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Halloween’s canceled this year but that doesn’t mean you can’t dress up. Today, I’m talking about lingerie, figuring out what outfits you like, how to talk about it with your partner, and what happens when your plans for a sexy lingerie night go astray. The right outfit can completely transform sex and break up the monotony in long-term relationships. (Spoiler alert: it doesn’t have to be leather or lace!) 
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non-sexual blog sex with emilyWhen I say I am a “BDSM coach,” people often respond with wide-eyed surprise. Of course the titillation is there when people hear “BDSM”, especially thanks to 50 Shades. But I think it is mainly because “BDSM” screams “kinky, unconventional naughty sex” to people.

There are many aspects of BDSM that do not include sexual contact at all. Some activities are also what I would consider “sex adjacent”. This means there is no sexual genital contact, but there might be some sexual allure/arousal occurring.

This article provides some examples of the glorious non-sexual aspects of BDSM.

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BDSM is certainly trending in pop culture right now, and terms like Dom, sub, babygirl, and Daddy Dom are being tossed around pretty fast and loose.

I’m here to overthrow the idea that you need a partner to enjoy BDSM.

Being single doesn’t have to prevent you from experiencing the joys of having a Daddy Dom.


In fact, today I’m going to teach you how to be your very own Daddy Dom. 

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When’s the last time you said “Yes Daddy?” If I had to guess, it’s probably been over ten years at least. Me on the other hand, I said it earlier today, but not to my father, to my boyfriend. No it wasn’t in the midst of an early morning romp in the sack, it was just over coffee.


Calling your lover “Daddy” while making love is one thing, but have you ever even fathomed calling him “Daddy” twenty-four seven?

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