Dear Dr. Emily,
Do you have any tips for lasting longer in bed? I have always had trouble climaxing too soon in the bedroom and would like to last longer. It’s not something that my girlfriend has brought up as a problem for her or anything, but I can’t help wanting to last longer in bed.
Sincerely,
Seeking Sexual Stamina
You’ve heard me talk about the importance of a woman’s orgasm but you’re still wondering, ‘what about men?’ On today’s show, I give tips and tricks for both genders on how to achieve their most powerful orgasm yet. Then, I share toys specifically for male pleasure.
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It’s Alternative August at Sex With Emily and that means I’m focusing on all the alternative ways to be in a “relationship.” Whether you’re open, polyamorous, swinging or you just need new ways to approach a relationship in a pandemic, Alt August is here for you. In this podcast I talk to my guests about their open relationships and how they navigate their boundaries, attraction, and transcend jealousy.
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When you think of foreplay, do you think touching, kissing, massaging? And do you think that happens in the bedroom as simply a perfunctory “warmup” for the big deed? Like, say, 10 minutes worth?
Well, think again. Foreplay isn’t just for the bedroom. In fact, it can be a geographically diverse series of events! It should even start wayyyy before sex.
This article will help you prime yourself and your partner for a sexy night. Here are some things you can do to make the leading up to sex (almost) as good as the sex itself.
Have you ever wanted to last longer in bed? Ever get into the groove and then prematurely get to your destination? Just looking for a more intense orgasm? Then edging might be for you.
Here are some tips and tricks to not only work on your stamina, but to practice the art of edging – keeping yourself at bay before the fireworks.
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Most people want to have vibrantly happy and exciting sex lives, and are seeking the magic keys to the orgasmic kingdom.
On our quest for pleasure, we seek new toys, new techniques, new locations, new positions, and even new dynamics.
However, few people actually know that the potentially sexiest word is already in their everyday vocabulary.
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So, you read the orgasm denial blog and learning the fundamentals got you all fired up.
You tried some edging during solo and/or partnered sex, and want to explore some kinkier expressions of orgasm denial with a partner, but you’re not sure where to start.
Don’t worry, I got you. Today orgasm denial gets kinky.
Use these tools to have a fantastic session (or a whole week) with your favorite kinky pal.
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For some people, orgasms are a fun and easy experience.
Others have written off the possibility of achieving them altogether.
Some find it hard to hold off their orgasms and the whole process of sex feels stressful because of it.
All in all, orgasms can be a tricky business.
Which is why when I mention orgasm denial, people usually have a lot of questions for me and feelings about it.
So today we are going to explore the exquisite torture (bear with me) of orgasm denial.
How’s advanced is your ‘clit-eracy’ knowledge? There is a whole world of amazing language to describe different clitoral stimulation techniques, whether alone, with a partner, or a whole group of partners.
Many vulva owners and their partners have some tried-and-true methods for clitoral stimulation, but that doesn’t leave a lot of room for playful pleasure exploration, so today we are exploring the vocabulary of clit touches.
Language is a powerful sexual tool, whether you use these terms solo to explore your pleasure, with an existing partner for some fun exercises, or with a new partner to describe what types of touch you enjoy receiving.
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We’re big fans of being well schooled in the realm of pleasure, so here are a few key sex terms to familiarize yourself with, in order to never feel lost in the bedroom again!
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