Even in the “hookup culture,” the stigma still remains when it comes to casual sex. On today’s show, Emily’s here to reframe the way we think about casual sex– whether you are all for it, hesitant, or it just isn’t your thing.
Dating: How do any of us do it? And more importantly, how do we do it right? On today’s show Emily is joined by writer, talk-show host, and overall badass Zara Barrie to unpack the hot topic of dating in the digital age — the good, the bad, and what it means for us as we try to find our match.
To online date or not to online date? For the select few of you that have been living under a rock for the past decade, that is the question. On this show, Emily puts the dating app taboo to bed, giving you a few pointers to help you get lucky online, and updating us on her own cyber-romance encounters.
I have always struggled with guilt. Maybe it’s because I break too many rules. Maybe it’s because I was raised Catholic. Maybe it’s because I’m afraid self gratification marks me a narcissist. I don’t know exactly how I arrived to such a steady relationship with the feelings of guilt, shame and regret, but they are as constant in my life as blinking and breathing. And when it comes to sex, the guilt has always weighed a little more. Not only did I put it on myself, I felt that my friends, my partners, and society at large shamed me for my sexual appetite, orientation, and experience. I always wanted too much from too many people, and for some odd reason, was undeserving of the pleasure I unconditionally derived from sex. Sexual guilt is a buzzkill, and I’ve made it my mission to overcome this behemoth in the name of sexual confidence and self-love.
I’m a 20-year-old girl from England. As far as I know, I’m completely straight and in love with my long-term boyfriend. (OK, there was one time that I hooked up with a girl, but I decided it’s just not for me.)
Here’s the thing: When I masturbate (and even sometimes when my boyfriend is going down on me), I think about girls having sex with girls. Mainly, I imagine situations where a girl is having lesbian sex for the first time. Am I normal?! Am I even straight? There are absolutely no issues with my boyfriend and I really don’t think I’m gay. Am I maybe bisexual? Am I alone?
Bi-Curious Britney in Britain
In this classic episode of Sex With Emily, the iconic porn star Nina Hartley joins the show opens up about her start in porn, non-monogamy, feminism, and so much more. From handjobs to polyamory and everything in between, nothing is off limits for this dynamic duo! Continue Reading
Happy New Year, lovers! To ring in 2016, Emily welcomes fellow blogger, podcaster and former Playmate Jessa Hinton to the show. The two talk about their sexual pasts and relationships present, and discuss better dating practices for the new year. Continue Reading
This week, Emily is joined by guest co-host Lynette Carolla from the For Crying Out Loud podcast. Together, the dynamic duo ponder some of the most popular yet puzzling sexual predicaments, from group sex to vibrators to blowjobs and beyond. Nothing is off the table on today’s show!
Enjoy our first video podcast with TradioV, you can watch it below. Emily talks about narrowly avoiding a threesome with a self-proclaimed “polyamorous slut” on Miss Advised. Menace shares his theory that any woman on the planet can get laid. Emily agrees that it’s easier for women but it’s difficult for many women to find someone they actually want to sleep with. Emily answers listener’s questions about virginity, expanded orgasms, and bad boys… Continue Reading