Are you struggling to sustain your solo sex life without your favorite visual aids? Looking for tips to help boost your lover’s sexual skills? How do you keep the “casual” in your casual sex relationship?
All month long, Emily has posed this question. And all month long, I have avoided attempting to answer it myself. The truth is, confidence is something I have always struggled with. Maybe not in the brains department; I know what I bring to the table when it comes to wit, eloquence and punctilious prose. But the second I hit the bedroom, all that aplomb disappears with a *poof* of The self-assuredness I exude in my daily life dissipates somewhere in between dinner conversation and dirty talk.
That’s the thing about confidence, I guess. Practice makes perfect. While my 20 years of schooling gave me plenty of practice with social and academic confidence, when it comes to things between the sheets, well… guess I slept through that particular course. And I wasn’t the only one. Continue Reading
At this point in the month, you know that sexual confidence means being able to ask for what you want, right? Well now it’s time to put those skills into practice. The folks at Vibratex (who brought you the Original Rabbit Habit) know that confidence is one of the sexiest things a person can cultivate, and they want to reward your hard work by giving away one of their best-selling sex toys—all you have to do is ask!
Just “LIKE” Vibratex’s Facebook page, click “Continue” and tell them which toy you’d most want to take home—at the end of the month, they’ll choose a winner to send the vibrator of their dreams. Will you pick the swirling Sugar Pop? The alluring Black Pearl? Whatever toy you choose, just make sure you do it with confidence…
Although we only have one body to nurture throughout our life, it constantly changes as we age. Mine was skinny as a baby, short and chubby as a teenager and is now slightly taller as an adult. I learned to accept these changes because most of them were temporary at the time. Everything seemed fine until I started having sex with men. The body I grew to love became a list of flaws for another man to correct. Continue Reading
On this throwback podcast from 2015, Emily and Menace are joined by comedian BFF’s, Jake and Amir. They provide different male perspectives on a variety of topics, from sex toys to stamina to sexting like a pro, and even assist Emily in answering some listener emails.