Sadomasochism is the deliciously wicked act of enjoying inflicting or receiving pain, which may or may not involve humiliation (your choice). The (S)adist deals out the torment, which the (m)asochist receives with grace – or with squeals and squirms (consensually).
August means the sizzling heat – inside and outside of the bedroom, and it also means it’s Alternative August! Time for all your wild stories to come out and shine.
We love hearing about your revolutionary, sex positive and explorative methods of expressing your sexuality.
With the rise in popularity of BDSM and all things kink, there are also a lot of misconceptions going around. Unfortunately, some of the recent movies about BDSM (not naming names *cough*) miss the mark on the cornerstone principles of BDSM for most kinksters.
For about three years now, I have been partaking in lifestyle (swingers for those who are unaware) and Kink events. Needless to say, I’ve never turned back. If I do attend a regular vanilla party, I find myself asking the question, “so when is everyone going to start getting naked?”
One of the questions I get asked the most (and a question that comes up in the Sex With Emily inbox more than you’d think) is, “how do I get into the scene?”
The sex community is quite discrete, but once you have your foot in the door, you step into a beautiful black hole of possibilities.
Santa’s got a brand new bag, and it’s filled with toys for all you naughty girls and boys. But what doesn’t fit in Santa’s big red bag? The tantalizing gift of kink play! From beginners to fetish veterans, adding a dash of kink can spice up anyone’s holiday season.
Let’s take the that PG holiday cheer up to an X rating.
People are always looking to spice up their sex life. After a while, things get stale, and for some, the imagination is lacking. It’s hard to come up with fun and exciting ideas to bring back that insatiable lust.
To really dig up those passionate pangs, sometimes you have to get that adrenaline pumping and take a little walk on the wild side.