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face mask blog sex with emilyThere are many things we don’t yet know about the Coronavirus. But one thing is certain: wearing a face mask helps protect you and everyone around you.

Hmm, a small covering that you can wear to stop the potential spread of disease, to keep you and others safe…remind you of anything?

That’s right folks, I’m talking about condoms. Of course there are major differences between these two prophylactics. But there are also, and perhaps even more, parallels that I’d like to point out between them. Face masks are kind of like the condoms of Coronavirus. And just like actual condoms, everyone and their mother should be using them.

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financial domination blog sex with emilyThere are many different kinds of fetishes in the world. This fetish spotlight is on “Financial domination” (or “Findom” for short).

I find this fetish to be one of the most interesting – and often misunderstood. The sexual attraction in this fetish generally comes from the exchange of money. Financial domination “is a very real fetish involving a submissive being ‘forced’ to give money to the Dominant.” 

So what’s the deal? How does this fetish play out, what’s the appeal, and how do you get into it? Let’s unpack this kinky arrangement.

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dpy bdsm blog sex with emilySo, you’re stuck at home with your sweetie. You’ve cooked soup, watched everything Netflix has to offer, and…now what? Well, may I suggest getting your heart racing with some BDSM? Now that we’re all home alone, trying something new sexually is easier than ever. But…where to get those supplies?

Don’t wait around to have nipple clamps delivered or break the bank getting the custom made paddles of your dreams. You’ve probably got most of the stuff you need to get started in your own house. We call these items pervertables: regular items that you can pervert to make all your sexy BDSM fantasies come true.

So without further ado: here’s some DIY BDSM tools you might have laying around your house, and what to do with them.

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party blog sex with emilyNew Years Eve is a time of renewal, reflection, and getting litty as hell with your closest friends. 

It’s one of the biggest partying events of the year, which means that it’s also one of the biggest nights for petty crime.

Whether you’re going to a rave, a house party, or just getting a glass of champagne to ring in the new year at your local bar, we’ve got some advice to keep you safe and start the new year right.

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scared of sex blog sex with emily

Photo by Alexandra Gorn on Unsplash

Dear Emily,

So my issue is I am afraid of sex!
 
I was raised to believe that sex before marriage is a TERRIBLE sin, and I’m stuck with associating sex, in general, with feelings of shame and guilt. 
 
I don’t even want to think about marriage until I’m at least 25, which seems way too old to still be a virgin! I’m worried that when I actually get serious with a guy I won’t be able to get over these feelings of shame and fear. Please help!
 
Sincerely, 
Lucy

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choking blog sex with emilySo you wanna learn all about choking? You’ve come to the right place.

There are so many different ways to explore choking, but it’s important to do it safely. Very important. I mean, we are talking about constricting someone’s airways here.

So today is your crash course in choking etiquette 101. Let’s go!

***Safety Disclaimer: Choking can be very dangerous in the wrong hands. When and if you are in doubt, DO NOT TRY THIS at all. This site and author are not responsible for any accidents if they happen. Be smart and know your limits.***

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