I have a question regarding sex with my fiancé. We really only have sex on the weekends, maybe once or twice on Saturday or on Sunday morning. He works long hours and is often very tired after work, and he has stated on multiple occasions that he doesn’t feel like having sex when he is tired. Personally, I would love to be getting busy more often, but I always end up feeling like he’s just not into it.
Recently I brought up these feelings to him and he admitted that he is often too tired to initiate sex, but he wouldn’t turn me down if I got things started. He has always been the initiator in our relationship, so I know it’s my turn to make the first move, but I’m having trouble getting things started. How can I get better at initiating sex?
Q: Dear Emily,
My boyfriend and I have a great sex life, but there is one issue that keeps popping up. He recently asked me to pleasure myself in front of him, and it’s not the first time he has made this request. I masturbate from time to time, but never in front of another person! I feel like masturbation is such a private activity and trying to do it in front of him feels awkward and forced. The last time he asked, I got angry and told him to do it himself and see how it feels, but my plan backfired because he totally loved it. Why is this such a big turn on for him? And how can I masturbate for my BF without feeling so uncomfortable?
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This wednesday, July 16th, I’ll be hosting my “How to Blow (His Mind)” workshop at Hustler Hollywood. We’ll be talking about oral sex tips, sex toy recommendations, masturbation and everything in between. You can RSVP to firstname.lastname@example.org So, I was inspired by my workshop as well as a recent episode of Loveline, in which Mike Catherwood, Dr. Drew and I discuss the ever popular blow job, I’m curious about what you think fellatio?
A few weeks ago, my boyfriend and I went on a vacation. We rented a cabin out in the desert and in between hiking and cooking dinner together, we had sex- lots of sex. The honeymoon period of a new relationship is fantastic for an array of reasons. There’s the thrill of connecting with another person, the desire to be a better you, and of course- the pleasure of a sexual relationship. It’s also an important time to pay close attention to your potential partner’s behavior, because as the saying goes, “actions speak louder than words.”
I brought along a few surprises for our trip, one of which was the Emily & Tony Aromatherapy Massage Candle. As a new intern, Emily gave me the candle to experiment with. I was kind of nervous because I’d never used a massage candle before but Emily told me to “just have fun with it.” I knew it’d be exciting to use something new in the bedroom and I was happy to have an accessory help set the mood. I sprung for the Fougere scent and with notes of cedar, vetiver, patchouli, amber and nutmeg; the cabin was filled with a soft glow and sensual smell. Continue Reading
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You may have heard of Emily & Tony’s Down Under Comfort. Trust me, you want this stuff to freshen up your balls. One thing that will definitely turn down the steam on a sexy blow job is unkempt, sweaty balls. This product is a cream to powder formula that is meant to keep you fresh and clean in your most desirable areas. But I’m here to tell you that Down Under Comfort is not just for your balls. In fact, it’s not just for men! This product has a variety of uses for both men and women! Continue Reading
After having been completely sold out of DownUnder Comfort, Emily & Tony have brought you more of the product you know and love! This unique cream formula turns into a light natural powder to help keep your intimate areas dry, comfortable, fresh and clean! DownUnder Comfort can be used anywhere on the body, it can help keep guys fresh ‘down there,’ and both men and women can use it on their feet, underarms and everywhere else that you need to manage sweat.
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I know you’ve all heard about my new line of products that will enhance your sex life. I’m so excited to share my aromatherapy massage candles with you! This luxurious soft glowing massage candle sets the mood for an exhilarating sensual experience. These alluring candles come in three delicious scents: Creme de Vanille, Coco, and Fougere. Find out more at Emily & Tony!
Even if you think masturbation is
something the only thing you’ve mastered in adulthood, there are always new ways to do you. Think about it this way: would you have sex with the same person, the exact same way every time? I didn’t think so. Then why would you treat yourself that way? As Woody Allen put it, “masturbation is sex with someone you love.” Continue Reading
Balls are kind of cute and cuddly on the right guy. That is of course if they are not sweaty balls covered in beastly hair.
Ladies: Pretending that balls don’t exist is futile. They are just too big, strange, and dangly to ignore. No matter how much you focus on the penis, “the boys” are hovering in the background ready to make their move. Literally. Balls move by their own volition. Testicles react to the temperature, moving around to protect the sperm. It’s a little terrifying. Continue Reading