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Q: DEAR EMILY,

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I’ve been dating my current boyfriend for just about a year now, and he’s amazing! We have great sex, but it’s not always the most exciting. He regularly asks me what I’m interested in, but I don’t know how to approach the topic. We recently took a sex questionnaire (where you compare answers at the end), and it really helped me to get some of my wants out on the table—which he’s been very responsive to—but I’d still like to try some more exciting things, like temperature play and being tied down.

How do I bring these up without (a) scaring the pants off him and (b) making him feel bad? Because I love our sex, I just think it could be more intense and sensual.

Amelia, 26, France

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cupcakeWe wrote them; you read them. It may seem like we’re doing most of the work, but in reality, it’s because of all of you readers, listeners, and subscribers out there that we do what we do. We hear your concerns, your questions, and your fantasies, and try to put out content that will give you answers, peace of mind, and the courage to explore all things sex!

So for that, we say THANK YOU. We wouldn’t be here without you.

In light 2016 ending, we asked you to tell us what you learned this year, what you want to learn in the new year, and what posts really helped you rock your bedroom activities. So, in case you missed them, here are the TOP 5 blog posts from this sex-tastic year:

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blindfoldThey say that seeing is believing, but my eyes haven’t always had my back when it comes to finding love. As soon as I see a potential match online, the expectations and daydreams follow while my focus begins to fade away. You would think that people on Tinder only post accurate pictures and legit bios, but that’s not always the case. My last date, for example, turned into an awful, yet highly entertaining episode of Catfish. Let’s just say I didn’t find the best catch of the evening.

I know we can trick our minds to look beyond appearances, but you can’t fake chemistry. Love is blind, after all. Sometimes you need to call upon those other senses to help guide you toward satisfaction! Continue Reading

4f4748a2ff5c81579dd052663a1acecfAh the holidays! What fun it is to ride and grind against that someone special. We know Santa comes when you’ve been good, but who comes when you’ve been bad… very, very bad? I do. It’s me, “Bad Girl Santa.” I know I don’t have a beard that’s white as snow, a sled, or eight tiny reindeer, but hey, I’ve got the boots and the crop so let’s get this XXXmas party started. Continue Reading

tumblr_n8bcu7xgtf1qj2f39o1_1280I was born this way. When I was four, before I even knew what sex was, I used to masturbate to fantasies of being kidnapped and enslaved. I remember feeling confused and ashamed about my fantasies, but I couldn’t resist indulging them while rubbing my clitoris with a beanie baby. The result was too delicious.

This would become my deepest darkest secret that I would never reveal at sleepovers, that I would never even write in my diaries because I did not want to face how fucked-up I was. Something was deeply and fundamentally wrong with me, and I would sporadically try to “quit” my fantasy-ridden masturbation sessions, much like a drug addict still clinging to the ever-dwindling hope of recovery. Continue Reading

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