Beginning when we’re children, most of us are taught proper table manners. We’re taught where to put our arms, how to eat our food, and even what constitutes appropriate dinner conversation. Continue Reading
I’m just going to put this out there — I have had quite a bit of mediocre sex.
No disrespect to my past partners, I certainly had a part in it as well. I expected them all to read my mind and KNOW what I wanted, without ever actually telling them what I wanted. And like many women out there, I gave epic orgasmic performances and handed out positive feedback to guys who didn’t even come close to earning it.
And then something wonderful happened. The sex started getting better! A lot of that had to do with the fact that I started to figure out what I liked in bed and became more comfortable asking for it. But there was also a shift in my partners’ bedroom attitudes that made a big difference. Whether I was choosing more considerate guys, or the guys I always flocked to had done some maturing, I can’t be sure. But all of a sudden, my partners genuinely cared about whether I was having a good time. And as a result, I WAS having a good time. Continue Reading
It’s a fresh new year and on today’s show Emily helps tackle your resolutions to make all of your new year dreams come true! Whether you want to expand your orgasmic horizons or you’re trying to find your foreplay sweet spot, Emily’s got the answers to set you on the path to a sexy and successful 2016!
Have the stresses of the season put a damper on your sex drive? On today’s show, Emily is full of advice to help you de-stress and sexually connect during the hectic holidays. Plus, she answers your listener emails regarding the best sex toys for gifting, escaping extramarital affairs and unearthing elusive orgasms. Continue Reading
I have a confession to make: I hate giving hand jobs. There, I said it, I’m out. I’ve always found them to be awkward, exhausting and sort of pointless. Why work so hard to do something that any guy could do for himself — and do better, for that matter? Continue Reading
Let’s talk about orgasms, or lack thereof, as the case may be. The key ingredient for great sex generally centers around both parties leaving satisfied, yes? According to research published in the Journal of Sex & Martial Therapy (2006), women were about two and a half times more likely to feel sexually satisfied when they achieved orgasm. No surprise there. Unfortunately, this simple task becomes a little more difficult, thanks to something known as the orgasm gap. Continue Reading
A few weeks ago, I was teaching a workshop at the Hustler Hollywood store in Los Angeles called “Back to Sex Ed Basics” with the intent of covering everything that you WISHED you learned in sex ed, but didn’t.
I always give the option of having the audience submit anonymous questions because, let’s face it, not everyone feels comfortable raising their hand in a room full of strangers, especially to ask questions about sex.
My team arranged the questions in piles labeled by topic, including “Oral sex questions”, “Safe sex questions” and “Blow Job questions.”
When it came time to address the pressing blow job questions, I picked up the pile and sifted through the submissions only to find something remarkable. Every single card in the pile had a variation of the same question: “How do I work through my gag reflex when performing oral sex on my partner?.” Continue Reading
In this show, Emily is breaking down a variety of sex tips and topics to help you step up your bedroom routine. Today’s topics include the right way to give oral, the wrong way to get busy and tricks to keep your sexual confidence going strong in a long term relationship. Continue Reading
Usually, sex makes sounds. Sometimes, it’s nice to cut through the moaning, grunting, squishing and slapping with some good old-fashioned music. Whether you’re just trying to conceal your loud love-making from your roommates in the living room, or you’re really looking to set the sexy-time mood, having a sex playlist is essential. Continue Reading
As someone who just recently put college in her rearview mirror (okay, it was two years ago, but still…) this time of year still hits me with a wave of nostalgia.
In grade school, September brought with it the memories of pencil boxes, crisp white notebook paper and the mandatory Lisa Frank trapper-keeper (don’t act like you don’t know what I’m talking about). Now, I can’t breathe in the crisp autumn air without picturing Orientation Week keg parties, late night dorm room hangouts and the sea of strangers that I would soon call my lovers and friends. Continue Reading