So, you’re stuck at home with your sweetie. You’ve cooked soup, watched everything Netflix has to offer, and…now what? Well, may I suggest getting your heart racing with some BDSM? Now that we’re all home alone, trying something new sexually is easier than ever. But…where to get those supplies?
Don’t wait around to have nipple clamps delivered or break the bank getting the custom made paddles of your dreams. You’ve probably got most of the stuff you need to get started in your own house. We call these items pervertables: regular items that you can pervert to make all your sexy BDSM fantasies come true.
So without further ado: here’s some DIY BDSM tools you might have laying around your house, and what to do with them.
Though someone acting hot and cold is a total drag, consensually acting with hot and cold can bring your bedroom routine into a whole new climate. No matter who you are, adding new sensations between the sheets can help you and your partner discover new things about your own bodies and desires.
You can rub an ice cube down your partner’s back or use a heated massage oil. Either way, incorporating temperature play into your sex life is an exciting and arousing way to connect with your partner.
How’s your holiday shopping going? Checked those big items off your list and find yourself scouring the dollar bins or baskets near-the-register for stocking stuffers?
Why not pick up something a little more meaningful to perk up your partner and get their desire burning like chestnuts on an open fire? Continue Reading
I heard that you’re a little bit curious about getting hurt, or perhaps hurting your partner? Consensually, of course. Well, you’ve come to the right place.
Today I’ll be teaching you some fun and painful sadomasochism games to explore with a willing lover. Whether you’re a pain Top or bottom, this blogs for you. If you have a partner who’s vanilla (non-kinky), read through this blog first. Continue Reading
Have you ever wondered how to explore some of the kinky aspects of sex, but felt unsure how to broach it with your partner?
Perhaps your lover has told you they identify as “vanilla” (which simply means non-kinky), but you have some burning BDSM desires?
Don’t lose hope! On today’s blog, I’m going to show you how a kinky person can still get their needs met, even when their partner is vanilla.
I walked in through my front door after what felt like a very long day at the office. The last thing I expected to see was a hand-drawn map on the floor.
Hanging up my purse and keys, I squatted down to take a closer look. Upon closer inspection, I realized it was a map of our apartment, with a large X marked “you are here” right at the front door. The living room is marked “make-out zone”, the kitchen says “impact play”, and the bedroom is called “pleasure town”.
I chuckled, my husband’s silly sense of humor amused me, and also made my cheeks feel flushed. The workday is long forgotten. After all these years, my husband could still surprise and delight me. Continue Reading
Ah, the art of the tease. It’s the best way to start up something steamy and the longer you savor the suspense, the better.
You know those delicious moments leading up to sex?
Imagine if you could prolong that sexual tension, the sizzling sense of anticipation and draw it out until you just can’t take it anymore.
You have to have each other right then, right there, right now. Continue Reading
Trying to find your soulmate through online dating is hard, but finding your sex toy soulmate doesn’t have to be. Stop swiping around and settling for less than you deserve, and settle down with your perfect sex toy bae.
Who says you need to go out to a fancy restaurant for an overpriced meal to show your true love what they mean to you on Valentine’s Day? Skip the usual Valentine’s crowd and make a reservation for you and your partner at the one place you know there won’t be a crowd: home.
It’s safe to say that spring has officially sprung. The sun is shining, and the flowers are blooming. It seems only fitting to bring some of that freshness into the bedroom! On today’s show, Emily is joined by Madison and Jamie to talk about all the new sex toys, tricks, and tips that have been the buzz of the SWE office!
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