Confessions of a Handjob Hater

I have a confession to make: I hate giving hand jobs. There, I said it, I’m out. I’ve always found them to be awkward, exhausting and sort of pointless. Why work so hard to do something that any guy could do for himself — and do better, for that matter?

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How to Master Mutual O’s

4c7cb96349e2ced2aff5d2883669ed43Let’s talk about orgasms, or lack thereof, as the case may be. The key ingredient for great sex generally centers around both parties leaving satisfied, yes? According to research published in the Journal of Sex & Martial Therapy (2006), women were about two and a half times more likely to feel sexually satisfied when they achieved orgasm. No surprise there. Unfortunately, this simple task becomes a little more difficult, thanks to something known as the orgasm gap.

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Fleshlight’s Quickshot is a Girl’s Best Friend

QS-instagramA few weeks ago, I was teaching a workshop at the Hustler Hollywood store in Los Angeles called “Back to Sex Ed Basics” with the intent of covering everything that you WISHED you learned in sex ed, but didn’t.

I always give the option of having the audience submit anonymous questions because, let’s face it, not everyone feels comfortable raising their hand in a room full of strangers, especially to ask questions about sex.

My team arranged the questions in piles labeled by topic, including “Oral sex questions”, “Safe sex questions” and  “Blow Job questions.”

When it came time to address the pressing blow job questions, I picked up the pile and sifted through the submissions only to find something remarkable. Every single card in the pile had a variation of the same question: “How do I work through my gag reflex when performing oral sex on my partner?.”

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Sexual Frustrations & Bedroom Bummers

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In this show, Emily is breaking down a variety of sex tips and topics to help you step up your bedroom routine. Today’s topics include the right way to give oral, the wrong way to get busy and tricks to keep your sexual confidence going strong in a long term relationship.


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To Sext or Not to Sext? 5 Rules for Safe Sexting

when-to-sext-w724To sext or not to sext? That is the question… At least, it used to be. These days, it seems like everyone has a naughty text or two stored in their inbox and according to recent research, this assumption is not far off. One 2015 study in particular surveyed 870 Americans, 88% of whom admitted to sexting at least once in their life. And these weren’t just millennials!

With the rise in dating apps and social media, it’s no surprise that sexting has become a pivotal part of the mating process. When done correctly, sexting can be seen as the modern-day equivalent of a steamy love letter, minus the debilitating hand cramp (Unless of course… Well, you know!) But send the wrong sext to the wrong person and you’ll be forever saved in their mind as awkward, offensive or downright skeezy.

So how do you know if your sexually explicit message will be received with a sizzle or returned with a restraining order? The success of any sext comes down to two important factors: content and context. What are you sexting? Why are you sexting it? And who are you sending sexually explicit messages to?

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Your Sex Playlist: Music to Make Love To


17Usually, sex makes sounds. Sometimes, it’s nice to cut through the moaning, grunting, squishing and slapping with some good old-fashioned music. Whether you’re just trying to conceal your loud love-making from your roommates in the living room, or you’re really looking to set the sexy-time mood, having a sex playlist is essential.

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College Sex Survival Guide

collegehookupsbedAs someone who just recently put college in her rearview mirror (okay, it was two years ago, but still…) this time of year still hits me with a wave of nostalgia.

In grade school, September brought with it the memories of pencil boxes, crisp white notebook paper and the mandatory Lisa Frank trapper-keeper (don’t act like you don’t know what I’m talking about). Now, I can’t breathe in the crisp autumn air without picturing Orientation Week keg parties, late night dorm room hangouts and the sea of strangers that I would soon call my lovers and friends.

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Ask Emily: Sick of Quickies

0ab38cb90c6c2432daa4b06dc01c22ddDear Emily,

Lately I have found myself not that interested in sex, and I think I know why. My long-time boyfriend and I have very busy schedules, and we don’t have as much time as we used to in the bedroom. As a result, all of our sex sessions end up being what you might call “quickies”. He is totally happy to get in, get out and move on to the next thing, but these interactions just aren’t satisfying for me. So now when he brings up the idea of sex, I make excuses or try to get out of it.

I’ve tried explaining my feelings to him, but he just doesn’t get it. He thinks that I’m not interested in him sexually, but that’s not the case – I just feel like I need more! Am I being totally unreasonable? What can we do to make sex enjoyable again, for both of us?


Sick of Quickies

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Sex, Love & Lubricant with Carmen Electra

On today’s show, Emily welcomes Baywatch babe turned full blown pop culture icon Carmen Electra into the studio. Carmen takes Emily on a walk down memory lane from her humble Ohio beginnings to her experience in the music industry, all the way to creating her new luxurious line of lubrication, Electra Lube.


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How to Play Balls

calvin_klein_underwear_adIt’s no secret that I’m a big fan of the male anatomy. In fact, I don’t even have a favorite body part because I love it all. Is that a crime? Of course not! What’s your favorite body part on a man? Does anything stand out to you? Is it his chest, arms, legs or neck? Perhaps it’s the penis. Most men love their penis and appreciate when their partners love it too.

The penis is the main event most of the time, but I don’t think it deserves all the attention. Now don’t get me wrong, I love a good penis too, but I think his little buddies down there are just as great. It’s time they got some love!

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