Pleasure-Packed Valentine’s Day Gift Guide

Screen Shot 2016-01-27 at 10.54.10 PMWe all dream of surprising that sexy someone in our life with a Valentine’s Day gift they’ve always wanted, but couldn’t ask for. We want it to be meaningful and intimate, something more sophisticated than a mixtape but more romantic than, say, a food processor. It has to be something that communicates a very specific message: “I love you, I care about you and I didn’t get this 12 hours ago at Target”… You know who you are.

Though Valentine’s Day is generally a big holiday for jewelry, clothing and scented toiletries, I personally believe in giving a gift that can provide your partner (and yourself) with more than just a night of pleasure. Candy and cards only go so far, but multiple orgasms? That’s a gift she won’t soon forget! After all, when was the last time a woman cried out “Oh God, YES!” when receiving a gift card to Nordstrom? Exactly.

Whether you’re searching for the perfect present to show your partner how much you love them, or are simply looking to spread the self-love this Valentine’s Day, I’ve got pleasure-packed gifts for everyone on your list!


Screen Shot 2016-01-27 at 11.03.12 PMFor the girl who has everything (except a g-spot orgasm):

We’ve all got that woman in our lives that is SO hard to shop for. Well let me tell you, this is one thing your lady has wanted since she first blossomed into womanhood (or picked up her first copy of Cosmo, whichever came first).. A G-spot orgasm! But since those babies are a little difficult to wrap, you can always gift her with the tool that’s sure to get here there: The We-Vibe Rave.

The Rave is a sensually sculpted vibrator that is every bit as powerful as your average wand, but with a twist! It’s beautiful asymmetrical design leads directly to your G-spot, while it’s soft edges stimulate every inch of the vaginal canal and the 10 preset vibration modes produce powerful pulsations to rock your world. Plus, this amazing vibe can be paired with the WeConnect app on your smartphone, making it the perfect gift for partner play!



For the curious couple:

Thanks to the rise of the 50 Shades franchise, BDSM seems to be the item on everyone’s mind. Since the film’s release last year, vanilla couples everywhere have been daydreaming of lip bites and silk ties, red rooms and kink supplies. But while Mr. Grey has a way of making it all look easy, many couples find themselves overwhelmed when trying to bring their kinky fantasies to life. That’s why Fleshlight’s newest kinky combo pack is perfect for the couples who are looking to explore to their kinkier side!

If your lover’s eyes lit up when Christian Grey busted out the blindfold, just wait till they see the Kinky Kit! It comes loaded with everything a couple needs to step up their bedroom routine, including the Fleshlight Flight, a bottle of Fleshlube, a bullet vibrator, CrazyGirl’s weighted Pleasure Balls, furry handcuffs, a blindfold and an adorable little flogger. Take turns tying each other up and experimenting with the different sensations!  



gbSGrNr1For the lube connoisseur:

It’s just like I always say — you can never be too rich, too thin or have too much lube! From solo play to foreplay to the most passionate sex sessions, the right lubricant can make every sexual experience exponentially more pleasurable. Unfortunately, not all lubes are created equally. They tend to fall somewhere on a spectrum, from high quality sex gloss to bargain bin jelly, and more often than not, you get what you pay for.

Instead of springing for another designer silk tie, give your guy a gift he really needs: A beautiful bottle of Uberlube. It is my belief that every dude should experience luxury lube at some point in their life, and Uberlube certainly delivers. It’s long-lasting silicone formula keeps everything smooth and slick during sex, but never sticky. Plus it comes in an elegant glass bottle that he’ll be proud to leave on his nightstand!



dahlia-vibrator-vibratexFor the single gal:

The holidays can be a bit of a downer for the single girl, and Valentine’s Day represents the final hump. If she can just make it to February 15th, it’s nothing but clear skies and wild nights until Thanksgiving rolls back around. But instead of huddling up underneath the covers and waiting for the winter thaw, why not direct your attention to more pleasurable bedroom activities?

We’ve all seen that episode of Sex in the City where Charlotte bids adieu to the terrible lovers of her sexual present and surrenders to the orgasmic power of the Rabbit Habit. Well, Vibratex has created another dual-action delight for your self-loving pleasure! The Dahlia is a fun, flirty twist on the popular Rabbit vibrator – It’s pink, it’s pretty, and it packs a multi-orgasmic punch. The external butterfly appendage flutters against the clitoris while the smooth, rotating head swirls against the G-Spot, providing you with the blended orgasm you’ve always dreamed of. See you in Spring!




Screen Shot 2016-01-27 at 11.01.51 PMFor the guy that loves his doggy style:

It’s no secret that every man’s favorite position usually involves his partner being down on all fours. Blame it on biology or maybe even pornography, but you can’t deny, the majority of men are big fans of doing it doggy style. Unfortunately for their female counterparts, this position is not known for being particularly orgasmic. It’s an awkward pose that requires a lot of balance and is not particularly flattering. Plus, at the wrong angle, it can be downright uncomfortable. But since it seems to be every guy’s go-to move, women continue to assume the position in the hopes that it will magically hit the right spot. What if I told you that, with one gift, both of your dreams could come true?

Sportsheet’s Doggie Style Strap may seem like a gift for him, but don’t be fooled ladies — This gift is actually YOUR best friend. It is a strap that wraps around your waist and during doggie style, elevating your hips at the perfect angle for your partner to hit your G-spot during sex. It also takes a lot of the pressure off your knees and lower body, making it both more pleasurable AND more comfortable for you. So he gets to enjoy his favorite position, you get to have a G-spot orgasm… Everyone wins with the gift!


For the master multi-tasker:intensity-box-device-gel-325x233

When you’re a GOTG (girl-on-the-go), you’re constantly looking for ways to make things easier, faster and more efficient. That’s why you prep all of your meals a week in advance, check your emails every morning while walking the dog, practice pilates in between loads of laundry… The list goes on and on. The point is, when you’re as busy as you probably are, things like pleasure tend to take a backseat to more multi-taskable activities. Who has time to lay back and masturbate when they could be doing something productive, like working out? Funny you should mention that..

The Intensity from Pour Moi is the ULTIMATE multi-tasker, in that it is both a rabbit vibrator and a kegel exerciser! No need to feel guilty about those 15 minutes spent on your back, because the whole time you were self-loving, the Intensity was using electrostimulation to work out your pelvic floor muscles. And the benefits? More intense and frequent orgasms, for starters!


SWE Video Awards

Screen Shot 2016-01-12 at 4.27.47 PM2015 was a year filled with growth, education, and new experiences, both in the bedroom and at the office… at least for the Sex With Emily team. As winter marches forward into spring, the new year is in full bloom and we find ourselves in one of the fanciest seasons of the year: awards show season. So, as a nod to the Oscars, the Emmys, the Grammys & the Golden Globes, we’re commemorating one of our biggest areas of growth this year: the Sex With Emily YouTube channel.

In case you missed any of our newly produced videos, (or were unaware we even had a channel) we’re giving you another chance to get acquainted with our fun and vivacious videos. Without further ado, the winners of the first SWE Video Awards!



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His & Hers Holiday Gift Guide

db8053c920dcbb06cdb0e0d06247308fThe holiday season is all about appreciating and giving to your loved ones. What better way to show a special someone you care than by giving them the gift of pure pleasure!? These carefully selected toys are top gift picks, whether you’re single or committed. Sex-cessories are the perfect pleasure-packed presents and this guide will help you select the best toys for her and for him. Give the gift of orgasm this holiday season and not only will you feel good about playing sexy Santa, but chances are you’ll get something out of it that feels fantastic, too.




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Confessions of a Handjob Hater

I have a confession to make: I hate giving hand jobs. There, I said it, I’m out. I’ve always found them to be awkward, exhausting and sort of pointless. Why work so hard to do something that any guy could do for himself — and do better, for that matter?

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Fleshlight’s Quickshot is a Girl’s Best Friend

QS-instagramA few weeks ago, I was teaching a workshop at the Hustler Hollywood store in Los Angeles called “Back to Sex Ed Basics” with the intent of covering everything that you WISHED you learned in sex ed, but didn’t.

I always give the option of having the audience submit anonymous questions because, let’s face it, not everyone feels comfortable raising their hand in a room full of strangers, especially to ask questions about sex.

My team arranged the questions in piles labeled by topic, including “Oral sex questions”, “Safe sex questions” and  “Blow Job questions.”

When it came time to address the pressing blow job questions, I picked up the pile and sifted through the submissions only to find something remarkable. Every single card in the pile had a variation of the same question: “How do I work through my gag reflex when performing oral sex on my partner?.”

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Back-to-School Supplies for Adults

Screen Shot 2015-09-03 at 11.24.24 PMWhether you’re packing up to return to dorm life or have graduated to the school of life, there’s no argument that there are plenty of things left to learn, both in and out of the bedroom. This month, we’re going to be taking it way back to the basics of real-life sex ed: knowing exactly what you like and gearing up with what you need to get there.

True this class doesn’t come with syllabus, there’s no set course description to guide your way, but lucky you – You are going to get a list of required materials to help you get an A+ (and not just for effort). 

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Sex Toy Review: Intense & Unplugged

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Today is everyone’s favorite day at the Sex With Emily podcast. That’s right, it’s Sex Toy Review Day and the gang’s all here! Emily and her trusty team are reviewing innovative new products, and providing new insight on some old favorites. They each share their experiences and give helpful hints to guide you to your sex toy success!

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Make Self-Love Longer


Have you ever heard people saying they want to last longer in bed? Did you ever think they were just complaining to begin with? I guess it depends on whom they’re sleeping with. Men orgasm fairly quickly after about 5-6 minutes compared to women who orgasm after 15-20 minutes, meaning that many women may not even reach orgasm before their partners finish. On behalf of men all over the world, I apologize ladies.

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How I Lost My Fleshlight Virginity

images Before I stepped into the world of Sex With Emily, I didn’t know what a Fleshlight was. I had never seen one or heard anyone talking about them. I was aware of a colorful variety of sex accessories, but never considered the existence of such a toy. Then on my first day, I finally saw it . It actually looks like a flashlight, until you take the cap off. They’re intimidating to look at if you’ve never seen one.  I didn’t know what to think about it. Now I do, and boy am I glad.

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Tips for Hot(ter) Summer Sex!


Summer, glorious summer, is finally upon us, and there’s something sexy in the air.

In addition to the great weather and time off, this season brings with it feelings of adventure and opportunity. It’s the perfect time for barbecues, beach trips and bikinis. Plus, it’s a proven fact that everything gets sexier in the summer! There are more people out and about, meaning more opportunities to flirt with someone new. Of if you’re already settled down, summer presents endless opportunities to turn up the heat on your sex life!

No matter where you’re getting busy, or who with, no summer sex-capades would be complete without the necessary tools. Here are five sex tips & tricks that are really worth exploring in the sizzling hot days ahead…

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