I’ve been with my boyfriend for a while, and in most areas we’re very sexually compatible. But lately there’s been a problem in the blow job department: he takes FOOOOOOOREVER to finish. Don’t get me wrong, I love going down on a guy. I know from experience that I’m good at it, but with him my poor jaw gets tired and cramps up. Giving head is becoming a chore! What can I do to…speed up the process? Help!
Thank you! Lockjawed in Los Angeles
As much as we would love for every guy to be an expert in cunnilingus, that dream is a far cry from reality. We know you’re not mind readers, and vaginas are about as similar as snowflakes. What works for one dame may not work for them all.
When done correctly, oral sex gives all the parts of the vulva the attention they deserve, and shows us that you want us to be just as sexually satisfied as yourselves. Needless to say, in most of your relationships, being less than amateur at going down on your girl can cause sexual chemistry to sizzle out. Continue Reading
Happy 4th of July weekend, everybody!
How time flies… It seems like just yesterday, I was advising you on how to sex up the most popular couples’ holiday of the year (thank god Valentine’s Day has passed, am I right?)
Now we have reached another important landmark, but this one has an entirely new twist. Because instead of lighting off bottle rockets at BBQ’s to commemorate yet another couple-heavy holiday, we are instead celebrating the anniversary of a historical UNcoupling. Continue Reading
When done correctly, a blow job can be the perfect weapon to have in your arsenal. It’s hot, it’s intimate and has the power to catapult you to new realms of ‘dream girl’ territory, not to mention inspire your partner to return the favor. But more importantly, a great blow job can be a lot of fun! Continue Reading
The road to truly spectacular sex is a two-way street. Sometimes, you’ve gotta give a little to get a little—So why not give and get at the same time? That’s why 69 is a fan-favorite in the bedroom. In this position, we’re able to provide a partner with continuous oral pleasure without sacrificing a moment of our own.
Despite its popularity, there are many who still shy away from 69. It’s true, the actual positioning can be awkward (even though they make it look so easy in porn). Some find themselves too distracted by the oral stimulation they’re receiving to perform the task at hand, and vice-versa. Not to mention the whole, “fear of being smothered when you’re on the bottom” thing…Anxiety can definitely be a mood killer! Continue Reading
Have you ever heard that saying “Sex is like pizza – Even when it’s bad, it’s still good”? While this may be true for most, there is one exception to that rule: Oral sex. When done correctly, a blow job can be the perfect weapon to have in your arsenal. It’s hot, it’s intimate and has the power to catapult you to new realms of ‘dream girl’ territory. When done poorly, however.. A blow job can go from a delicious meal to one of those sad cold Lunchables pizzas – Vaguely reminiscent of the real thing, but still totally dissatisfying.
This wednesday, July 16th, I’ll be hosting my “How to Blow (His Mind)” workshop at Hustler Hollywood. We’ll be talking about oral sex tips, sex toy recommendations, masturbation and everything in between. You can RSVP to email@example.com So, I was inspired by my workshop as well as a recent episode of Loveline, in which Mike Catherwood, Dr. Drew and I discuss the ever popular blow job, I’m curious about what you think fellatio?
English professor turned gay pornstar, Conner Habib, visits the Sex With Emily show to celebrate Steak and Blow Job Day with tips on how to give the best blow job and overall insights on how to be a great lover. Continue Reading
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