Having the courage to ask questions shows that you care about improving your life; whether it’s your love or sex life, you’ve identified something that just isn’t going right, and you want it to be better. On today’s show, Emily is answering all of your quandaries to help give you the knowledge you need for a life full of loving—both in and out of the bedroom.
Pat yourselves on the backs, lovers; so many of you are kicking your bad habits to the curb and making better choices for a better sex life! On today’s Quickie, Emily shares even more of the Spring Cleaning responses she loved so much, and (drum roll, please!) reveals the contest winner! Who’s adding a Magic Wand to their sex toy collection? Find out!
Although I don’t remember the first time I stumbled across porn, I was definitely very young and quite uninformed. I’m sure I had but one stray pube, and was most likely beginning to struggle with my sexuality. At the time, porn served as entertainment, really. I didn’t even masturbate to it because, in all honesty, I had no clue what was going on.
Nonetheless, it became a bit of a hobby of mine. And because all the boys at school were talking about it, I felt like I was part of the cool kids’ club. It was fun and innocent (kind of) at the time, but none us thought these images of porn gods and goddesses would skew our perception of the realities of sex.
Porn was our instructional manual, and until sex education came along (or didn’t come along, as the case may be) it was the only source of information we had. Continue Reading
Breasts: They’re beautiful, mesmerizing, and come in all kinds of wonderful shapes and sizes. Although it seems like men are obsessed with them, you’d be surprised how many completely ignore their existence when it comes to getting it on. On today’s show, Emily is doling out some hot boob tips and facts to make sure they’re never forgotten again, along with giving her insight on some of your most titillating sex and relationship inquiries!
If you’re anything like me, you prefer cold weather and cloudy days over scorching sunlight. I’m not a gloomy guy, but I’d rather throw on a jacket during the afternoon than sweat through my jockstrap. Even though the fall and winter seasons don’t get that cold in LA, I still look forward to cozying up at night.
Electric blankets and pricey hot plates might be the trendy way to stay warm, but I’ve always favored old-fashioned body heat. I can only stay so warm by myself, so cuddling next to a partner seems like the rational thing to do, right? As much I love a good cuddle under the sheets, I think a helpful hand or two might do me justice.
A wise man once said that expectations hinder experience, and that’s certainly true when it comes to things between the sheets.
On today’s show Emily and Menace are answering your emails AND voicemails, providing advice and, occasionally, a much-needed reality check. Is your partner falling short in the foreplay department? What’s the best way to get yourself (or a lover) into the mood? And how important are common interests in a lasting relationship?
I’ve been with my boyfriend for a while, and in most areas we’re very sexually compatible. But lately there’s been a problem in the blow job department: he takes FOOOOOOOREVER to finish. Don’t get me wrong, I love going down on a guy. I know from experience that I’m good at it, but with him my poor jaw gets tired and cramps up. Giving head is becoming a chore! What can I do to…speed up the process? Help!
Thank you! Lockjawed in Los Angeles
Sometimes the source of our greatest sexual fears actually comes (or doesn’t) from our harshest critics… Ourselves.
On today’s show, Emily coaches a few listeners out of their heads and into their beds, one email at a time! She and Anderson also discuss the secret to living past 100— it might be sexier than you think! Continue Reading