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Q: Dear Emily:

I’m a gay woman who can’t really get off from vaginal penetration, but I like anal penetration. Some partners might have been surprised, but most have being willing to penetrate me anally.

Now I’m dating a new woman who’s nine years older than me, and she’s having a hard time wrapping her mind around my request. She says she doesn’t want to do it because she doesn’t want to hurt me, but I keep telling her I’ve already done it and can walk her through it.

I’d hate for this to be the end of our relationship. Can I do anything to reassure her that I’ll be OK and even enjoy it?

Thanks!
Jan, 24

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Screen Shot 2016-08-25 at 3.47.48 PMLike a lot of women, I didn’t have the most pleasurable introduction to anal play. I was pressured, unprepared, and as a result, found myself in a fair amount of pain. My experience left me figuratively scarred and utterly apprehensive to re-approach any sexual rear-entry. But as I’ve grown sexually and personally, one of my ongoing goals has been opening doors that I had hastily deemed permanently closed. For me, an upstanding symbol of this sexual renaissance is the glorious butt plug. Continue Reading

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Anal Sex: It has been called the new frontier of sexual exploration, and it just might be. Recent sex surveys show that roughly 1 in 3 people have tried it, suggesting that more women are opening up their backdoors. And yet, say the phrase “anal sex” in a room full of women and watch each one subconsciously tense up.

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IMG_8355In this podcast, Emily answers some of your top sex and relationship questions. Today’s topics include open relationships, bondage, exes and yet another question (or two) on anal play! Plus, a lively discussion on the rising trend of college webcam girls, a firsthand lesson in Sexting with Emily and a story of how oral sex is saving lives.

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