Picture this- you’re a gorgeous, Black, female-identifying, self-proclaimed dildo wrangler. You’ve just arrived in Vegas for your first big Sex Toy trade show. You check in at the registration, put on your badge, take a quick walk around the manufacturers’ booths to get a vibe. As you’re taking in everything you see you think….
Where are all the Black people?
Although there are more Black people in the sex toy industry today, 6 years ago I hardly saw any. I wondered why there were so few of us working in this area. (You might have guessed by now, that the gorgeous dildo wrangler was me.)
Let’s get balls deep into just one of the melanin-deficient sectors of the sex toy industry. I’m talking about the sexual product manufacturers.
The birds are chirping. The sun is warmer. You can’t go anywhere anyway (thanks ‘rona!). So it is time to do some spring cleaning. You know – that tradition of cleaning your home from top to bottom, even under the sofa cushions.
But don’t forget that sex drawer! Yes, sex toys need some spring cleaning, too. Many of us don’t realize that we have to clean our toys regularly, not just after use. We also may not realize that it might be time to refresh our collection.
Here are some tips on how to clean your sex toys, as well as a little “out with the old, in with the new.”
Sometimes two meet and there’s an instant magic and compatibility. An inexplicable and perfectly complementary connection and is hard to come by. Of course this is true of people and relationships, but sometimes it’s also true of sex products. Enter the Lioness and Foria Awaken.
We here at Sex With Emily are always on the search for a better, more satisfying orgasm. With these two groundbreaking products, that greener climax grass might be closer than you think.
So how exactly do Foria and the Lioness work together so well to bring you to newer neighborhoods of pleasure-town?
Back when we had another sequel to the 50 Shades trilogy to look forward to, some of us could at least fantasize about doing some of the steamy things dominant Christian and submissive Anastasia were doing.
This year, if you want to spice up your sex life on Valentine’s day with some BDSM, you’re going to have to DIY without the box office fantasy. This is a good thing, as the movies were problematic anyway as far as proper and ethical BDSM behavior is concerned.
Lucky for you, this article is comin’ in hot! And just in time for the big V day. If you haven’t yet planned and executed a BDSM “scene,” Valentine’s day is the perfect time to do it!
So, let’s get you strapped in, tied down, and focused on the following steps and tips to set up a hot and fun BDSM scene for your Valentine this year.
There’s no reason to feel anything but orgasmic on February 14th! Celebrate your sweetheart or your singleness with these recommendations from Emily. These sexy gifts are guaranteed to make you feel satisfied in a way that a box of chocolates never can.
A lit candle in the bedroom is useful to create a sexy and dramatic mood for getting it on. But did you also know that a massage candle can be the best sex toy you never thought of?
As Hanukkah is approaching, get in the holiday spirit by not only lighting the Menorah, but also lighting up your bedroom play with a sensual massage and some “candle play”.
With so many sex toys and products on the market nowadays, it’s hard to know where to start. But everyone needs to add some play things to date night every now and then. So to help take some of that pressure off yourself, why not turn to a pro to do the work FOR you?
Enter: the official SWE Date Night Done Right Box.
How’s your holiday shopping going? Checked those big items off your list and find yourself scouring the dollar bins or baskets near-the-register for stocking stuffers?
Why not pick up something a little more meaningful to perk up your partner and get their desire burning like chestnuts on an open fire? Continue Reading
Alright everyone, it’s time to get into that gift giving spirit – especially if you’re buying for yourself! Black Friday and Cyber Monday are here once again and you know what that means? Gifts at a discount! Now, it’s not that your loved ones don’t deserve it all, but we all know that the more you can get off (pun intended), the more you can get for everyone around you.
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With heading back to school comes heading back into reality.
For most people, reality means staying extra busy – and often tired.
But a lack of energy doesn’t always mean a lack of sexual drive.
So, when arousal strikes in even the most exhausted of states, have no fear!
Because there are tons of sex positions that can absolutely fit the bill, even when you’re beat.
Here are a few of our favorites to maximize pleasure with minimal effort.