seasoned lover; YOU NEED LUBE!

Yes, there’s your answer. I’m sure you’ve heard some rumors about it, but all great things have both good and bad reputations! If you open up your mind and explore the possibilities of lube, these myths will mean nothing when you experience the best sex ever!

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How I Lost My Fleshlight Virginity

images Before I stepped into the world of Sex With Emily, I didn’t know what a Fleshlight was. I had never seen one or heard anyone talking about them. I was aware of a colorful variety of sex accessories, but never considered the existence of such a toy. Then on my first day, I finally saw it . It actually looks like a flashlight, until you take the cap off. They’re intimidating to look at if you’ve never seen one.  I didn’t know what to think about it. Now I do, and boy am I glad.

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Tips for Hot(ter) Summer Sex!


Summer, glorious summer, is finally upon us, and there’s something sexy in the air.

In addition to the great weather and time off, this season brings with it feelings of adventure and opportunity. It’s the perfect time for barbecues, beach trips and bikinis. Plus, it’s a proven fact that everything gets sexier in the summer! There are more people out and about, meaning more opportunities to flirt with someone new. Of if you’re already settled down, summer presents endless opportunities to turn up the heat on your sex life!

No matter where you’re getting busy, or who with, no summer sex-capades would be complete without the necessary tools. Here are five sex tips & tricks that are really worth exploring in the sizzling hot days ahead…

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