Every man has a moment in their life where they realize something that changes their life forever: yeah, masturbation is cool and all, but it could be SO MUCH BETTER.
For me, this epiphany happened two years ago when I received my first Fleshlight. It completely changed the way I thought about masturbation and pleasure. Everything I knew about self-love could fit in the palm of my right hand—and sometimes the left hand, you know, for a little variety…
Anyway, the Fleshlight opened up a whole new world for me: the magical world of sex toys. Continue Reading
It’s 2016—for the first time in U.S. history a woman has sealed the presidential nomination of a major party, and there’s now an Uber for ladies, by ladies. You can even get condoms delivered straight to your door (thus avoiding the need to put on pants and make the journey to the nearest corner store.) Continue Reading
For those of us who have been self-loving for a while, we tend to develop our go-to moves and stick with them. If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it—right? WRONG.
Learning how to touch yourself is some of the most important work you can do. And if you think about it, you’re never really done learning. There are so many paths to self-pleasure, you owe it to yourself to explore them all. Continue Reading
In case you haven’t heard, May is National Masturbation Month! That doesn’t mean that there’s now a perfect excuse to ditch work, buy an extra pack of batteries, and spend the whole month in bed (although there’s nothing wrong with taking a “personal” day once and awhile). No, the true spirit of Masturbation Month goes much deeper…
Did you know that masturbation is an actual a skill you can improve with practice? Although it sounds weird, it’s completely true.
Just like sex, the more you do it, the more you’ll find out about what turns you on and gets you to that amazing climax. In fact, for many people , effective masturbation is the key to unlocking a great sex life. It allows you to get to know yourself, how you like to be touched and what type of stimulation you need with absolutely no one around to make you feel self-conscious. Plus, the more orgasms you crank out alone, the more orgasms you’re likely have with a partner. Continue Reading
With masturbation month coming up fast (yes, this is the first of many masturbation puns), I think it’s about time we talk about orgasms.
Orgasms are, in my personal opinion, one of the greatest gifts you can give. They don’t cost anything, they’re calorie-free and they’re a hell of a lot cheaper than a Valium prescription. Continue Reading
All women are different, from the clothes we wear to the music we listen to to the guys we like, and even… how we orgasm. In fact, some of us ladies still haven’t figured that part out yet, (don’t worry, you will).
That’s why there are so many different kinds of toys and products to choose from. There are dildos and clitoral vibrators, g-spot vibrators and butt plugs, and so many more. And then there’s the rabbit, which has a clitoral vibe as well as a g-spot vibe. I’ve tried a rabbit-style vibrator before and was not all that impressed, so when I was given the Rabbit Habit Original Deluxe from Vibratex, I didn’t expect much. After careful testing, however, it was clear how wrong I was to underestimate the Rabbit’s abilities. Continue Reading
Q: Dear Emily,
Thanks to you, I am now a woman with several sex toys. I have recently fallen in love with my Magic Wand vibrator, and it has totally changed things for me in that I can now not only orgasm, but have multiple orgasms! But now I’m wondering.. Is it bad that I only ever want to use my vibrator to masturbate? The things is, I’ve heard rumors about vibrators actually desensitizing the clitoris, and now I’m worried that I’m ruining my vagina! Is this true? Whenever I go back to using my hands, it takes SO long to get there and I’m not even sure if I’m climaxing. Has it already started? Am I addicted to my vibrator? Help!
Vibrator Obsessed, 22
Have you ever heard people saying they want to last longer in bed? Did you ever think they were just complaining to begin with? I guess it depends on whom they’re sleeping with. Men orgasm fairly quickly after about 5-6 minutes compared to women who orgasm after 15-20 minutes, meaning that many women may not even reach orgasm before their partners finish. On behalf of men all over the world, I apologize ladies.