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Have you ever sent a sext to your partner with no reply? Was the anticipation itself good enough to get your blood pumping?
They could have been busy, but they also could have been stumped. Sometimes a great sext goes unanswered because its just too damn hot to top!
Sex Coach Pam Costa shares her unexpected sexting experience in her  Down to There blog…

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Everyone gets turned on differently, but have you ever thought about the type of arousal that turns you on best?
Maybe you need to be relaxed before, or you want something kinkier to get you in the mood. One thing many of us can agree on though, is that sexual tension may be the best arousal technique around.
Sex Coach Pam Costa shares her “energetic” experience in her Down to There blog…

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You would think with a class entitled “Polishing the Penis,” you’d come out of it with all the hand and mouth tricks you need to please any man’s member.
While the tips are great, there’s another lesson to be learned that’s even more important when becoming a penis professional.

 

Sex Coach Pam Costa shares her penis tutorial experience in her Down to There blog…

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With all the trials and tribulations of life, just getting away for the weekend is hard enough. But a vacation is the perfect opportunity to explore your sex life with your partner!
While role play might not be your style, imagine how sexy it would be to pretend your partner is just a sexy stranger at the bar you’ve set your eyes on. You can create a new persona, dip into your inner sex vixen, and have sex like it’s the very first time between the two of you.
Sex Coach Pam Costa shares her first dabble in sexy role play in her Down to There blog…

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Seeing someone talk so openly about sex and their intimate lives leads you to believe they have it all figured out. All their problems have been solved, and they’re done asking questions.
In reality, not even these incredibly open people will reach a point of  having all the answers. But talking about your journey can help others see that they’re not alone– and neither are you!
Sex Coach Pam Costa shares how even those that seem to have it altogether still have room to grow in her Down to There blog…

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Here at Sex With Emily, talking about sex is literally the job description. We’re constantly researching, writing, filming, and tweeting about everything under the sexual rainbow.
Not everyone is so lucky to be in such an open & nonjudgemental environment, or have friends that they can turn to. Once you find that group, though, it’s amazing how liberating and comfortable you can feel
Talking about sex is one of the best ways to have a better sex life, and the best ways to know that whatever your kinks are– you’re not a lone. Sex Coach Pam Costa shares how her sex sharing circles came to fruition in her Down to There blog…

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Many women have trouble orgasming, whether they’re with a partner or by themselves. Some have so much trouble, they think that an orgasm just isn’t in the cards for them. Putting so much focus and attention on something can actually be what’s keeping you from attaining your goal.
These thoughts of “I have to orgasm; come on it’s going to happen; you’re so close, just get there” can overwhelm your brain, making you miss the mark every time (or result in a mediocre orgasm). The best way to start your journey towards the big O is actually take climaxing off the table. Don’t worry about getting to the end, just enjoy the ride. 
Being in the moment during sex instead of driving towards a goal will make greater strides in your quest to orgasm than you think. Sex Coach Pam Costa shares her first experience letting go of her quest and how mind-blowing it became in her Down to There blog…

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Being tied up by a partner is a fantasy many have, but not nearly as many actually put this fantasy in motion. In order to let someone tie you up– even the person you’re madly in love with, you have to trust them whole-heartedly. They literally hold the reigns, tying you up in any way, constricting you, keeping you from control.
It can be hard to let someone have that much physical control over you, especially if that’s something you have an issue with. You might feel the urge to regain some control and direct them, but what if you fought that urge? What if you let go completely, and let your body give the feedback? 
Putting all of your trust in your partner may surprise you in a way you never thought possible. Sex Coach Pam Costa shares her first experience letting go and letting her husband tie her up in her Down to There blog…

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They teach us in school about the importance of eye contact. Whether you’re giving a presentation, attending an interview, or speaking with a customer at work, eye contact shows respect, and that you’re listening. So, when it comes to your partner, it only makes sense you’d give them that same respect.
However, have you ever truly gazed into their eyes for longer than twenty or so seconds? How would you feel if the two of you stared into each other’s eyes for five full minutes? It doesn’t feel natural at first, in fact, pretty awkward. Imagine the connection you would feel though, if you got passed the awkwardness. How would you feel then?  
Allowing yourself to truly see your partner will give you a deeper connection than you ever thought possible. Sex Coach Pam Costa shares how gazing a little longer can bring you and your love closer than ever in her Down to There blog…

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The vows of marriage state, “until death do us part,” that you love and accept each other for who you are, and that you respect that. However, does that mean we have to accept the ways they love us? When maybe… we want something else?
It can be hard to talk to our partners about the ways in which we want to be treated, held, touched. It’s not that they’ve loved you inadequately up until now, but you want them to know exactly what you need, and the only way to do that is to tell them. 
Unfortunately, your feedback may not always be perceived as eloquently as you intended. Sex Coach Pam Costa shares how you need to make your sex feedback sexy in her Down to There blog…

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