In case you haven’t heard, May is National Masturbation Month! That doesn’t mean that there’s now a perfect excuse to ditch work, buy an extra pack of batteries, and spend the whole month in bed (although there’s nothing wrong with taking a “personal” day once and awhile). No, the true spirit of Masturbation Month goes much deeper…
Did you know that masturbation is an actual a skill you can improve with practice? Although it sounds weird, it’s completely true.
Just like sex, the more you do it, the more you’ll find out about what turns you on and gets you to that amazing climax. In fact, for many people , effective masturbation is the key to unlocking a great sex life. It allows you to get to know yourself, how you like to be touched and what type of stimulation you need with absolutely no one around to make you feel self-conscious. Plus, the more orgasms you crank out alone, the more orgasms you’re likely have with a partner. Continue Reading
With masturbation month coming up fast (yes, this is the first of many masturbation puns), I think it’s about time we talk about orgasms.
Orgasms are, in my personal opinion, one of the greatest gifts you can give. They don’t cost anything, they’re calorie-free and they’re a hell of a lot cheaper than a Valium prescription. Continue Reading
All women are different, from the clothes we wear to the music we listen to to the guys we like, and even… how we orgasm. In fact, some of us ladies still haven’t figured that part out yet, (don’t worry, you will).
That’s why there are so many different kinds of toys and products to choose from. There are dildos and clitoral vibrators, g-spot vibrators and butt plugs, and so many more. And then there’s the rabbit, which has a clitoral vibe as well as a g-spot vibe. I’ve tried a rabbit-style vibrator before and was not all that impressed, so when I was given the Rabbit Habit Original Deluxe from Vibratex, I didn’t expect much. After careful testing, however, it was clear how wrong I was to underestimate the Rabbit’s abilities. Continue Reading
Q: Dear Emily,
Thanks to you, I am now a woman with several sex toys. I have recently fallen in love with my Magic Wand vibrator, and it has totally changed things for me in that I can now not only orgasm, but have multiple orgasms! But now I’m wondering.. Is it bad that I only ever want to use my vibrator to masturbate? The things is, I’ve heard rumors about vibrators actually desensitizing the clitoris, and now I’m worried that I’m ruining my vagina! Is this true? Whenever I go back to using my hands, it takes SO long to get there and I’m not even sure if I’m climaxing. Has it already started? Am I addicted to my vibrator? Help!
Vibrator Obsessed, 22
Have you ever heard people saying they want to last longer in bed? Did you ever think they were just complaining to begin with? I guess it depends on whom they’re sleeping with. Men orgasm fairly quickly after about 5-6 minutes compared to women who orgasm after 15-20 minutes, meaning that many women may not even reach orgasm before their partners finish. On behalf of men all over the world, I apologize ladies.
HAPPY MASTURBATION MONTH!
The month of May is a very special one. It sits between the spring and summer, the weather is beautiful, flowers are blooming, and we all appreciate our mothers a little bit extra. Something most people do not know about marvelous May however, is that it is International Masturbation Month! Self-love is in the air! Everyone thinks about it, most of us do it, but how many of us celebrate the sensational act of solo sex? The answer: NOT ENOUGH! There are so many wonderful things about self-stimulation to be happy about! Our friends at AdamandEve.com have provided a couple very interesting infographics highlighting some very interesting statistics and facts about chokin’ the chicken and flickin’ the bean.
Forget the holiday season – Here at the Sex With Emily office, masturbation month is our busiest time of year!
Like little self-loving elves, we’ve been running around to gather all the top masturbation tips, tricks and products to help you have the best May ever! From the most luxurious lubes on the market to the latest in sex toy technology, this month is all about your pleasure.. Which is why I have to tell you about my latest sex toy obsession.
There are three moments in your adult life that are truly the most memorable: There’s graduating, moving out on your own, and finding your G-spot. Well recently, I was able to add “finding my G-Spot” to my list of accomplishments.
If you’re the proud owner of your very own Fleshlight, I’m guessing the only “coming” you’re concerned about is probably your own. And who could blame you? With it’s patented skin-like material, unique suction-controlling design and discreet appearance, the Fleshlight is truly a stroke of genius (ha ha) and is a must-have for any guy! But did you ever stop to consider how the #1 selling sex toy for men came to be?
They say to invent and sell a worthwhile product, you have to create a problem and then solve it. Well back in the early 1990’s, Fleshlight inventor Steve Shubin, was not expecting to be the most successful man in the male masturbation industry. He really just wanted to have sex with his wife. But upon learning that his wife could not have sex with him for the duration of her pregnancy (which was in its first month Steve realized that he did, in fact, have a problem.
Looking at a long 9 months of no sex, Steve found himself searching for some way to satisfy his sexual needs. He asked his wife if she would be creeped out if he found something to replace her sexually; they both had a good laugh about it, but the idea had already taken root, and was beginning to grow into a pretty damn good solution.