Today’s show teaches you how to feel better about yourself, paving the way to stronger self-confidence and a better sex life.
Emily is joined by Elle Chase, a sex educator and leader in the body-positive movement. From her award-winning Tumblr to her popular sex class “Big Beautiful Sex”, Elle is all about helping men and women feel sexy at any size. Together, she and Emily explore the topics of body image, erotica and the importance of self-love, and provide tips you need to get the sex life you’ve always dreamed of.
We’ve all flipped through Cosmo tips on what men want in bed, whether it’s a twist of the wrist during a hand job or sexy eye contact during oral sex. Sure, technique is important, but Cosmo’s glossing over what guys want more than anything— a woman who is genuinely into sex and knows what she wants. Men don’t want you to just go through the motions. No one wants to have sex with a robot (well most people, anyway). Men want a woman who actually wants to have sex, initiates it, enjoys it, and is open to new things.
5 WAYS TO UP YOUR GAME
1. Know What You Want
If knowing what you want makes you better in bed, your first homework assignment is to figure out exactly how you an orgasm (you might want to have three or four orgasms just to make sure you’ve got your technique down).
It doesn’t matter if you’ve had sex one time or more times than you can count (I mean really, who can keep track?). You need to explore your own body before you can have truly great sex with another person. Continue Reading
But we know that’s not going to happen- at least the simultaneous orgasm part.
Because, in reality, he’s thinking, “Please, let me get through the next seven minutes without ejaculating,” while she’s thinking, “Please, just this once let me have an orgasm during intercourse.” Not to mention the guys who also have a hard time orgasming during sex. (That happens far more frequently than you think.) Continue Reading
According to porn star Joey Ray, porn star sex isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. No one wants it to last that long, that hard. Porn focuses on performance, not pleasure. You might learn some fancy moves from porn, but you’re not going to learn how to truly pleasure a woman.
So, how do you please a woman? Continue Reading
I’m excited to finally announce my new intimate care line – Emily & Tony – that will get you in the mood, give you confidence, and get you ready for sex, of course. I created Emily & Tony with my friend Tony Sosnick, founder of Anthony Brands, to help improve your love life.
To begin, let’s get you in the mood…
Let’s talk about how to please a man in bed, because I’m always talking about how to give women orgasms. I know that making a man orgasm isn’t exactly rocket science, but women can be a lot more creative when pleasuring a penis. Continue Reading
Almost everyone is orgasm obsessed. But it’s hard to enjoy everything else when all you’re thinking about is getting to that wonderful feeling at the end. It’s all about the journey.
Stop being so orgasm obsessed! Calm down, slow down and listen to these tips on how to enjoy sex more and yes, have orgasms. Continue Reading
Even sex gets boring if you’re doing the same thing with the same partner every night; that’s why roleplay is so much fun! You feel like you’re having sex with a famous doctor or a sexy police officer instead of your husband Bob.
The key to roleplay is letting go of your inhibitions. You’re not a High School math teacher tonight, you’re Princess Leia damn it! Here are four fun ways to get into roleplay.
I asked everyone I know, and don’t know for that matter, to tell me what they wish they had learned in Sex Ed. Instead of describing sex as a lethal baby-making activity, many agree that Sed Ed should’ve said something about the possibility for pleasure. Instead of presenting abstinence as the only option for teens, perhaps Sex Education should promote sex positivity, consent, and masturbation. I guess that’s just a little too progressive for High School education. If we the people did Sex Education, here’s what we’d teach: Continue Reading