We tend to think of game-playing as a just-for-kids-activity, but newsflash: Adults can benefit from a little playtime, too! If love and sex is all a game, are you actually having fun with it? Sometimes you need to channel the good old days and let your imagination run wild.
Maybe you feel out of touch with your body lately. Maybe you’re holding back from asking for what you want from a partner. No matter what is holding you back, you need to rediscover the excitement in your life before it’s GAME OVER. So… Are you ready to play?
Sex coach and recent podcast guest Pam Costa shares how playing like a kid helped her bring the fun back to the bedroom in the latest Down to There blog…
How well does your partner know your body? If you had to think about it, they probably don’t. I mean, do you think you know your partner’s body any better? Gotcha!
Now I don’t want to start guilt tripping you or anything, but seeing as our bodies are hard-wired for pleasure, it’s about time we start paying attention to what makes them tick. Next time you embark on a full-body exploration between the sheets, take notice of how your partner is responding to your best moves. Does his back curve when he’s on the edge of orgasm? Do her legs twitch when you’re teasing her clitoris? Our bodies are always sending signals during sex. Can you read the signs?
You don’t need to be a fortune teller to read your partner’s body language, just stay focused. Pam shares how using all her senses helped her be more present in the bedroom in the latest Down to There blog….
They say the smallest details in a relationship can make a big impact. Sometimes these details can be a missed opportunity or a perfect moment. Play your cards rights, and you might just get lucky – It’s up to you!
Timing is everything, and the right look or kiss can help you spark the flame you’ve been waiting for. If you think sex is your only chance for intimacy, you’re wrong. Foreplay starts after the last orgasm, after all!
So what happens when you make a plan to incorporate tiny acts of intimacy into your day to day life? Pam shares how a kiss a day helped kick-start her marriage onto a happy and warm path in the latest Down to There blog.
I learn so much from your podcasts! I am 36 and recently separated from a 16-year relationship. After waiting eight months, I decided I was ready to start dating again. A few colleagues of mine recommended some dating apps, so I checked them out. I went on two OKCupid dates and they went horribly. Then I gave it one last shot and started talking to a guy six years older than me. We have been talking for two weeks but haven’t met in person yet. So far, our connection has been great!
So here’s my question for you: Is there a certain timeline to meet this guy and move forward from there? What do you suggest when it comes to going from cyber- and phone-chatting to meeting IRL?
Laura in LA Continue Reading
If you think you’re having too much sex with someone you love, it’s could be a sign that something’s off in the bedroom. Big or small, any unresolved issues or insecurities can be holding you back from having brag-worthy sex. And if you find that something feels off, you have to confront it head on.
Pam shares what happened when she realized that sex had started to lose it’s flavor – and how expressing her desires helped to get it back – in the latest Down to There blog.
Have you ever heard the saying “You don’t buy the car without taking it for a test drive”? Most of the time, this age old adage is used in favor of premarital sex… An important topic for another day, no doubt.
In this moment, however, I’m applying it to living with a significant other—A journey I recently embarked upon. And let me tell you, if I didn’t believe in the car theory pre-cohabitation, I certainly do now. Continue Reading