Q: Dear Emily,
Thanks to you, I am now a woman with several sex toys. I have recently fallen in love with my Magic Wand vibrator, and it has totally changed things for me in that I can now not only orgasm, but have multiple orgasms! But now I’m wondering.. Is it bad that I only ever want to use my vibrator to masturbate? The things is, I’ve heard rumors about vibrators actually desensitizing the clitoris, and now I’m worried that I’m ruining my vagina! Is this true? Whenever I go back to using my hands, it takes SO long to get there and I’m not even sure if I’m climaxing. Has it already started? Am I addicted to my vibrator? Help!
Vibrator Obsessed, 22
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Have you ever heard people saying they want to last longer in bed? Did you ever think they were just complaining to begin with? I guess it depends on whom they’re sleeping with. Men orgasm fairly quickly after about 5-6 minutes compared to women who orgasm after 15-20 minutes, meaning that many women may not even reach orgasm before their partners finish. On behalf of men all over the world, I apologize ladies.
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HAPPY MASTURBATION MONTH!
The month of May is a very special one. It sits between the spring and summer, the weather is beautiful, flowers are blooming, and we all appreciate our mothers a little bit extra. Something most people do not know about marvelous May however, is that it is International Masturbation Month! Self-love is in the air! Everyone thinks about it, most of us do it, but how many of us celebrate the sensational act of solo sex? The answer: NOT ENOUGH! There are so many wonderful things about self-stimulation to be happy about! Our friends at AdamandEve.com have provided a couple very interesting infographics highlighting some very interesting statistics and facts about chokin’ the chicken and flickin’ the bean.
Posted by Laurie Magers
Forget the holiday season – Here at the Sex With Emily office, masturbation month is our busiest time of year!
Like little self-loving elves, we’ve been running around to gather all the top masturbation tips, tricks and products to help you have the best May ever! From the most luxurious lubes on the market to the latest in sex toy technology, this month is all about your pleasure.. Which is why I have to tell you about my latest sex toy obsession.
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There are three moments in your adult life that are truly the most memorable: There’s graduating, moving out on your own, and finding your G-spot. Well recently, I was able to add “finding my G-Spot” to my list of accomplishments.
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If you’re the proud owner of your very own Fleshlight, I’m guessing the only “coming” you’re concerned about is probably your own. And who could blame you? With it’s patented skin-like material, unique suction-controlling design and discreet appearance, the Fleshlight is truly a stroke of genius (ha ha) and is a must-have for any guy! But did you ever stop to consider how the #1 selling sex toy for men came to be?
They say to invent and sell a worthwhile product, you have to create a problem and then solve it. Well back in the early 1990’s, Fleshlight inventor Steve Shubin, was not expecting to be the most successful man in the male masturbation industry. He really just wanted to have sex with his wife. But upon learning that his wife could not have sex with him for the duration of her pregnancy (which was in its first month Steve realized that he did, in fact, have a problem.
Looking at a long 9 months of no sex, Steve found himself searching for some way to satisfy his sexual needs. He asked his wife if she would be creeped out if he found something to replace her sexually; they both had a good laugh about it, but the idea had already taken root, and was beginning to grow into a pretty damn good solution.
Posted by Madison
Emily is at the Adult Novelty Manufacturers Expo with sex toy buyer Coyote Days. Today the two are taking a look at the Black Pearl from Vibratex available at Good Vibrations.
The Black Pearl offers gentle, yet powerful vibration through its slender shaft to its rounded pearl, placing tantalizing stimulation just where it belongs. And the bowed handle is perfect for nudging the perineum and offering leverage for those who want more.
What is the Prostate?
It’s a rigid mound of flesh inside the anal canal that’s about the size of a small walnut. It is located roughly two inches in, hugging the urethra and tucked under the bladder. The prostate is responsible for making up some of the ingredients in a man’s ejaculate, which is why it is such an experience to have it stimulated.
Posted by Lauren
I have a confession to make: I love my vibrator. I have had one trusty vibrating Bullet for three years, and I love it as much now as I did the day I got it. However, when presented with the prospect of picking a new sex toy, I knew that it was time to branch out and try something different. I had already conquered the clitoral vibrator, so it was time to move on from the C-Spot to something a little trickier to find: the G-Spot.
When it comes to intercourse, I am one of the lucky ladies who can have orgasms vaginally. However, I have never had the pleasure (haha) of experiencing a G-Spot orgasm from a non-penile source. And so, I embarked on my quest for the perfect G-Spot vibrator- a quest that ended with a twist.
Posted by Madison
In case you don’t already know (c’mon…), PornHub is the premier online destination for adult entertainment. Recently, the hugely popular website released an exciting call to its oh so loyal fans. PornHub is challenging you to be their new creative director!
The brilliant minds at PornHub asked for high-quality designs that while being G-rated and “safe for work,” were also exciting, thought-provoking and entertaining. These ideas are intended to be featured on TV, online videos, magazines, billboards, and more. The contest received over 3,000 submissions which have been narrowed down to the top 15.
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I know, I know, you’ve heard me talk about vibrators for years. Today I’m sharing the sex accessories you must add to your collection. Only if you want even better sex of course. And who doesn’t?
There are so many different toys that you can try to enhance the pleasure you already experience. The best part: you can use these alone or with your partner to add a little bit of extra fun to your sex life!
Time to think outside your sex box. Here we go!
Posted by Lauren