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play blog sex with emilyWith some states coming out of Covid-19 lockdown, many people are venturing out, having BBQs, trying to responsibly socialize and might feel like they have been let out of jail of social “confinement.” During the past few months of quarantine time (and especially since May was Masturbation Month), a lot of people have been focusing on masturbation as sexual release. Yay! But don’t let up on this focus just because you are potentially unleashed into the world and able to start to touch others.

This month is Pride month, and this year, our focus here at Sex With Emily during Pride is “playfulness.” In the theme of playfulness, finding new ways to play with your body is one of the best ways to spend Pride month!

Here are some ways you can “play” with your body.

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feel beginners masturbation blog sex with emilyIf you were to write a book about all the things you didn’t learn in sex ed class, it would be three times as long (and three times as useful) as a book about what we did learn. It feels like we covered the medical names of all our parts and were fed some fear-mongering stats about pregnancy and STIs. For most, we somehow completely skipped over the fact that 1. You can orgasm. And 2. You can orgasm all by your damn self. 

Don’t be fooled, like driving a car or making a food that isn’t mac and cheese from the box, masturbation is something you have to learn. And even if you had the most liberal or extensive health classes in school, chances are there wasn’t a unit on making yourself finish. (And if there was please let me know what school you went to.) 

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porn blog sex with emilyThere are a few things in life that we all as humans do, but among eating, drinking, breathing and the like, there’s watching porn – which has been (and feels like it’ll always be) a pretty solid cornerstone of life. 

But there’s a lot more to adult filmmaking than sometimes meets the eye. Which despite the undeniable popularity, is why we should be talking about it way more often and openly, rather than sweeping our desires under the rug.

So today we’re pleased to announce that conversation starts here! With a lively mix of our favorite blogs and podcasts about the spicy subject.

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GCE Blog Sex With EmilyI’ve been hearing the term BDE (Or Big Dick Energy) floating around for a while now. I really like the vibe of it, but the specific definition…not so much.

The idea is that having a “big” dick makes you more confident, calm, and self-assured. But the notion of penis size equating to penis value is an outdated, inaccurate, and hurtful one. It also leaves vulva owners and intersex or genital non-conforming folks out of the fun.

So I propose my own version instead; Genital Confidence Energy or GCE!

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kinky sex with emily blogHave you ever wondered how to explore some of the kinky aspects of sex, but felt unsure how to broach it with your partner?

Perhaps your lover has told you they identify as “vanilla” (which simply means non-kinky), but you have some burning BDSM desires?

Don’t lose hope! On today’s blog, I’m going to show you how a kinky person can still get their needs met, even when their partner is vanilla. 

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How can we get the proper sex education to our kids through the school system? Erotica Filmmaker Erika Lust & I discuss the importance of answering sexual related questions our children have thoroughly & compassionately. Because if it’s not being taught, or if there is no ongoing conversation, then the first place teenagers turn to answers is porn (which might be entertaining, but it’s the last place to go for education.)

For more about Erika Lust, click here.

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