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What does it mean when you fantasize about an ex? Or when your partner wants to open up, but stay in your relationship? Let’s get into it.

Do you have a growth mindset around your sex life? I help you ID obstacles to your sexuality and figure out solutions for self-exploration.

I dive into the psychology of foreplay and how to get aroused with specific (and quite sexy) pre-game tips.

How do you relax into oral sex? How do you tell a partner you want to spice up your vanilla sex? I answer all this in today’s Hotline show.

Are you the asshole for craving oral sex when your partner won’t give it? For hooking up with someone else while on a break? I let you know.

From telling casual partners you’re sleeping with other people, to discussing your partner’s porn history, I answer these juicy Hotline calls.

Sex isn’t just about penetration, yet that’s what we often mean by “having sex.” I give ideas for mutual masturbation, elevated oral & more.

From swearing off penetrative sex to quitting playing games, Violet Benson shares how she creates the sex life that truly work for her.

From reverse cowgirl and the Kivin Method to shower sex, I share tips to make ambitious moves easier and classic sex positions more exciting.

We all need to mix it up sometimes. With creativity and a little teasing, absolutely everyone can spice up their sex life.