Back when we had another sequel to the 50 Shades trilogy to look forward to, some of us could at least fantasize about doing some of the steamy things dominant Christian and submissive Anastasia were doing.
This year, if you want to spice up your sex life on Valentine’s day with some BDSM, you’re going to have to DIY without the box office fantasy. This is a good thing, as the movies were problematic anyway as far as proper and ethical BDSM behavior is concerned.
Lucky for you, this article is comin’ in hot! And just in time for the big V day. If you haven’t yet planned and executed a BDSM “scene,” Valentine’s day is the perfect time to do it!
So, let’s get you strapped in, tied down, and focused on the following steps and tips to set up a hot and fun BDSM scene for your Valentine this year.
It’s Halloween! This year, take your sex game up a notch by building your very own sex dungeon!
You can “spook” (ok maybe more like “titillate”) your partner(s) in a sex dungeon built for suspense and excitement without having to leave the comfort of your own home!
And always remember these ideas are built on fully informed consent, which is a cornerstone of healthy BDSM play.
Have you ever wondered how to explore some of the kinky aspects of sex, but felt unsure how to broach it with your partner?
Perhaps your lover has told you they identify as “vanilla” (which simply means non-kinky), but you have some burning BDSM desires?
Don’t lose hope! On today’s blog, I’m going to show you how a kinky person can still get their needs met, even when their partner is vanilla.
From electrical currents to sex toy chests, nurse costumes to literary erotica, there is so much more to sex than just the old in-and-out.
I have considered myself a full submissive for about three years now and one of my favorite Doms is a gorgeous dominatrix named Mistress Iris. She and I have played a couple of times, always with us both leaving with massive smiles on our faces.